Pride Toronto lays off staff, anticipates $250K loss
NEWS / Sponsorship, beverage sales, toonie drive all down: ED
Marcus McCann / National / Thursday, July 15, 2010
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On July 14, Pride Toronto executive director Tracey Sandilands sent an email to staff announcing that two employees had been laid off and a third staff member, who had already given notice, would not be replaced. As well, a half dozen short-term contracts that expire at the end of July will not be renewed.

In an interview with Xtra, Sandilands predicts a deficit of $250,000 on the year ending July 31 and says the outlook for 2011 is “bleak.” Still, she says, people who wanted a smaller, less corporate, community-focused Pride in 2011 will likely get it — as Pride Toronto moves to live within its means.

Sandilands also elaborates on what the promise of community consultations will look like, including saying that open, public meetings are “not productive” because they can become confrontational.

Below is the text of Sandilands’ email to staff, and under that, the text of the interview.

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With a fabulous festival behind us once again, we are now dealing with the wrap up of our fiscal year. As we do this it is becoming clear that we are not in great financial shape at present. We lost a significant amount in expected sponsorships as a result of the political messaging issue, and beverage sales during the festival were down against both 2008 and 2009 figures, while toonie drive also came up short. Due to this situation, we are reviewing all costs and will need to implement severe cuts for the 2011 festival year if we are to survive.

As part of this exercise, no temporary contracts will be renewed and the following staff will finish up by end July: TK, Dina, Cristina, Spink and Lina. We have had to let Mary Zondanos and Michael Ain go, and our office admin Coralee will be leaving to go back to school at the end of August. All these positions will remain unfilled until further notice. We thank them all for their dedication and hard work for the organization and are really sad to see them go, and please join me in wishing them the very best for their futures. We do hope they will all remain part of the Pride Toronto family on a volunteer basis for the foreseeable future.

The next year will be a challenging one under these circumstances, and we will need the support and commitment of all our incredible volunteers to get through it. If anyone has questions, please email me or call.
 
 
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Xtra: Thanks for getting back to me. I know this is a difficult time and you’ve got a lot on your plate.

Pride Toronto executive director Tracey Sandilands
(Matt Mills photo)
Yes.

Xtra: I wanted to talk to you briefly about the email you sent to staff yesterday and give you an opportunity to put it in context for our readers about what’s going on. My understanding is that there are a number of temporary contracts that are ending. Is that normal, that they would end after Pride?

Yes, it is. Possibly, there were some of those temporary staff that might have been kept on if we had some money, but we don’t. They were all on temporary contracts that ended in July, but some of them were hired with a view to giving them a try, with the possibility of making them permanent staff.

Xtra: And those contracts expire at the end of July?

Yes.

Xtra: And for the two permanent staff that you had to let go, is that at the end of July as well?

Well, I’m not going to go into details, because those details are confidential. Obviously, for staff that have been here a little longer, we have provided them with a package, as far as we could. So, they’ll be on the payroll for a while, but they’ve taken their lieu time. But they can come and go as they please; they’re still welcome in the office.

The office administrator, she’d already stated that she’d been accepted into a master’s program, so she’s indicated that she would be leaving, and we didn’t have to try to figure out what to do. We’re not going to replace her; she’s already given notice.

But for the two staff that have been laid off, they’re welcome to come and go as they please, but I can’t exactly tell you for how long they’ll be on the payroll.

But they have been given some kind of consideration. They haven’t just been dismissed summarily.

Xtra: How did you come to this decision?

We looked at what our financial position is expected to be, and it’s still being finalized because obviously our year end is July. So we don’t know what our final number is going to be. However, we do know that if you look at the expected sponsorships that did not come in as a direct result of the political messaging issue, that was $250,000. 

And then there were other issues, like the fact that we might not be able to count on city funding next year and existing sponsors who have given us notice in writing to say that unless we resolve the issues to their satisfaction, they will no longer be sponsoring us next year.

So next year looks very bleak at this point. We can’t keep posting deficits. We have to reestablish our financial base. The only way to do that is to take what we are certain of for next year, which is very little at this stage, and make sure that our budgets fit into that. So, severe cuts in every respect.

I’m not sure we’ll be having all the stages as we had. I’m not sure we’ll be having as many beverage gardens as we’ve had in the past. I’m not sure we’ll be doing a lot of the things in the past, because we simply can’t be sure that we’re going to get the funds for it.

Xtra: In addition to the sponsorship, your email says that beverage sales and the toonie drive are down. Do you have a sense of — is that like five percent, or —

Beverage sales in 2008 were [$334,661] In 2009, we did [$337,611.] This year, we did $280,000. It’s part the heat, and part of being well stocked — in fact, we returned $100,000 worth of alcohol.

We had every expectation that beverage sales were going to do well this year, but it seems they weren’t, and I don’t have any idea what the reason is. They seemed to be busy most of the time. There were some of the beverage gardens that were not busy.  Whether that was because of the heat or the political messaging issue or the recession, I don’t know.

The sales were substantially down on what we had anticipated. We had, in fact, been hoping that with such good weather, beverage sales would be better than expected and that would help the situation, and of course they weren’t.

Xtra: You mention the recession. That’s external to anything you could have anticipated. I know, for instance, that Xtra didn’t participate in the parade this year, and that was a financial decision that was made in December of the year before.

That could have had something to do with the beverage sales. It was not a question in the sponsorship — the sponsorships that we lost were the expected sponsorships that in many cases were finalized verbally and agreed, but were put on hold because of the political messaging debacle.

By the time we banned the words, it was essentially almost too late. All the rhetoric that was bandied about, about “We’re still going to march in the parade,” and they were going to boycott every event — that made our sponsors very insecure, and they decided to bail.

Xtra: With that in mind, do we have a sense of how big the deficit is going to be?

I would say it’s going to be around $250,000 at least. Because that is what we came up short in sponsorship. I want to stress this: many of those sponsors, up until two weeks before the festival, we were still expecting their sponsorship. They had given verbal confirmations, they had agreements ready to sign, and we were trying to reassure them. And until this point, we were expecting them to come on board and they decided not to.

There were others where we had already committed the funds [we were expecting from them], because you have to do these things, you have to plan ahead. We planned these things, we paid deposits, we’d secured venues and secured artists. And then they didn’t come in, because they’d dithered on signing and then decided not to.

Xtra: You said throughout the spring sponsors were wavering. Was that specifically about political messaging?

Yes.

Xtra: If you had to do it over again, would you do something differently?

If I knew what I know now… when we started planning in January, in February, and even last year, none of this had been on the horizon. We knew the issue was coming up, but we had what we thought was a reasonable plan in place by means of the focus groups to get a mandate from the community about what they wanted.

And we did get a mandate from the community, certainly from the people who attended the focus groups, and we acted upon that when we issued the first decision that we would be vetting the messaging. It seemed to come out of the focus groups. Then, through one mechanism or another, various groups managed to get the focus groups and their findings discredited, and that was when all the trouble started.

Because up until that point, we had been operating on the premise that we have a reasonable plan to get through this year, we’re going get a mandate from the community. And we made that decision early enough for us to have told our sponsors, This is what we’re planning to do, and this is how we’re planning on dealing with it. And they were comfortable with it. They knew it wasn’t a perfect solution, but they were comfortable with it. It wasn’t a blatant takeover of the messaging.

And, um, when that fell through, when we were forced to rescind that initial policy, that’s when sponsors started wavering. And as I say, by that point we’d already committed ourselves and paid deposits.

The only way that ended was to go through with it and find other sponsors, in some cases. It probably would have been worse than it was if we hadn’t been able to find other, additional funds, but not enough to make up for those we had lost.

Xtra: What I’m hearing is that you think you behaved with the information that you had in the best way possible, given the circumstances.

We were certainly trying to do that, yeah.

Xtra: Going ahead in 2010, there are a number of people and groups who have asserted that they want what’s best for Pride, but haven’t been working within Pride to do that. I imagine that with the rescinding of the ban, that you might be able to tap into some goodwill there.


Yeah, but all the community goodwill in the world is not — unless it helps to settle the fears of the sponsors so that they will fund us — we will go back to a Pride in Cawthra Park. The community unfortunately doesn’t have $2.5 million to fund us.

And what’s happening with the city funding — that’s on the line at the moment. We have no idea what the city manager’s instructions to us will be, but if we don’t comply, we will lose that money. So, we are planning for the new year expecting to not have that money.

This is fairly well in line with what the community has wanted. They’ve said Pride is becoming too corporate, we should be doing it without the funding. So we’re planning 2011 without relying on funding that is in any way uncertain. And that’s going to mean serious cuts in what we can produce. Everything costs money.

