Toronto Catholic parents attack the board's equity policy
NEWS / 'A GSA would open the door to sexual promiscuity and disease': parent
Andrea Houston / Toronto / Saturday, April 30, 2011
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Fifteen-year-old student Matt West is insulted and offended by the blatant homophobia he heard at an April 27 meeting regarding the Toronto Catholic District School Board’s (TCDSB) draft equity and inclusive education policy.

The homophobia didn’t come just from a few parents, West says, who asked that the name of his Toronto Catholic school not be included, to protect his safety. He says some school officials seemed to take pains to keep youth from being heard.

“The people who organized the event didn’t write down any questions or comments,” he tells Xtra. “So that makes me think it was all an act to make us feel like our voice was being heard. [Student] opinions are a minor fact for them.”

“Some of my friends were told not to clap [when students spoke] or speak to the media... It was just a generally horrible meeting.”

The gymnasium at Our Lady of Lourdes Public School on Sherbourne St was packed with approximately 150 parents, trustees, clergy and students. It was a chance for the community to comment or voice concerns on the policy before the final vote May 19.
Approximately 150 parents, trustees, administration, clergy and students packed the gymnasium at Our Lady of Lourdes Public School.
(Andrea Houston)


Over the course of the evening, the TCDSB heard claims that GSAs “indoctrinate” and “confuse” youth by “normalizing” a “dangerous lifestyle.” Many others demanded that any reference to “sexual orientation” be removed from the document. The sense is that if students start talking about their identity, they will begin having sex.

The crowd was distinctly divided by age. Most of those who stood to speak were adults who argued that allowing a GSA would open the door to “sexual promiscuity and disease.”

One parent quoted the Catholic Catechism that says gays are “objectively disordered.”

“There is nothing wrong with telling our kids [being gay] is a dangerous lifestyle,” said another parent, who refused to give her name.

“Once you allow a GSA, then [schools] will have to allow everything else. The Catholic faith is being undermined. Our children will be so confused,” said another parent, Lola Fortino.

On April 15, the Assembly of Catholic Bishops and the Ontario Catholic School Trustees’ Association (OCSTA) sent a memo instructing Catholic schools to allow students to form “anti-bullying” groups. But the president of the OCSTA, Nancy Kirby, stresses to Xtra that GSAs are still banned in all Catholic schools because the clubs lead to activism.
People broke off into groups to discuss the policy.
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West disagress. “Banning GSAs makes students feel under attack, like we're discriminated against by our school,” he says. “Some of my friends are scared to go to school because of bullying. It absolutely sickens me.”

Toronto Catholic student Cathy Marland, 16, wearing a rainbow button on her jacket, says she would love to start a GSA at her school. “I’ve tried to talk about starting one, but some of our religion teachers aren’t very open about this,” she says.

Sitting at the same table, Clinton Somerton, 46, a parishioner at Holy Family in Parkdale, wants sexual orientation removed from the policy. He says Catholic schools are slowly becoming less and less Catholic.

“I’m a Christian, so I believe people can be transformed,” he tells Xtra. “We are indoctrinating children at a young age to be hyper-sexualized. Sexual acts are a matter of choice.”

Jacquie Guerron, a parent of six children, says talking about sex at any age is “wrong.”

“As Catholics, [sex education] should be taught by church and parents,” she says. “This is protecting the innocence of children.”

Xtra has been keeping a close eye on Catholic school boards in Ontario since revealing in January that the Halton Catholic School Board banned GSAs. Also “sexual orientation” was removed from the equity policy as something that shouldn’t be discriminated against, like race, disability or religion. At the time, board chair Alice Anne LeMay told Xtra that the board “doesn’t allow Nazi groups either. Gay-straight alliances are banned because they are not within the teachings of the Catholic Church.”

Xtra revealed in February that GSAs are forbidden at all Ontario Catholic schools. The final vote for Halton's "Catholic template" equity policy is May 3. The Catholic template includes "sexual orientation."

