Stay warm and steamy at Sapphic Aquatica
SEX / Oasis relaunches its women and trans night
Lauryn Kronick / Toronto / Tuesday, January 29, 2013
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Good news for women-identified folks who enjoy relaxing in heated pools, frolicking and having fun in a sex-positive space: Oasis is relaunching Sapphic Aquatica, the club’s women and trans bathhouse event.
 
Fatima Mechtab recently began coordinating events at Oasis and is the force behind Sapphic Aquatica’s relaunch. Mechtab is looking forward to the event’s renewed energy and to attracting a more inclusive and diverse crowd. On Jan 29, DJ Cozmic Cat will be on decks all night long, and attendees will have access to Oasis’s wet and dry saunas, heated outdoor pool, dancefloor, private play rooms, and full-service bars on two floors.
 
“I even came up with the concept of having a giant naked Twister game and stickers indicating what you are into as an icebreaker,” Mechtab says.
 
Her vision for Sapphic Aquatica is to create a fun, comfortable and safe space for women-identified people (straight-identifying women are welcome). Mechtab does not want to focus on hardcore sex or porn shows (although this shouldn’t deter kinkier folks – all floors of Oasis are open, including the dungeon and private rooms). There are no clothing requirements, and Mechtab encourages attendees to dress in costume or go nude, whichever they prefer.
Mechtab wants to create a fun, comfortable and safe space.
 
Oasis has held monthly women’s and trans nights before, but due to a lack of marketing, past events didn’t get much attention. Mechtab has big plans for Sapphic Aquatica and is enthusiastic about her outreach strategies.
 
“I’ve been getting the word out a lot more and I’m approaching new avenues,” she says. “I want to make it more open and do more outreach. For future events, I’d like to see workshops that will be educational and about the politics of sexuality.”
 
Mechtab preaches openness and diversity – important aspects of Sapphic Aquatica that she says have not necessarily been addressed in the past. “I want this to be inclusive. It’s for queer women, trans women and straight women who want to have fun and have sex in a comfortable space – and many aren’t comfortable with men present,” she adds.
 
Oasis is regularly open for women and straight couples. In an area saturated with men-only bathhouses, Oasis tries to differentiate itself: it is not a swingers' club, but it does have special events. These include Monday student nights, fetish nights, spectator sex nights (where attendees can sign up to perform) and Pleasure Palace, another women and trans event that features specific theme rooms (Mechtab says its organizers have been very supportive of her relaunch). Oasis allows single men only on Wednesday nights.
 
“Oasis is very open-minded to new ideas and how to improve the sex lives of everyone of every gender,” Mechtab says. “Having this type of event is really important to the club.”


 
 
  