So the plan for the new year is to trim everything that doesn’t fit into the budget that we’re sure of. If we have to put on a small Pride, that’s what we’ll have to do. We’ll be hoping to rely more on volunteers and unpaid staff than we have, which is difficult, because people are busy and they only have a certain amount of time. And dealing with business ventures, you need people who are available during the daytime, and a lot of volunteers are not.

But, you know, we’ll do the best that we can. We have to reestablish that financial base. We have to at least break even. Otherwise we won’t survive. Pride can’t keep posting deficits.

Xtra: Fair enough, and that’s probably the most prudent course. Another question is, in the announcement of the rescinding of the outright ban on “Israeli apartheid,” there was a pledge to strike a group of community leaders to help guide your planning going forward and then to do broad consultations going forward. Has that work begun?

Yes it has. We’ve had an initial meeting to brainstorm a plan of action and Brent Hawkes, Doug Elliott and Maura Lawless, who were the three that came up with this idea, have gone away to put together some guidelines for the advisory panel. They’re brainstorming to get some idea of the people who should be on the advisory panel. They will be consulting fairly widely people who are perceived as community leaders, and Pride is not involved in that process. They are doing that process.

Xtra: Brent, Maura and Doug?


That’s right. They are doing that process to get an idea of who would be willing to serve on that panel, who would be appropriate people to have as part of it. And they will come up with a list of names that the board will give their input on. And we don’t know when that will be.

The plan is that the community consultations will happen in the beginning of September. So I still at this point need to go back to the trans community, because we promised to have a meeting with them on the 12th of August, but this probably needs to be done as part of the broader consultations, rather than having the consultations in a vacuum.

Xtra: You’re talking about big, public, open meetings where anyone can attend and everyone can say their piece?


I don’t know exactly what format the meetings are going to take. The advisory panel, once it’s been established, will recommend what format they feel should be appropriate. I do believe that there will be a combination of public, community meetings and some targeted or representative meetings and maybe some kind of an online survey as well.

There will probably be a combination of those, but at this point, we’re waiting for the panel to be established and them to provide some kind of recommendations as to the process.

Xtra: I guess the thing is, part of the process that you went through in December, January, February with the focus groups, one of the criticisms of it was that it wasn’t very open, or public.

I don’t know how people can say that, because we used every channel that we had in our means that didn’t cost money — we had it in our newsletter, on our website, on our social media. We publicized it everywhere we could, and we invited people to come and be a part of it.

Everyone who offered to be a part of it was accepted. There were one or two people who were clearly identifiable as being on one side or the other of the issue, and we didn’t include them. Everybody else. The focus groups were not only about the Israeli messaging issue, and we wanted broad representation from the community. We asked for 60 people in specific age groups and demographics. As they came forward, we included them in the different groups. And we struggled to find enough people, and they still got paid.

I’m not sure how much more public we have to [be]. We didn’t have the funds to go out and do a huge research study.

Xtra: It used to be that Pride Toronto would have these big public meetings. And I realize that they could be a bit of a dust-up sometimes, that it was messy—

We found that the one community consultation that was held had very little value because we were not given a chance to answer. That’s unproductive.

Xtra: Sorry, you’re talking about the Blockorama meeting?


There were questions asked, and accusations thrown, that we could have answered if we’d been given the opportunity. We found that when we tried to speak, we were shouted down — much as what happened at the press conference. That’s not productive. That’s not productive for the people attending the meeting from Pride or from the community. We have to find a new way of doing that.

Xtra: Have you read the Pride Community Contract?

Yes, I have.

Xtra: What do you think of it?

This may be a surprise to the people that wrote it, but some of the things in there, we’re already doing.

And maybe our messaging is faulty, that it’s not clear that we are doing those things. Other things have been in the cards to do for some time, but this year we got railroaded by the political messaging issue. Nothing else really got the attention it deserved.

There are some good ideas in it. There are some ideas that aren’t practical. But by and large, it’s essentially not far from what we also think. By and large, we’re mostly in agreement with it.

Xtra: Yeah, I wanted to get a sense of how you feel about the Pride Community Contract and the other folks who are working on suggestions or ways to help out Pride.

Well, Marcus, I would be appreciative of anyone who comes to us with constructive suggestions and comes to us in the spirit of wanting to do what’s best for Pride. There are some people who have done that, and we are in talks with them. And it’s not just the three that I’ve mentioned. There are others as well, who have clearly come in with the spirit of, “We want to help. We understand this is difficult. And we want to give you whatever we can put into this. We want to contribute.” And we would welcome them with open arms.

There are also people out there who are professing to want to help, but it’s contingent on things like — and I just hear these things — that it’s contingent on things like firing the entire board, firing the entire staff team, shutting down Pride for a year. None of those things are practical, and none of those things are going to benefit Pride.

You shut down Pride for a year, and who’s going to fund you after you’ve defaulted on all your accounts. It doesn’t make any sense.

Xtra: I haven’t heard that from anyone — that they want to shut down Pride.

I’ve heard it very loud and clear from at least two people. So there is someone saying this, and I know who the person is.

So we have to be very careful, we have to be very clear that those who want to help Pride actually want to help Pride and don’t have an ulterior motive. I also happen to know that there are people out there who are seeing this as an opportunity to put themselves in a position where they can fill their own pockets. That’s happened in the past, and it could happen again.

We have to be very careful with what’s left of Pride. It’s a very fragile situation at the moment. And my job, as uncomfortable as it is, and as difficult as people have made it for me, I don’t intend to let Pride fold.

Whoever comes to us with the right spirit and the right intentions, I’d be very glad to have them on board.

Xtra: What would you want gays in the community to do next?


I think the community can help us best at this time by allowing us a little bit of time to get the advisory panel in place, by attending the community consultations, and by taking the time to tell us what they want. For a long time, we’ve been in the position that we’ve been guessing. We’ve been guessing what the community wants. Now we’re saying to the community, come and tell us what you want.


Pride Toronto’s annual general meeting is tentatively scheduled for Sept 23, location TBA. Stay tuned at pridetoronto.com and xtra.ca for details of the community consultations. The Pride Coalition for Free Speech will hold its next meeting July 20, 7pm, at the 519 Community Centre.