In March, Xtra told the story of a group of students at St Joseph Catholic Secondary School in Mississauga who were rejected in their bid for a GSA. Since going public, the students have faced vicious bullying in class and online. Led by 16-year-old Leanne Iskander, the St Joe's GSA is currently moving forward with an anti-homophobia event on June 3 at the school.

Patrick Keyes, superintendent of education for the TCDSB, tells Xtra the board has been flooded with diametrically divided feedback about the policy. With TCDSB being the last Catholic board in Ontario to pass the policy, he is very aware of the media spotlight.
Patrick Keyes, superintendent of education for the TCDSB, explains the policy.
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“The Catholic community is very confused as to what equity and inclusion means. That’s what we’re trying to communicate,” he says. “I’ve heard from lots of people who self-identify as gay, and they certainly don’t feel like they are part of the church. And thought needs to be given to that.”

The meeting at Our Lady of Lourdes is really a continuation of an April 18 information session about the policy that turned “pretty ugly,” says Chris D’Souza a lecturer at York University and, previously, the equity and diversity officer for the Dufferin-Peel Catholic District School Board. “I was verbally attacked by seven or eight people.”

He was asked to speak about protections for all identities in the Ontario Human Rights Code. He was met with shouts and anti-gay attacks.

“They attacked me because I openly supported groups that will protect students,” he says. “I am perfectly comfortable talking about same-sex marriage, which is a right in Canada. They don’t seem to be able to understand and reconcile how I can be a practising Catholic and still promote vociferously the rights for all identities. So, they voice their opinions angrily.” The forum was cut short to stop the heckling.

D’Souza is also the reason why a March 26 TCDSB information session on the policy was abruptly cancelled, following angry and vocal complaints from parents who called the board demanding he be removed from the speaker list.

“I believe it was cancelled because of me,” he says. “I was scheduled to speak at the forum on the equity strategy.” D’Souza adds he was one of the experts who helped draft the equity and inclusive education strategy.

“I think they are really struggling, trying to balance a really strong desire by teachers and administrators in Catholic school boards to meet the needs and ensure students are indeed protected, and balancing that with the public perception of what school boards should be doing,” he says.







