Quiet community activist dies
PROUD LIFE / Stephen McManus' partner says his 'integrity was second to none'
Jeremy Hainsworth / Vancouver / Thursday, June 18, 2009
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HE NEVER MEANT TO BE AN ACTIVIST. 'He was just Steve as he was. Completely honest and above board. Very gentle,' says Fred Nicoll of his partner Stephen McManus (above), who died last weekend. McManus was a strong advocate for gay men's health and Xt
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 Stephen McManus, an ardent supporter of retaining St Paul's Hospital in the West End and Xtra West's 2005 Community Hero of the Year, has died at 57.

 

Long-time friend Glyn Townson says McManus passed away on the Jun 13 weekend.

 

"He was very passionate. He was a very good friend," Townson says. "He would take time just to be with people. Those are qualities we don't often see in our community. He was very giving."

 

Townson says McManus died of concurrent health issues related to AIDS.

 

McManus is survived by his partner of a decade, Fred Nicoll.

 

Asked what he'll remember most of McManus, Nicoll says "his bright blue eyes."

 

He says he admired his partner's "stick-to-it-iveness."

 

"His integrity was second to none," Nicoll says. "He was just Steve as he was. Completely honest and above board. Very gentle."

 

The couple met at The Centre on Davie and Bute St, Nicoll says. McManus was volunteering, emptying wastebaskets.

 

Over the past decade, McManus gained a significant profile in the West End with his activism work.

 

It was his steadfast work around the hospital as well as the Proud to Quit campaign and the BC Persons with AIDS Society (BCPWA) that helped garner him the Community Hero of the Year award.

 

McManus was modest about his achievements. "I'm not an activist," he told Xtra West at the time.

 

His childhood was spent in North Burnaby where he said he grew up with no sense of community at all.

 

That changed when, in 1975, he came out of the closet and found himself living a new life in Vancouver.

 

Times were different then, though. "We had no protection," says McManus of 1970s Vancouver. "You could be fired for coming out. Most of us were leading double lives."

 

Still, he recalled his coming-out process as "totally magical."

 

He remembered entering bars ("which is where the entire gay community existed in 1975") and "entering another world."

 

Soon he found himself participating in his — and Vancouver's — first Pride Parade.

 

"It was a protest march," he explained. "We marched down Pendrell St because it was the only one we could get."

 

A job in the floral department of a North Shore garden store provided a gay-positive space where McManus' work life and social life could co-exist without fear of censure.

 

McManus also made it his business to work for causes that were socially significant and which directly affected his community.

 

When AIDS appeared in the early 1980s, McManus found a new activist calling.

 

"We held a meeting at the West End Community Centre," he recalled. "I remember the shock in the audience when three people stood up and identified themselves as HIV-positive. We didn't know if they were contagious. We didn't know if we could get it from just being in the room with them."

 

It was around that time that McManus met Townson, now chair of BCPWA, with which McManus was also involved.

 

Townson says McManus "always had something in his back pocket" for his brand of quiet activism.

 

"He had a very quiet wit about him," Townson says. "He wasn't a loud person, but his presence was very noted.

 

"I think his enthusiasm was infectious. When he took something on [he did so] wholeheartedly."

 

McManus' "forte was working quietly behind the scenes and organizing," adds Nicoll.

 

McManus believed that it was activism that provided a sense of community.

 

"Men having sex with men in a vacuum? That's not gay. It takes a village," he said.

 

McManus worked long hours to help make gay culture healthy. In 2004, he co-founded the Save St Paul's Coalition, a grassroots effort to stop Providence Health Care from moving the West End's sole hospital to a new False Creek Flats location east of Main St.

 

The work was vital to him because West End gays, and members of the HIV-positive community in particular, rely heavily on easy access to the hospital's services.

 

While a non-smoker himself, McManus was also an ardent supporter of quit-smoking campaigns specifically tailored to gay people.

 

His Proud to Quit campaign, which festooned the entire Davie Village with colourful advertisements, featured local celebs like drag maven Bill Monroe and DJ Dickey Doo encouraging queers to kick the habit. Nicoll says McManus was proudest of the anti-smoking campaign.

 

West End Residents' Association president Brent Granby says the community has benefited from McManus' participation and drive.

 

"You could always count on him," Granby says. "He had a really subtle way about him... but he had an earnest determination."

 

Vancouver-West End MLA Spencer Herbert praises McManus' involvement in community work an example to others.

 

"The West End and downtown is better for his having lived and been involved," Herbert says. "Save St Paul's and other groups were strengthened by his participation and passion.

 

"That is a loss," Herbert says.

 



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True Heroes
When I read of how people like Stephen McManus and Rick Bebout lived their lives as Gay men for others, I know why we have every reason to celebrate Gay Pride. These are people who decided to do what they could to make lives better for themselves, yes, but more important for others and our whole community. Of course, it can be very easy to just go out and have the fun, to go to the bar and find the next sexual partner, but our lives must not just surround the fun part of being Gay. It is essential we do something to make life better for others both inside and outside the LGBT community. Rick Bebout lived a very activist life. By contrast, Stephen McManus was a reluctant activist. Both men are role models for the rest of us. There is not a shortage of issues. Whether your passion is health services for persons with HIV/AIDS; safe schools for LGBT students; teachers and parents; fighting homophobia and hate; protecting our right to choose to marry a person of the same sex; supporting struggles outside of Canada; or protecting LGBT spaces; find an issue and get involved. Getting involved does not mean even having to come out to protests and marches. Some people cannot be public even yet. However, everyone can do something, even if it is writing a letter to your M.L.A. or M.P., or a prominent religious leaders. We show and celebrate our pride and people like Jim Egan, Chris Bearchell, Rick Bebout and Stephen McManus by continuing their work. This means doing our own part in the ongoing struggle for equality and liberation. We are not there yet!
Wayne Madden, Edmonton Alberta
06/19/09 12:49 PM EST
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My hero
I have only known Steve for a few years, and did not have the honor of knowing him as an activist. When I met him, this was in the recent past and he was dealing with devastating new physical symptoms that changed his life completely. This was the Steve I knew: a man facing challenges with quiet fortitude. We met 2 or 3 times a month for nearly three years, to visit for a few hours. Over that time, I became aware of his story and his values... and he, of mine. What touched me most was the quiet way he had of listening carefully and with wit and compassion. When we went for walks, I saw that he listened in the same way to everyone. When you were talking with Steve, you had his undivided attention. I also loved how every challenge was something worth studying to find a meaningful solution that could help many others. He had a rare gift, the noble blend of left and right hemispheres - the compassionate / scientific mind.. And he never complained despite the medical challenges facing him. He would be frustrated sometimes, but he didn't complain. In our converations, he taught me what it has been like to be a gay man over the past few decades. He told me of the history of the gay movement and shared movies and books that he thought I'd enjoy. We compared the oppression of women to that of gay men and other minorities. We compared the physical challenges we each faced and how others treated us and what that meant. We talked of our spiritual pilgrimages, of books and movies we enjoyed, music, personal growth moments... It was always an absolute JOY to spend a few hours with him quietly talking. Steve, you are my hero. I love you and I miss your laugh and sweet voice. I miss YOU. So much, I miss you. May you rest in peace.... Anne
Anne Celila, Vancouver BC
06/20/09 8:39 PM EST
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