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Reader Comments


 
Campaign to address sponsor concerns
When Tracey says "Yeah, but all the community goodwill in the world is not — unless it helps to settle the fears of the sponsors so that they will fund us" -- I think this is key. My perspective is that Pride has every right to expect corporate-sponsor support, and that there should be a carefully executed campaign to address the concerns of the faltering sponsors -- by educating them on the concerns regarding censorship and dismantling the radical misinformation campaign that took place with regard to QuAIA. This can't occur without knowing the details. In my personal opinion, this could be a potential successful collaboration between members of PCFS and PT.
Shawn Syms, Toronto ON
07/15/10 4:53 PM EST
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Don't blame policitcs for your loss of sponsors!
Says Tracey Sandilands of the loss of sponsors during this year's Pride festival: "We lost a significant amount in expected sponsorships as a result of the political messaging issue..." Um, NO! You lost it because of the conservativism and closed-mindedness of the organizations you were expecting to fund the festival. Please do us a favour and find more progressive sponsors for next year. Namely, those who would support the festival *regardless* of which so-called 'contentious' groups are participating in the festivities. Thanks.
Martin Otarola, Toronto Ontario
07/15/10 5:16 PM EST
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The cover-up of mismanagement continues
They tried to blame the loss of a Canada Council for the Arts grant on political messaging until the grantee contradicted them. They tried to blame a threat to their World Pride bid on political messaging until InterPride contradicted them. Is there anything Pride Toronto won't blame on political messaging to deflect attention from its own incompetence and mismanagement? Now it's beer sales? Controversial political messaging has been in the parade since it started. Trying to blame their finances on the community is just another slap in the face.
Pulpo, Toronto on
07/15/10 5:33 PM EST
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The Board
This is the Board's fault. They all need to be replaced, but the one most to blame for all this should willingly leave. He's treated Pride like his personal fiefdom and until he goes the healing will never begin. If he really cares about Pride he'll go. If not, there's more drama ahead as many people aren't going to stop until he's out of the org. He has little social capital and no political capital yet he thought he could take on those with plenty of both to spare. He tried to cut out the "activists" and lost, but now Pride Toronto is paying the price for his arrogance. Pride doesn't need an "advisory panel" - it needs a competent Board and a staff with ties to our community.
Cock up, Toronto Ontario
07/15/10 5:34 PM EST
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Also, before I forget...
I'm not so sure having fewer beer tents or international fanfare is such a bad thing. I, for one, welcome the change because not everyone wants their Pride celebrations to take the form of an all-weekend dance party. Unprogrammed green spaces and picnic events DEFINITELY need to make a comeback!
Martin Otarola, Toronto Ontario
07/15/10 6:05 PM EST
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Time for a big sit down....
First to blame the political controversy is a a bit short sighted. The fact that The South beverage garden ran at a 0.1% capacity on Saturday night at 5pm. Of all times... it is now community discussion is required... problems are deep but fixable.
Mark Smith, Toronto On
07/15/10 6:07 PM EST
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talk and change
Two things Pride needs, a lot of open public community talking, and second some fresh faces on the Board and a change of ED. Ms. Sandilands comes across as hostile, aggressive, unpleasant, bitter, and has clearly proven her lack of skill in bringing people together in tough times. Time for her to go.
Robin Gordon, Toronto Ontario
07/15/10 6:25 PM EST
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Access
I really appreciate having this interview in text format. It is much easier to access than audio for me, and I'm glad I wasn't excluded, so thanks for that.
Corinne, Toronto ON
07/15/10 8:55 PM EST
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The almighty dollar speaks...
In the end, it's the Almighty dollar which speaks the loudest in its silence and absence. I noticed that one person thought we should find more "progressive" supporters...like that will ever happen. All businesses, by their very cautious nature, are very conservative. Nobody in business wants to take a chance of being painted with scandal...and you'll notice that the bigger politicians running for large political offices won't stain their hands either. In the end, those who wanted Freedom of Speech, will get it...but they didn't speak very responsibly...You can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar...and, furthermore, the battle ground goes beyond Toronto (and our Pride)...there is much of the rest of the country that is still pretty homophobic (although silent)...and much of our gay youth are trapped out there. I think our Freedom of Speech and our Political Agenda should have been for gay national issues such as more public awareness (beyond Toronto/Montreal), a fight to donate blood (and obliterate the systemic discrimination of the Canadian Blood Services) and a very strong message to those who think gaybashing is a sport! This is what we should pick up for our agenda...and make it positive...no name-calling. And if we really wanted to go beyond our borders...how about fighting for gay rights in countries where homosexuality is still considered a mental sickness and/or crime...and can be punishable by death. Google that and see what you get! What's that song? "Money makes the world go around." (whether we like it or note).
J. B. Thomas, Toronto Ontario
07/15/10 9:59 PM EST
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royb50@istar.ca
I have faith that Pride will listen to the community and go through a process that might not be easy, but will see something amazing come out of this. It's not a situation that I would wish on anyone, but for whatever the reasons this shit has happened my advice is that Pride take this opportunity to reinvent itself into something that speaks to a politicized community who loves to have a good time. Forget about the tourists, they'll come because it's great anyway. This is our party and I believe we can make it happen.
roy mitchell, Toronto ON
07/16/10 12:12 AM EST
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JB.. name calling, and sponsors
Let's make things clear here - the only people engaged in name calling are right-wing pro-Israeli lobby groups smearing anyone who disagrees with any aspect of their world view as anti-Semites and worse. These forces are also the ones trying to censor legitimate speech in a parade that focuses on free expression for the LGBT community. Who's lobbying sponsors to pull their funding from Toronto Pride? Why, the same right-wing pro-Israeli lobby groups, of course! If these right-wing pro-Israeli lobby groups would just grow up and fuck off all would be right as rain. Who do these right-wing pro-Israeli groups include? B'nai Brith, the Jewish Defense League (JDL) and Canadian Jewish Council (CJC). B'nai Brith has worked closely with Canada's most prominent anti-gay activists, including "Christian" fundamentalist Charles McVety of the Canada Family Action Coalition. CJC's Reuven Bulka (once co-president, now on the board) is a homophobic rabbi who sat on the scientific advisory committee of the U.S.-based National Association for Research and Therapy of Homosexuality (NARTH), which advocates conversion therapy for queers and supports the re-listing of homosexuality as a psychiatric disorder. And the JDL, generally renowned for their thuggery and penchant for violent rhetoric. These organizations are both pro-Israeli and deeply anti-LGBT. Why our LBGT community lends these anti-LGBT groups any credence is simply mystifying. That these groups have effectively hijacked Pride and put its fiscal health in jeopardy is simply disgusting.
Dan, Toronto ON
07/16/10 8:58 AM EST
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Wise Up and Start Listening
After fully reading the article at the very end an admission from Pride Toronto *for a long time, we've been in the position that we've been guessing. We've been guessing what the community wants* - Maybe that's why PT lost $250,000 !! So wise up and start listening.
J Roman, Toronto ON
07/16/10 9:22 AM EST
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Dump the board.
Great point Mr. Roman - the PT board, mostly straight people, are not in touch with the community. And they don't seem to be good planners. If beer sales were down in 2008 and 2009, why expect sales in 2010 to go UP? Why have the "expectation that beverage sales were going to do well this year?" In 2008, PT posted a $41,972 loss, and a $138,605 loss in 2009. So what did they do this year? Spend more and expand.. this is not prudent fiscal planning. So, to recap - The Pride Toronto board are terrible planners with respect to budgeting, they admit they're out of touch with the community, and they lack awareness of the political climate and community history. Why do Sandilands et al. still hold their jobs?!
Dan, Toronto ON
07/16/10 11:54 AM EST
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I told you so
I did warn you that this was going to happen, but nooooooo.. of course xtra knew better. To tell you the truth, I used to enjoy Pride a lot more when it wasn't corporate, so I won't mind if it goes back to being that. But get ready for the choice of having a smaller, much scaled-down Pride or getting rid of the anti-Israel bigots from it. Letting every loon with an axe to grind may be what Pride is about for a vocal minority, but for most of us, it's what the event's name suggests: GAY PRIDE. Some of the comments I've read are incredibly naive, if not plain stupid: "find progressive sponsors." By "progressive' you mean "anti-Israel" To the point of $2.5 Million? Good luck. The only major sponsor you're going to find who wants to be associated with QuAIA would be the government of Iran. But I don't think a self respecting gay person would want that. Except QuAIA might. They're in the business of sucking up to the Islamists who persecute Gays.
Bones, Toronto Ontario
07/16/10 1:09 PM EST
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Piece or Peace
Hey Xtra! What's the difference between *piece and *peace? :P (Q 15)
J Roman, Toronto ON
07/16/10 1:30 PM EST
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Pride funding
Why not get the QAIA folks to lobby Hamas for funding? Who knows, maybe their Jew hatred will supercede their hatred for queers.
Michelle, Toronto ON
07/16/10 3:24 PM EST
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Iran will Fund the Next Pride Parade No Problem!