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Reader Comments


 
Defund now
I'm pretty sure one thing Ontario can do right now is defund Catholic grades 11 and 12, as these were only funded recently. If Catholics want a private system to keep kids ignorant, isolated, and vulnerable, then they need to fund it themselves.
Randy, Windsor ON
04/30/11 2:07 PM EST
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stop public funding for catholic schools
We need to stop public funds from going to support catholic schools asap. As a society, we've already taken a stand on gays, lesbian and trans people.. We do not tolerate discrimination towards them and we need to more actively support lgbt youth.. if these schools refuse to do this.. no more funding for them.. simple, easy and Canadian.
olive samita, Toronto Ontario
04/30/11 2:25 PM EST
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Stifling voices does not promote inclusivity
When the TCDSB stifles student expression and allows the expertise of a York academic and equity officer with DPCDSB to be belittled and booed, it shows how afraid they are of divergent views that are based on experience, research, and Canadian law. It also shows that their supposed "commitment" to equity and inclusivity is mere window dressing and an exercise in public relations. This meeting is a sham. Its purpose appears to be in giving the impression of compliance with Ontario Ministry of Education's Equity and Inclusive Education Strategy while maintaining a continued commitment to the status quo. Only when the views of students and equity experts are taken into consideration will meetings such as these have any real meaning and genuine focus.
Tonya Callaghan, Calgary Alberta
04/30/11 2:43 PM EST
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End public funding of Catholic schools
At Pride, people should wear buttons and T-shirts that say "End public funding of anti-gay Catholic schools". After Pride, gay people in Toronto Centre need to focus on ousting Liberal Glen Murray in the October election and electing a new MPP who will fight on this issue. Toronto Centre is the only riding in Ontario where gay voters can actually make a difference. Since Glen Murray is not helping us on the GSA issue, it's time for him to go.
Jack, Toronto Ontario
04/30/11 3:10 PM EST
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what should not be taught in schools
Jacquie Guerron, a parent of six children, is quoted in the article saying "As Catholics, (sex education) should be taught by church and parents". My response is that Religion should be taught by church and parents. Religion has no place being taught in publicly funded schools. Irene, Toronto
Irene Miller, Toronto ON
04/30/11 3:40 PM EST
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They don't want dialogue.
It sounds like this meeting was not about learning to address the needs of the community, by asking the board to take Mr.D'Souza from the panel show's this,but about dictating there catholic doctrine on the rest of society. More input from parents and school administrators will just keep on showing how hurtful thier practices are. The more I hear about this it seems they have the same moral beliefs as Westboro Baptist of famed GOD Hates Fags. It amazes me that they seem to be blind or just act indifferent. This powerful authority that we trust to educate a large percentage of our children being taught to hate. This is the effect-Hate, no matter how they disguise the cuase. This has gone on to long!
Mark Luciani, Toronto ON
04/30/11 4:04 PM EST
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So, I was thinking...
I make of practice of not using the ever-so-popular phrase "same-sex" when refering to marriage, rights, policy etc. insteading using "same-gender". I don't know if it helps to deflect the issue from the 'sexual' or not but I know I feel better not identifying myself and my marriage in only "sex"ual terms.
Debra Low, London Ontario
04/30/11 6:03 PM EST
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sex ed needs to be in schools
Its extremely important that sexual education be taught in schools and not left to parents and the church to teach. That's the way it was in my day and all that was ever mentioned in the media was that gays were child sexual predators, this wasn't too long after the case of... I'm blanking on his name but the shoeshine boy who was murdered and I believe sexually assaulted by two gay men in the 1970s. I grew up believing the media reports of gay men being sexual predators of children, there was nothing else being said about gay men at the time, I was terrified that when I got older I would turn into a child molester because I was gay, I dreaded it and it greatly contributed to my self loathing for being gay. What a massive difference it would have made in my life if I had been taught the facts about LGBT people in my school. I know things are better today not only due to the advances we've made in getting legal protections and equality and with the advent of the internet gays and lesbians have been able to by-pass MSM and get the truth of their lives told online. But still many kids can't access anything LGBT related online and are still being taught by their parents and churches that gays are child sexual predators, disordered, and all manner of anti-LGBT nastiness and bigotry. That's why we need our schools to teach the truth about LGBT people just as much today as in my school days. There's no need to discuss sexual techniques or even any sort of detailed sexual information so long as the basic truths of what it means to be LGBT is taught. The last sex ed change that McGuinty gave up on after a little bit of opposition from anti-LGBT activists like McVety would have done just that. We need that sex ed plan, or a very similar one, introduced into all Ontario schools whether they be public or private asap so students get the truth about LGBT people to counteract the lies many get from their parents and churches.
Rich, Toronto Ontario
04/30/11 10:55 PM EST
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organize to end public funding
There are already a number of organizations working to de-fund Catholic schools in Ontario, they deserve our support. One such group is the One School System Network and can be found here http://www.onessn.org/ I would encourage everyone who wants to see catholic schools de-funded to get involved with such groups.
Rich, Toronto Ontario
04/30/11 11:50 PM EST
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Who needs education?
Ironic: "Jacquie Guerron, a parent of six children, says talking about sex at any age is 'wrong.'"
Stu, Vancouver BC
05/01/11 12:11 PM EST
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Dangerous? Unfortunitely True.
Get rid of the parents that teach such homophobia, like the one who refused to give her name. It wouldn't be so dangerous. LGBT commuinty has to "protect" itself from the dangers the Catholic shcools and parents are teaching the children today.
Mark Luciani, Toronto ON
05/01/11 7:50 PM EST
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2 same sex students should get married
If 2 same-sex Catholic highschool students legally got married to each other by a Justice of the Peace --that would trump Catholic Doctorine on “Homosexuality” and same-sex marriage. The Catholic Highschool/Board and Bishops would not be able to object with power, because marriage is federal law. That would put a knot in their knickers.
Charles, Toronto Ont
05/03/11 4:16 AM EST
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