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Tourism increases in TO
I'll be there...whoaaaa yes....
RAceR, Here and There Earth
01/29/13 9:51 AM EST
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Who exactly may and may not attend this event?
Women, “women” who still have a penis and/or testicles and may be walking around naked, FTMs who call themselves men every other minute of the year but gain entry by having a vagina may enter... but not men? And this provides a safe environment for women’s sexuality *how*? How many women want “trans women,” typically with an intact penis, at their women-only sexual event?
Joe Clark, Toronto ON
01/29/13 3:39 PM EST
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Response to Joe Clark
Biological and trans women are allowed. In my opinion, this means people are indentify as WOMEN, not people who identify as MEN. Sometimes, women need a space that is just for them-especially when it comes to matters of sexuality. I also doubt that trans WOMEN will be flashing anatomical parts that they themselves do not indentify with. It will be interesting to see but something tells me that this night will not be about "penises on parade."
Fatima, Toronto Ontario
01/29/13 4:17 PM EST
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Let’s define “women” a tad more carefully
Indeed, “sometimes women need a space that is just for them.” That would immediately exclude *at the very least* transgenders with male genitalia. But, in one of many logical paradoxes tied in with this event, FTMs who (again) insist they are men every other minute of the year can breeze right in because they still have vaginas. Do you think any heterosexualist female, at all, anywhere, ever, wants to be in a sexual environment with trannies prancing around?
Joe Clark, Toronto ON
01/31/13 6:38 PM EST
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Why does Joe Clarke hate transgender people?
Joe, why do you hate transgender people so much? Your comment "trannies prancing around" is nasty and bigoted and no better than a straight man talking about "faggots prancing around" I have read other stuff you post and it seems any time you see a chance to bash transgender people you jump in.
Daf, Toronto ON
02/01/13 1:54 AM EST
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Seriously Joe?
What's with the vagina or penis concern? It doesn't make any sense? It's a night for trans women, queer women and straight women. I'm not sure what bio genitals have to do with anything?
prancing faggot, toronto on
02/01/13 2:26 AM EST
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G I Joe and Barbie dont have genitals either bigot
prancing, right on! What in name of heteronormativity and bigotry do gentials have to do with sex? What kind of twisted right wing fascist pig would assume that male or female genitals -- the penis/scrotum or the vagina -- have any connection to people having sex. It's such a genital-centric oppression of de-genitalled sexualities. The Nullo Community is leading the way to eliminate all genitalia and make sex the way it is meant to be -- between identities and the brain. Let's work together to get genitals out of sex and get these bigots minds out away from what's between our legs. Genitals are a 20th century social contruct.
Cloacaayden Sycamore-Vinepod Packie, Hermaphrolumpenbumpen SK
02/01/13 8:00 AM EST
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More BS from Joe Clark
Joe Clark, you're a hateful and ignorant bigot. Straight up. I'm curious as to why you're so concerned with this event and what bodies are allowed to attend? Is it because you KNOW you aren't welcome and that as a WHITE, CIS BODIED, MALE IDENTIFIED dudebro you're just not used to being denied? Maybe that's why you're acting out by trying to tell queer women what to do and how to identify along with the fact that we need a "tighter" definition of "women." get lost. Maybe direct your attention to dealing with the lack of space for white abled bodied men. oh wait...
Meg Fenway, Toronto Ontario
02/01/13 8:56 AM EST
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mocking family silliness
Nag Fenway, as long as the men you hate (gay "cissies" dudebros) are force lumped in with the T and Q and all your silly and complicated rules for identities, then there will be criticisms and mocking of one's "family". Cut the cord or take the scrutiny. btw your man hatred is on overload and you might want to turn it down to 11.
LBGTQ is a lie, Nomorelbgtqlies NB
02/01/13 9:42 AM EST
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Aren't you darling!
"Nag Fenway" that's a cute little nickname you just came up with there. Really shows your creativity and intellect. I don't hate me, quite the contrary. What I will not put up with are men attempting to control women's spaces when they aren't welcomed into them. Check your privilege at the door, son.
Meg Fenway, Toronto Ontario
02/01/13 2:27 PM EST
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When naked, genitalia matters a lot
Genitals have a lot to do with who really is a woman, especially at a clothing-optional sex party. I thought you kids were ever so concerned about wymmynz’ “safety” and “safe spaces.” How safe is it if pre-op trannies are in your midst? Hmm?
Joe Clark, Toronto ON
02/01/13 5:22 PM EST
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Tired Transsexualized Triteness
Meg, Joe Clark isn't trying to tell you who can attend or to assert white male privilege, but nice try at ad hominem attacks on him. What I hear him asking is for logical consistency on an online forum in a gay and lesbian publication. It's not like he's on a transsexual website trying to dictate. This is a gay and lesbian publication and he has every right to engage people in conversation and to ask for clarity and consistency. To ask for answers and suggest logical fallacies be addressed is not "transphobia" or any of the other attacks on him. Cut the cord or take the scrutiny - indeed. Maybe it's time that the T community became agents of their own liberation, instead of free riding here and expecting everyone to just shut up and take it. Long live criticism and engagement. Take your p.c. white guy hating crap elsewhere. Don't pretend penis/vagina ownership doesn't matter, when you run the Dyke March with a Stalinist vision that excludes men born male. The 'queer post-modern left' has lots of passion, but little logic and almost zero consistency or integrity. And in terms of violence, dykes have more to fear from other dykes than from gay men. So much for safe space bullshit.
Nadine Oberman, Toronto ON
02/02/13 3:19 AM EST
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