The government of Iran will happily fund your next Pride parade, and will be no doubt happy to see Israel Apartheid as a major theme. Of course they will still want to see a large float with a simulation of alleged Gays being hung from a building crane. Invite the KKK too. And the Hell's Angels. And wave lots of Hezbollah and Hamas flags.
Holden, Victoria BC
07/16/10 3:26 PM EST
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Community Sponsors
Time to bring in all those community sponsors that Matt was talking about.
BJ, Toronto ON
07/16/10 3:51 PM EST
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Um, not exactly!
Dan, you're incorrect. There's been a fair bit of name-calling on this site and in other news media outlets, blaming Sandilands (making reference to her nationality, 'race' and body type. There's also been comments at globeandmail.com blaming, variously "white gay men" when in fact the board of Pride that made this decision is not dominated by them, and the one white gay man on the board who was at the board meeting took the anti-censorship stance. As usual, in any struggle for power, both sides have their highs and lows. While we're doing guilt-by-association, hey, some people associated with QuAIA attend Israeli Apartheid Week events which are much more Islamist and anti-Jewish than QuAIA itself. I guess that one can go both ways. As someone looking to get off the fence, you've both made it very difficult with your innuendos and allegations. So for now, neither 'side' warrants my support, other than a tepid support of free speech which is itself at risk of becoming a new fundamentalism.
Moses Mohammed McBeth-Singh, Utopia AB
07/16/10 3:56 PM EST
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Let's invite
The Westbroo Baptist Church next year. They hate Israel as much as the QuAIA, Iran, and Hamas does and us Queers too. I'm just saying, if this is a matter of freedom of Speech and expression
WTF, Toronto ON
07/16/10 4:08 PM EST
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@ Dan
Your rant strikes me as a bit of a conspiracy theory. It's a pretty big assumption to think that pro-Israelites can sway business (sponsorship) in such a way. I can agree with you in that these pro-Israeli/homophobic organizations do exist (even though I've had no personal dealings) and their bullying is also not acceptable and have no place in our pride...but do they? I think they only came out en masse, in reaction to QuAIA. But getting back to reality, let's just concentrate on our back yard...we've more than enough to do w.r.t our domestic gay issues with domestic gay special interest groups.
Jude B. Thomas, Toronto Ontario
07/16/10 4:38 PM EST
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@Moses
I like what you had to say: "free speech which is itself at risk of becoming a new fundamentalism."...it reminds me of my workplace...a high school...students love to get active in hotheaded issues, activism for activism's sake...and invariably it's the yahoos who dominate. I remember years ago when we, the staff, tried a "no-hat" policy (no baseball caps to be worn in class)...the students took to the streets and started protesting beside Hwy#115....some of our wiser students started to moon the truckers!...now how is that supposed to help the hat issue...btw, they still don't wear hats in that school. But yeah! They have freedom of speech and exercised it! ;-)
J. B. Thomas, Toronto Ontario
07/16/10 4:45 PM EST
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QuAIA cares zero for Pride but lots for themselves
What is really telling about Quaia is that they don't care how much damage they do to Pride just as long as they get attention for themselves
Shivers, Toronto Ontario
07/16/10 4:59 PM EST
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good going al-Quaia
keep up the good "jihad", Ahmadinejad must be very proud of you
George O, Toronto ON
07/16/10 5:25 PM EST
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well you cant expect corporations to fund racism
Well no one can logically expect any corporation to fund a parade with anti-semitism in it . Although people may disagree with me: I will affirm the term "Israeli Apartheid" is a term of hate directed at an identifiable group in Toronto. Racism can not or really should not be funded by the public purse. Also, corporations should "morally" pull out of such events. If you wish to do this with private money that's fine -- but not with taxpayer money at a taxpayer funded event. I had to say the Pride Board had it right the first time and, even under quite difficult situation, turned out a really good Pride.
geraldine, toronto on
07/16/10 5:39 PM EST
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re: geraldine
If people are so convinced that QuAIA is anti-semitic why can they never point to any actual examples of anti-semitism from them? The term Israeli apartheid may be a hated term but it most certainly is not "a term of hate directed at an identifiable group in Toronto" for one thing its directed at Israel, not Toronto, and the term apartheid is used by many Israelis in differing positions and political groups to describe the situation in the occupied territories. Are you also saying that when Israelis use the term apartheid they're attacking a group in Toronto? Of course not, its somewhat surprising that those most against the term are so out of touch with the debate which uses the term in Israel itself, don't believe me? check out some Israeli online newspapers, the notion that the term Israeli apartheid is itself anti-semitic only arose after opponents of QuAIA realized nothing QuAIA actually had to say was anti-semitic so they had to find something they could use to accuse them of hate mongering and settled on their name. Why can't people just accept that QuAIA has a message they disagree with? Why must they be made out to be something they aren't? Methinks they do protest too much and realize the term is a lot closer to the truth than they're comfortable admitting because that would mean their all precious Israel isn't a perfect country and that being a "Jewish state" doesn't make Israel sanctified and pure. Israel is just another country regardless of the ethnic group that makes up most of it, some just can't accept that it seems. When we were protesting against South African apartheid there was none of this nonsense that we were attacking white folks, there were no claims of racism and discrimination because like Israeli apartheid its the policy, not the people being protested, the difference between anti-semitic criticism of Israel and non-anti-semitic criticism is like night and day, if people are confusing the two its because it serves the
Rich, Toronto Ontario
07/16/10 7:21 PM EST
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Close the South Stage
The South Stage located on Church between Carlton and Wood, across from Maple Leaf Gardens. EPIC FAIL of a beverage lot. I worked there in 2009 and it was dead all the time. This year I passed it several times and it was a similar situation. Something different needs to go into that parking lot, not a music stage or beer tent.
Ryan, Toronto ON
07/16/10 7:29 PM EST
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We're Queer We're Pissed We're Anti-Zionist
Hey Rich, slogans like that are directed at a certain group of people in the world, and the world is in Toronto, so yes an identifiable group is targeted by QuAIA. Same with "Viva Viva Intifada", an ugly chant with an ugly history that should not be uttered in Canada, also directed at an identifiable group. Don't play stupid. QuAIA's obnoxious racism this Pride was very disturbing and many people noticed. Around Yonge & College that group cleared all the crowds out real fast.
Ryan, Toronto ON
07/16/10 7:45 PM EST
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re: Dan & others
Dan you hit the bullseye with your comments, I couldn't have said it better myself. As well it bothers me that some are saying QuAIA doesn't care about Pride, they're just in it for themselves when its those opposed to QuAIA who are trying to get sponsors to pull their support of Pride and who did their best to shut down Pride altogether in an effort to silence QuAIA, how they can then turn around and claim that QuAIA doesn't care about Pride and is only in it for themselves is beyond hypocritical, how does getting sponsors to pull their funding and trying to shut down Pride altogether demonstrate any concern for Pride or anyone else in the LGBT community? Clearly its the anti-QuAIA side that doesn't care about Pride and is only in it for themselves or else they'd be supportive of Pride and the LGBT community, they wouldn't be trying to defund and shut down Pride to silence those they disagree with. If they really supported Pride and cared about the LGBT community they would stick to protesting QuAIA or using tactics that didn't involve hurting Pride because that only hurts everyone in the LGBT community. It seems as far as they're concerned right wing pro-Israeli Jews are the only ones who matter, the LGBT community isn't nearly as important to them as they've shown by their efforts to shut down Pride. When QuAIA and the free speechers were fighting the censorship they never did anything to hurt Pride, they never tried to lobby sponsors to pull their funding because they knew how important it was to the entire community, the same cannot be said of the anti-QuAIA side who were willing to throw Pride on the trash heap to make their point, and they still are going about their efforts to defund Pride to shut it down or drastically scaled back by lobbying Pride's sponsors claiming they're supporting anti-semitism when sponsoring Pride but nothing could be further from the truth. QuAIA isn't anti-semitic, many of them are Jewish and wouldn't tolerate it from new members.
Rich, Toronto Ontario
07/16/10 7:47 PM EST
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spell it out for me Ryan
Ryan I didn't hear either of those chants from QuAIA but lets say they did use them, lets look at them a little closer, Zionism, in a nutshell, is the ideology that Jews anywhere in the world have more right to the land, in this case the occupied territories, than those who have been living there thousands of years. How is being opposed to that anti-semitic? Also intifada translates roughly as shaking off, resistance, and freedom from occupation, vive le resistance is a popular expression for any nation living under the occupation of a foreign power, "Viva Viva Intifada" is the Palestinian equivalent of that saying. Are you surprised that those whose land has been occupied by a foreign power would want the occupation to end? are you surprised that they would fight back against occupation? Because no one else is. How is supporting the desire for freedom for Palestine anti-semitic? Sorry you do have to spell these things out for me because I just don't see it. yes the intifada was an ugly and offensive thing particularly when Palestinian terrorists started targeting Israeli civilians, however violence is to be expected when you occupy any country. If anything the fact that Palestinians waited 30 or so years after being occupied before resorting to violence says a lot to me about their desire for peace, I can't think of any other occupied country where violence didn't happen regularly right from the beginning and none that have been occupied so long. But go ahead and explain to me how supporting the right of Palestinians to their land and supporting their desire for freedom from foreign occupation is anti-semitic or an attack on anyone in Toronto. While you're at it please also spell out to me clearly how QuAIA is anti-semitic in any way shape or form. I'm not playing stupid, I just don't always believe everything I hear without some evidence to back it up and I've seen no believable evidence that QuAIA is anti-semitic. ABtw I'm done for tonight got better th
Rich, Toronto Ontario
07/16/10 8:21 PM EST
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re: Ryan cont'd
Ryan I'm never going to accept that Israel is Judaism and Judaism is Israel and that any criticism of Israel is criticism of Judaism. I know some do believe that but that doesn't make it so, some also believe the world is going to end soon and there are space aliens walking amongst us. Israel is a country same as any other country, just because most of its citizens are Jewish doesn't excuse it from being treated like any other country would be. Trying to claim that Israel and Judaism are one and the same just isn't going to fly since it has no basis in reality. If it were so then all Islamic countries should be excused from criticism too as well as all African countries and all Asian countries too for that matter since they all are made up of a single ethnic group, at least and in the same sense that all Jews are of the same ethnic group and Israel is all Jews regardless of reality since that is the basis for this comparison. Before anyone points it out I do realize that Jews come from many different ethnic groups, and that there are many different ethnic groups in Islamic, African, and Asian countries too, I was just making a point based on the notion that Judaism is Israel and Israel is Judaism.
Rich, Toronto Ontario
07/16/10 8:40 PM EST
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QAIA anti semitic org
Is it all right to criticize Israel? Sure, but it's not all right to tell lies which generate support for terror. If someone spreads the rumor that you are a serial murderer, and you aren't, and if a lynch mob gathers outside your window, you are not likely to consider this 'criticism.' QAIA -Western Establishments and their junior partners in the Arab countries (and most of the supposed Left as well) are engaged in a campaign to delegitimize Israel. This campaign is powered by systematic distortions in the mainstream media and lies by Western and Arab leaders, academics, and anti-Israel organizers and QAIA! For instance how many know this? Israeli Arabs make up 20% of the population and they own 3% of the land. Jews make up 80% of the population of Israel but own only 3.5% of the land! Consider the figures: % of Israeli population % of land owned in Israel Arabs 20% 3% Jews 80% 3.5% Jews and Arabs own about the same amount of land even though there are 4 times as many Jews as Arabs. Or to put it differently, Israeli Arabs own more than twice as much land as you would expect based on their percentage of the population. It is Israeli Jews, not Arabs, who suffer 'Apartheid'. After all Jews are forbidden by written and or unwritten laws to live in the Islamic Middle East- which accounts for the ethnic cleansing of Jews from the Arab world ! Palestinians have laws that forbid Jews the right to own a home- Palestinians face a certain lawful death sentence if they sell a home to a 'JEW" - remember that the QAIA refer to their :"cause" as not being against Jews but rather 'Israel or Israelis! Arabs - Christians and Jews etc are all Israelis- yet an Arab in the West Bank is not called a "settler"- or a Christian! Only Jews are referred to as settlers! That is "ANTI SEMITISM " by any standard! QAIA are not a
Ahmad Yaqiin, Brampton Ontario
07/16/10 8:50 PM EST
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QAIA antisemitic part 2
human rights organization. They are an organization that "specifically " targets Jews - ergo Israel! That is racism if ever there was an example! The fact is that 93.5% of land in Israel is state-owned or state-controlled. Only 6.5% is available for private purchase. Of that, a disproportionately high share is held by Arabs. The other 93.5% cannot be sold, it can only be leased to the general public, whether Muslim, Christian or Jewish. Ergo the "Bahai' Gardens in Haifa is located in one of the most expensive and desirable locations over looking the sea - Bahai' are persecuted by Iran! Apartheid does not mean discrimination in land use. (By that standard, virtually every country would be an Apartheid state because there is discrimination everywhere.) The term 'Apartheid' refers to the system that existed in South Africa, with draconian laws dividing the population into 'races' defined according to a Nazi-like ideology. It means the segregation of these supposed races, with radically different conditions of life prescribed for each. It means the official sanctioning of hate speech; racism becomes state ideology. If Israel were an Apartheid state, the enemies of Israel could point to laws based on a theory of supposedly superior and inferior races and they could point to secret police terror to enforce those laws. They could point to statistical evidence of the results of Apartheid: there would be extreme differences between Jews and Arabs in telltale statistics such as infant mortality and life expectancy, just as there were between blacks and whites in South Africa. The professional Israel-bashers never mention such statistics because the figures indicate that Israeli Arabs live better than Arabs in any other country in the Middle East. The CBC ' Peter Mansbridge- on June 01 2010 - stated on the "National" that "Gaza has one of the highest infant mortality rates in the world"- AN OUTRIGHT LIE- !
Ahmad Yaqiin, Toronto Ontario
07/16/10 8:56 PM EST
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QAIA anti semitic part 3
Peter Mansbridge quotes in National TV the source - "CIA ergo Amnesty International" Looking up the source - CIA - the facts are there for all to see-here https://www.cia.gov/library/publications/the-world-factbook/rankorder/2091rank.html Gaza has a lower infant mortality rate than Iran and ...TURKEY- In fact when coupled with Gaza's disproportionately high birth rate makes Gaza one of the lowest infant mortality rates in the Middle East! The CBC made a quiet on air retraction- too late! The lie is out and the public remembers the lies about Israel and not the correction ! That is why lies are the greatest historical enemies of Jews and Israel - even more today! A notable feature of South African Apartheid was that black people were deprived of all democratic rights. Those pushing the "Israel-is-Apartheid" line want us to believe that Israeli Arabs are in the position of South African blacks. But Israeli Arabs run for office and vote for a parliament that decides the government of Israel. By way of comparison, how do Arabs fare in the so-called 'Arab countries'? Do ordinary Arabs have democratic rights in Saudi Arabia? Not unless you mean the right to support the ruling family. (There are 11 secret police organizations in Saudi Arabia to accommodate those who do not support the ruling family.) If Arabs in Libya or Egypt oppose the official anti-Semitic hate propaganda or call for friendship with Israel they risk jail or worse. What about Jordan? It is a monarchy, remember? Do Arabs have democratic rights in Sudan? In Baath-run Syria? These are vicious dictatorships. What QAIA has done is typical of anti-Israel propagandists. They have taken advantage of the widespread fantasy-view of the Middle East in which groups like the PLO are supposedly freedom fighters similar to Martin Luther King's Civil Rights movement, minus the non-violence. Anti-Israel propagandists build on this false image, likening Palestinians to blacks
Ahmad Yaqiin, Brampton Ontario
07/16/10 9:00 PM EST
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QAIA ARE ANTI SEMITIC PART 4
in South Africa under Apartheid or in the US under Segregation, and likening Jews to racist whites in these countries. QAIA knows that their audience is ignorant of basic realities in the Middle East, where half of Israel's Jewish population are refugees from terror in Arab-run countries, and where Arab racism against Jews and sub-Saharan Africans is common. Taking advantage of the fictional model of a Middle East that resides only in Western heads, QAIA and other propagandists throw out massive quantities of lies, knowing most will stick- as I pointed out in Peter Mansbridge demonization of Israel- AN OUTRIGHT LIE- on June 01 2010 on the National! Aside from the fact that Arabs live better in Israel than in any Arab country, the attempt to liken Israel with South Africa under Apartheid ignores other facts. For one thing, white people are fairly recent arrivals in South Africa. But the situation in the Middle East is quite different. The only state that has ever existed in the area now occupied by Israel was the ancient state of...Israel. Following the Roman genocide of the Jews 2000 years ago, Jews have continuously lived in what was their country despite mockery and abuse, about which see Karl Marx's account of the plight of the Jewish majority in Jerusalem in the mid-19th century. (And keep in mind that Marx was an anti-Semite and therefore the plight of the Jews must have been extreme for him to write a sympathetic report on their suffering.) Another thing: South African Apartheid was a nightmare, rooted in the crackpot "science" of 'Eugenics', which the South African racists apparently picked up in Germany, which received it from the pillars of the US Establishment. Eugenics is especially contemptuous of two groups: dark skinned people from Tropical Africa and... Jews Eugenics assumes the existence of 'racially inferior' groups, but racist speech and discrimination are illegal in Israel. By contrast, in the West Bank and Gaza, Palestin
Ah,ad Yaqiin, Brampton Ontario
07/16/10 9:06 PM EST
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QAIA is anti semitic part 5
-ian institutions preach that Jews are subhuman's who should be killed. (What German Nazi leader does that remind you of?) Joseph Goebbels and Adolf Hitler! No coincidence that Mein Kemph is among the best sellers in the Islamic Middle East! To fund organizations such as QAIA is to fund anti-Semitism and plain old Jew hate!
Ahmad Yaqiin, Brampton Ontario
07/16/10 9:12 PM EST
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sauce for the goose
QuAIA called for a boycott of Israeli tourism... some of their members also were at TIFF last September calling for a boycott of the festival. Hey, if gay leftist militants can use boycotts against the people THEY disagree with, why should they complain when the shoe is on the other foot? Now that QuAIA has won the "battle", it is up to City Council and sponsors to decide if they want THEIR money supporting a bunch who are if nothing else, hypocrites. Has anyone ever asked QuAIA who THEIR sponsors are? THAT might be an interesting question for Xtra to try and find out...but don't hold your breath...
Ken, Paris France
07/16/10 11:28 PM EST
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Inciting Racial Hatred
Rich both of those chants were used throughout the parade by QuAIA, I watched and heard as did everybody else, and there's footage of it too. An intifada is a campaign of violence, whatever textbook definition you prefer to use, Viva Viva Intifada means violence against Israel. It is a cry for violence against Israel. And to be Anti-Zionist is to be Anti-Israel, nothing about apartheid there, just against a Jewish homeland. We're Queer We're Pissed We're Anit-Zionist is a hateful slogan and doesn't belong at Pride. Both QuAIA chants are clear examples of anti-semitic language (or, racism). Is that spelled out enough? Shouting hateful slogans into a megaphone does not belong at Pride. Shouting foreign war cries should never be permitted in Canada.
Ryan, Toronto ON
07/16/10 11:42 PM EST
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Ahmed -- black is white, up is down
It's just too adorable when Israel's apologists try to distort Israel's most overtly racist policies into some representation of what a wonderful open and Arab-loving state it is. Ahmed Yaqiin wants to claim that Israel is very nice to its Arab population because the Arabs are 20% of the population and they own 3% of the land. If those numbers already sound strange, they should, but let's continue... Ahmed says that 93.5% of the land is held for "public use." That is true, in theory at least... what Ahmed is not telling you is that this land is controlled and "leased" by the Jewish National Fund. The Jewish National Fund has strong restrictions on who it sells land to.... it only sells land to people who serve in the Israeli military. The point Ahmed is again conveniently leaving out is that most Arab Israelis are barred from serving in the military, hence they will NEVER have access to that land as a proprietor, land owner or business owner. In fact, let's be clear what this 93.5% of the land controlled by the JNF is... that is land that was conquered by Israel's military during the 47-48 war. So the remaining 6.5% that Arabs can POSSIBLY buy represents the land within Israel's recognized borders that Israel failed to take from the Arabs by military force. In other words, the 6.5% represents a cap on how much the land the Arabs would ever or will ever be allowed to own inside of Israel. So let's break it down one last time: 93.5% of the land controlled by _Jewish_ National Fund, 3.5% privately owned by Jewish Israelis and 3% of the land under private Arab ownership. Yup... that's why we call it Apartheid.
Sav., Toronto ON
07/17/10 2:59 AM EST
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@Ahmad Yaqiin
The Jewish community in the US was a great and often the only supporter of the African American civil rights movement. A contribution that is not celebrated enough in my eyes. Jews were among those who worked to establish the NAACP in 1909. African-American newspapers were among the first in the U.S. to denounce Nazism.... . It is also undeniable that for too many years Israel traded (sold arms) and collaborated with the white regime in South Africa, while most other countries had various forms of boycott in place. One prominent Israeli politician after another (including foreing affairs ministers)openly expressed admiration for the odious regime and its racist policies. It is worth also pointing out the Muslim population in South Africa is only 1.5% (We are not talking Sudan!). What possible reason did Israel have in aligning itself with such government? If Israel and the Jewish people/faith are one and the same, am I antisemic in thinking, as a person of African descent, that Israel was wrong? After what was done to the Jews in Europe, is it wrong of me and others to be profoundly disappointed when Israel lends its good name to support racist policies when convenient? Perhaps we are holding Israel to a higher standard. Is that a bad thing? Is not the Israeli alone who have a vested interest in its success, but many others who see Israel as an example of success against all odds. I do not think that what Israel is doing to the Palestinians is apartheid yet, even if many elements are pointing that way, but it I believe it is valid political discourse. I am glad that Israeli with a conscience are offended by the term. I would be more worried if they did not find it offensive. They should also be provoked enough to ask themselves why so many non Arab, non Muslim Africans feel that way. That is if the opinion of the powerless matters to Israel at all at this stage. Maybe they have forgotten what it is like to be powerless...
JG, Toronto ON
07/17/10 12:38 PM EST
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re: Ken
Ken they weren't calling for the boycott of TIFF, they were calling for a boycott of the Israeli section of TIFF, not the whole festival. That would be the equivalent of anti-QuAIA folks asking sponsors not to sponsor QuAIA, not Pride in general. Same with the boycott Israel campaign, its specifically targeted towards Israel, not Israel's associates. The way anti-QuAIA types are going about is equivalent to trying to shut down the UN because Israel is a member of it. And it is most hypocritical of the anti-QuAIA types to be claiming that QuAIA doesn't care about Pride when its they themselves who are working towards shutting down Pride or dramatically scaling it back because they don't like the 0.01% of it that QuAIA represents. How is attacking something that's so important to the entire LGBT community show any concern for the LGBT community? do they really feel its acceptable to attack the entire LGBT community because they don't agree with a tiny percentage of that community? That really is like QuAIA attacking all Jews, something they don't and never would do, because they disagree with Israeli policy. Why can't the anti-QuAIA types show the same concern for the wider communities that QuAIA shows?
Rich, Toronto Ontario
07/17/10 1:10 PM EST
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re: Inciting racial hatred
Ryan this is just going to be another case where some folks see anti-semitism where others see nothing of the sort. But first off intifada means many things, maybe to you it only means violence against Israel but to many others its meaning is resistance and that's the way QuAIA has been using it as can be determined by a quick glance at their website where you'll see images such as this http://quaiatoronto.files.wordpress.com/2010/07/canadiandimensionqueer2.jpg which has a tee-shirt saying "Join the homosexual intifada" which clearly isn't calling on gays and lesbians to violently attack Israel, and the link to a site called "The Electronic Intifada" which if you have a look at that site you'll see that its also about resistance, not violence against Israel. As for the reference to anti-zionism we'll just have to disagree you say its calling for Israel's destruction, I say its calling for Palestine's survival since if the zionists get their way there will be no independent Palestine and the Palestinian people will be expelled form their land to make way for even more Jewish settlers. Sometimes Ryan you have to look at the context in which certain things are said, QuAIA is a human rights group protesting against Israel's violations of Palestinian human rights and they're made up of many Jewish members, some of whom are actually Jewish Israeli-Canadians themselves, its really far fetched to believe that they're anti-semitic when nothing in their messaging is even remotely anti-semitic, you say their chants were anti-semitic, I say they were pro-Palestinian, but I'd grant you if they were an anti-semitic group such chants could be interpreted as anti-semitic, it'd be a interpretation based on other clearly anti-semitic comments/beliefs which just don't exist in QuAIA's case though, if so it should be easy to find something they've said that's clearly and not ambiguously anti-semitic but it isn't there to be found in QuAIA's case.
Rich, Toronto Ontario
07/17/10 1:31 PM EST
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@ Sav (the JNF) talk about misinfomation
the JNF does not control 93.5% of Israeli Land who gives you these sources? According to Haaretz the JNF only owns about 13% of total land in Israel (http://bit.ly/dAeJ31) Wow Sav you lie very well and all the land transactions are controlled in Israel is controlled by the Israeli government and everyone including Arabs in Israel can buy or lease land anywhere since 93% of Israel land belongs to the Israeli Government (http://bit.ly/a2r6I6) while remainder 13% belongs to the JNF and in 2005 the Gadish Committee agreed that the JNF did violate Israeli Law by not selling land to Arabs was racist and the JNF was force to give the state back any land belong to Israeli Arabs which did go under control of the state. (http://bit.ly/9sGf1w) and funny from Arabs can buy land from the JNF.Wow I bet a Super Genius like you never knew this? did you? I bet your just going to call be a racist for questioning you. But you can't run from the truth Sav and you can't lie forever which you seem to be doing.
Peter From, Toronto ON
07/17/10 2:31 PM EST
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About TIFF could the Super Genius answer this
Why were all theIsraeli Films were all rather critical about the State and it's treatment towards Palestinians? and you could answer this one which was the why were there Palestinians at the film festival too? Since they were claiming there was none?
Peter From, Toronto ON
07/17/10 2:51 PM EST
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super genius speaks
93% of the land is controlled by the Israel Land Administration, the Jewish National Fund is a subset of that, sorry I did get the names backwards. But the point stands that the Israel Land Authority specifically bars non-Jewish non-nationals from purchasing land, and in fact rarely sells land even to Arab citizens of Israel. Why should a Palestinian resident of Jerusalem or the West Bank be barred from land ownership? Are Jewish Israelis barred from land ownership in the West Bank? No, the state of Israel uses military force to expropriate that land from the Palestinians for Jewish-only settlement. The Palestinians live under and have lived under Israeli military rule (the PA is a sham and everyone knows it) for 43 years. Despite the fact that Israel is de facto their government, they are not allowed to buy land in Israel and oftentimes, especially in East Jerusalem, Israel drives Palestinians out of their homes to make way for Jewish development. I as an American can purchase land in Canada if I wish. But a Palestinian in Jerusalem, with permanent residency in Israel, is banned from purchasing land in her own city or anywhere inside the territory Israel claims.
Sav., Toronto ON
07/17/10 3:15 PM EST
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More important issues don't you think?
Holy shit people, this is a gay magazine and although I totally support pride being political fuck Israel, fuck QUAIA fuck palestine! How the hell does Israel get dragged into a parade about gay pride is beyond me. You want to keep it political? fine stick to your own country! I belive it's called imperialism when you stick your nose from the comfort of Canada (the West) and pretend to know the solutions of another region. The world is messed up. yes I get it I wish it well. As much as I support QUAIA marching in the pride as I do God Hate's Fags I strongly encourage QUAIA to go march in Tel Aviv next year. I believe they have a gay parade as well.
Jamie, Toronto ON
07/17/10 3:47 PM EST
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@ Sav can seem to read or accept the truth
Also Sav I forgot you do know that the JNF is not apart of the Israeli government and is a private run organization and they can sell to anyone they want and funny you also forgot that the Israeli Government view that JNF policy as racist and force the JNF to change it. Israel Land Authority is govern by a all party committee and those do include Arab parties do sit on this committee . Also Non Jewish people can buy land from either the Israeli government or the JNF if you forgot to read the last part of my comment were the Israeli Government did view it as a racist policy and force them to change this.(Since it did violate Israeli Law) As for Non Nationals owning land they can but even in Canada Sweetie we do have laws bar Non Nationals from owning land here in Canada. Many of our Provinces do bar Non Nationals from owning land here and the rule of thumb here if a Non National wants to buy land they have to live he year round and have residency in Canada. If they don't they can't own land in Canada Also Non Nationals in Canada can't even get free health care same rule. WOW Sav you have to much misinformation. I find it most interesting that most Arab Countries do bar Jews from owning land in their countries even if they are nationals of those countries and that is not racist?
Peter From, Toronto ON
07/17/10 4:06 PM EST
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Pride needs fearless leadership
Corporations should never be allowed to dictate anything about Pride content. Pride is not for sale Tracey. If corporations get a say on how Pride is run, then there contribution isn't that generous. It's up to Pride Toronto to maintain that relationship so that both parties continue to benefit.
Raymond Helkio, Toronto Ontario
07/17/10 5:32 PM EST
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I am done with Pride
As are most of my friends. We will no longer attend the parade, which judging by these boards will descend into a small, poltical, mud slinging collection of groups with opposing views on world politics. When I saw the JDL and QuAIA march in a GAY PRIDE parade I new it was over. A much smaller political Pride has no interest for me at all. Especially when the politics involved have nothing to do with LGBT rights.
Bester, Toronto Ontario
07/17/10 7:57 PM EST
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@Sav
That's not apartheid...obviously you didn't read all the content that Ahmed wrote...or you didn't understand it...go back and try again...read slowly this time.
J. B. Thomas, Toronto Ontario
07/17/10 9:02 PM EST
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WTF?
I don't understand why people are trying to solve or convince obstinate opponents about an argument that's probably 3,000 years old plus....This won't be resolved here, or in a Pride march or in Toronto, or in Canada. The real issues are 1. What sort of Pride parade/weekend do you want? and 2. Whose going to pay for it? I'm with Bester...I'll probably stay home as I know have an official excuse not to attend. (Also, truth be told, it's hard to take some people seriously when they have spelling mistakes in their rants...there/their and knew/new. Those damn Homonyms. I think I'll start a group: Queers against Homonyms...except Homonyms starts with homo...does that mean I'm against myself...well probably...just look at this forum). (AND...would Xtra invest in a web page that allows you to do some sort of HTML format...at least allow us the privilege of paragraphs...it's getting hard for their 49 year old eyes to read these tiny rants... ctrl and + will allow you to increase text size.)
J. B. Thomas, Toronto Ontario
07/17/10 9:21 PM EST
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re: WTF?
I agree with you in many ways, actually I only attended Pride this year to see how things worked with all the mess this year. For the past several years I haven't attended but mainly because to me it had largely become a large live action commercial and since I don't drink and don't care for the company of drunken folks I have no incentive to hang out in the bars or beer tent either. For me Pride meant a lot more back when I was younger and closer to my closeted days, it doesn't mean as much to me as it used to, plus I have issues with crowds and its been getting harder for me every year to stay comfortable as the crowds grow. However I still care about Pride, as contradictory as that may seem, just because I don't go to the parade I still mark the occasion with my friends in our own way. Anyways no one is going to win any debate about Israel, its just posturing on both sides that and head butting, the issue really is just Pride and what people think it should be and who belongs and who doesn't. However debating, even when its just back and forth and pointless can be fun too, though just as often tiresome and tedious. I mostly try to avoid debating anything Israel/Palestine conflict related but I admit I've been sucked in at times and found that there's really very little anyone can say about the issue of the Israel/Palestinian conflict without pissing off someone for whatever reason. I don't share some folks dim view of the future for Pride, I think things will settle down a lot when the city finally gets around to determining if QuAIA violates the city's anti-discrimination code, though I'm convinced they'll find they don't since there have been 3 independent legal opinions that they don't violate it already and none that they do, there's just a maybe from a city staffer. Anyways Pride is so much larger than this issue and I'm confident it'll continue regardless of what happens with it.
Rich, Toronto Ontario
07/17/10 9:57 PM EST
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Deflecting Blame
It is interesting that everything is blamed on 'the political messaging issue'. First of all- I do not believe Pride lost ANY sponsors due to the political messaging. Sponsorship for a festival that takes place every year, should not be dramatically affected by an event that takes place only months before. If agreements were verbal or almost there- that is simply mismanagement - nothing is finalized until it is on paper. So, if they were that close, perhaps drafting a contract would have been appropriate. I think someone should ask Pride Execs exactly which sponsorships were lost as a result of the political messaging? when the companies pulled out and why? because its very important. in addition, I believe it is a scape-goat. I think its time Pride started to listen to everyone, and if Pride doesn't- it once again relies on the community, or perhaps some politicians to get involved. How Pride's beer sales dropped so significantly when it rained last year, and there was an additional location this year- is again, poor planning and inefficiencies at their max. The Board and the staff are clearly out of touch with not only the community, but how to run an organization carefully. or with any care at all.
Jon, toronto ontario
07/17/10 10:07 PM EST
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@JB
Why stfle participation by criticizing somebody's knowledge of English? Why not learn from the content of their posting, if you get the gist? Some may not have had the privilege of a good education or like myself, English may not be their mother tongue. It's great to see people getting involved for a change, and some of us are learning from each other; grammatical errors and all. Middle class snobbery is best left in the closet.
JG, Toronto ON
07/18/10 6:23 AM EST
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@ JG
Never assume because it makes an ass out of you and me. I come from a working class family (mining town) and English is my second language...French is my third. My point being...you make one spelling error on a resume and it's instantly in the trash since they have a 100 others to look at. There is very little compassion in the real world. People's snobbery and bias with respect to language is worse than some of the racism we're talking about as you'll never know that you were a casualty of it. (BTW, I worked hard for my three degrees and suffered enormous student loan debts and look where it got me...I'm debating with hotheads on Xtra...all five of us who are constantly fixated on this forum. Oh, and also, if you ever need an excellent tutor, I know of one who actually thinks "grammar can be sexy". She teaches ESL at U of T but tutors on the side. English was not her first language either. She only spoke Croatian when she first moved to Canada at age 10.)
J. B. Thomas, Toronto Ontario
07/18/10 9:25 AM EST
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JG: FYI
The Sudbury miners have been on strike for over a full year. They have just settled with the Draconian Brazilian Mining Corporation. All they received were less concessions. (That means they just suffered less cuts than they would have if there was no strike.) It's a very bitter dispute since it's a foreign company siphoning off Canadian resources and trying to apply Brazilian labour laws (there are none) to a Canadian economy. Just last week, I participated in the Solidarity Celebrations in the Union Hall and had a meal (soup kitchen style) with other members and their families who have seen their way of life torn apart. Now those are real domestic problems that nobody's paying attention to because they don't have the allure and the history of Middle Eastern politics. The Sudbury strike had no place in our Pride parade just as QuAIA and some of the Jewish delegation shouldn't. Find the appropriate venue when you want to be heard by people who are actually involved with the problems. All this has done is to tear and divide the gay community (not that we were ever a homogenous group...but now not for sure). I'm still with Bester...I'm staying home next year...or even leaving town to enjoy my "working class" roots. Perhaps I'll even through in a little Broken English to spice it up.
J. B. Thomas, Toronto Ontario
07/18/10 9:54 AM EST
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Wake up!
I hope this news is the wake up call that will remind Canadians that Pride needs protecting from divisive hate, that free speech doesn't include hate speech, and that a bunch of free-loading self-appointed porte-parole parasites will never pay for a successful, fun, effective and inclusive event.
William, Montreal QC
07/18/10 10:29 AM EST
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JB
I agree with most of what you have said on the Vale Inco strike and the way it was ignored by the media. It is in keeping with the way we treat any issue from Northen Ontario. Absolutely shameful! I however disagree that Pride is inherently the wrong venue to raise awareness of the Sudbury strike or ME politcs if done peacefully, legally and a queer supporter; personally I do not see myself entirely reduced to just my sexuality no matter how vitally important that is. Strife is strife and there should not be a hierachical order of importance. You are right that one is a local issue and the other is not. But please keep in mind that the world is at our door steps and for some of us immigrants, certain "away" issues do occupy our thoughts and we live with them in private agony. There is room for both in my Pride. Besides had there not been an attempt to censor them, QuAIA would have been as ignored as the Vale Inco strike. It all goes back to your original point: the relevance of Pride. That requires a deeper discussion. If we collectively decide that it is just a queer carnival or minstrel show, then any political message is inappropriate. Who is going to pay for it will depend on that collective decision.
JG, Toronto ON
07/18/10 11:48 AM EST
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Hate group's fault
Simply limit Gay pride to gay positive messages and we can get our funding back. CLEAR and SIMPLE! We shouldn't be funded if we allow Gay pride to be a platform to demonize any group of people.
queero, toronto ontario
07/18/10 12:16 PM EST
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@JB
Sorry I did not mean to ignore your previous comments I just had not noticed them. I was not making any assumptions. I was only commenting on what you had written: "..Also, truth be told, it's hard to take some people seriously when they have spelling mistakes in their rants...there/their and knew/new". I was solely pointing out that for somebody like myself who approaches writing in English with some apprehension, my style of writing or knowledge of grammar may not be necessarily a reflection of what I am capable of offering. Posting a few rants in Xtra is not exactly a curriculum vitae, where of course, care is a must and judgement is expected. Your accomplishments are great and your ability to speak three languages swimmingly is impressive nevertheless I remain reticent to classify others, who may not have had similar knack, stamina and wherewithal, as lacking in credibility. Snobbishness is not an inherited trait nor peculiar to any class. I would gladly hire your Croatian tutor, but I suspect that I am beyond repair.Cheers!
JG, Toronto ON
07/18/10 12:53 PM EST
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no easy solution
People make it sound as if the money was taken away because of QuAIA, when in fact, the beer tents were empty because so many were not going to support pride after all it had done... the Dyke March, from what I hear was a disaster, because the community went somewhere else to have the best no-permit dyke march we have ever had (except perhaps the first few times). So, things aren't going to get back to normal if QuAIA is excluded, because much of the community will leave and Pride can't function without us. So, sorry queero, your analisis of the situation is ridiculous. The best Pride Toronto can do is reorganize and find supporters who will deal with the queer community as it wants to be, not as some fringe group wants us to be.
Tam, Toronto Ontario
07/18/10 12:57 PM EST
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spelling mistakes
JG, I agree with you completely and have wondered about this in the past. I think people learn languages in different ways and those who do so through concentrating on grammar, though they make less grammatical mistakes and their spelling is perfect, approach written language as a thing. They aren't nearly as fluid and take pride in their ability to stick to arbitrary rules. Arbitrary rules because they were imposed on us about 500 years ago, arbitrarily. Those are the people who brag about how well they know a language, which is, after all, something that even a child can learn. I make mistakes all the time here and I am grateful that word has spellcheck. A friend of mine took editing and she was great at it, because she learned all the rules, but you know what? It didn't make her a good writer. She came to that realization herself. That there is a correct way of writing but that does not mean good writing. In the case of JB, for example, the problems is completely different, it doesn't matter if he gets all the spelling correctly because there is a significant lack of logic in his argumentation. This reminds me of an example used by Pinker in the language instinct. There was this girl whose spoken english was perfect in grammatical structure, but she had mental problems which meant that while she was able to create fantastic sentences, they had nothing to do with reality and she did not understand the significance of anything she said. I apologize for any typos that might have been left behind but I am not going to re-read this before I send it. Cheers.
Tam, Toronto Ontario
07/18/10 1:17 PM EST
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Hi Tam
What prompted me to respond to JB was while he was criticizing others about form, and using it to question the substance of their argument, in the same posting, he made a glaring error himself. The old "whose" versus "who is". I would never however question the validity of his POV. The irony however is too great to let go. lol! I just hate stifling discourse by creating meaningless insecurity in others.
JG, Toronto ON
07/18/10 2:20 PM EST
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The Many Faces of Pride
It's not plausible to make Pride everything everyone wants it to be, or be about. Maybe we'll have to start thinking about having two Prides like they do in Montreal (Fierte and Divers/Cite). In Toronto there are those who want to celebrate, commemorate, and participate in a positive-energy sexually diverse street festival that draws big crowds, lots of tourists, and brings in money. Then there are those who want to march, chant, protest, raise awareness of various political interests and social causes above and beyond queer rights, and challenge the mainstream, contemporary Pride festival. It's hard to have both. If it does become a mash-up of the two, I'm with Bester, I'll skip the parade and stick with the street party.
Ryan, Toronto ON
07/18/10 3:52 PM EST
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Language as handcuffs
Tam says "Arbitrary rules because they were imposed on us about 500 years ago, arbitrarily." That's a rather lazy and arrogant statement. Care to back it up or at least give us a clue what the fuck you mean? Nice try, too, blaming the beer sales dip on Pride's mishandling. Rather black and white thinking you exhibit.
Giada, Woodbridge ON
07/18/10 4:00 PM EST
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Dont' conflate corporations and the state
"Corporations should never be allowed to dictate anything about Pride content." Agreed, Raymond, but there's little evidence this is happening. The only incorporated entity that has shown any ongoing interest in dictating to Pride is the City of Toronto and Kyle Rae. Corporations, by their nature as agents of capitalism and their charter, are interested in one thing: profit. The rich man will sell you the rope to hang him with, as the adage goes. Assigning some kind of moral code to capitalism misses the point; it's not about that. TD, Molson, etc. have not come on board to micromanage the goings-on at Pride. They've come to make money. And as long as they can make money off of us, they'll be there doing just that.
Gemma Lam, Toronto ON
07/18/10 4:27 PM EST
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lazy
Giada, You are right, that is a lazy statement. I could have said that before 1492 there was no set grammar for castilian spanish or any other european language. It was only in 1492 that Nebrija made one for that language and gave it to Queen Isabel and almost a century later comes the first english grammar. Before that neither the spelling, nor grammatical rules were set (though they aren't that set in that they can still change). I do have to say arbitrarily doesn't mean completely random, Nebrija surely was determining a correct language by usage, at least by the usage of some people, and potentially eliminating what he considered contradictions in rules, it would be interesting to look into that. Anyway, before that, written language was used phonetically. So that in cases like knew and new they would have been just as correct. And, if they didn't have one letter in the typeset (something that continued to go on for centuries after the introduction of grammars) they simply used a similar sounding letter. I hope this helps. I just wanted to say tough that while my statement might have been lazy your reponse is also lazy. You could have tried to do your own research about what I meant. For example, by typing "first european grammar" on google or "first grammar for a european language", etc.
Tam, Toronto Ontario
07/18/10 4:39 PM EST
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pride's troubles
There is nothing, btw, black and white in saying that on the one hand the pro-Israel side which tried to blackmail pride and take away city funding has caused financial troubles for pride but that apeasing them by banning QuAIA is going to cost Pride quite a lot. What is one sided is to say that Pride's troubles are because it included QuAIA. If anything, Pride's problems are because the pro-Israel group started a movement to silence another group. I guess they don't like the reaction they got. Either way the pro-Israel side threatened our funding and when they got what they wanted, they simply alienated a significant part of the queer community. Basically, they put Pride in a no-win situation. QuAIA is just a group like many other groups that have come before it complaining about global human rights abuses. That was ok with everyone until it was about Israel.
Tam, Toronto Ontario
07/18/10 4:57 PM EST
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@JG
JG, I know. I often wonder if they have nothing else to brag about. When I was doing my undergrad the psychology department had experiments about precisely this phenomenon. I would argue that the brain creates a system that combines both specific instances "centre" "center" to get the correct spelling (in this case understand both correct spellings) but also relies on phonetics which causes these types of mistakes. Specially when one is sleepy. :)
Tam, Toronto Ontario
07/18/10 5:07 PM EST
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@ tam
Tam your Historical examples proves you really now nothing. Funny I could tell you what really happen but you will just resort to the usual attacks since you white hood seems to be showing sweetie
Peter From, Toronto ON
07/18/10 5:07 PM EST
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boring
I'm one of a number of gay people I know who can't stand Pride week. Why? Same old same old.. long line ups at beer gardens, a parade that is the same as its been for the past 20 years accept for more ads for alcohol and banks trying to suck up to gay people. This year I actually saw a hot tub dealer ( yes I said hot tub ) on church street. I think I liked Pride better when people hated us ! less line ups.. less babies. Its like being at Ikea on Saturday afternoon... crowded and filled with obnoxious people LOL. Time to go back to the roots of Pride.. KISS... KEEP IT SIMPLE....
John Hryniuk, Toronto Ontario
07/18/10 5:22 PM EST
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Own it.
Blah blah blan Castilian yadda yadda. Ain't a fucking mind-reader, bitch. You didn't give a clue what you were on about and your university-speak isn't exactly clearing stuff up. Bite it.
Giada, Woodbridge ON
07/18/10 5:26 PM EST
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BS TAM
"QuAIA is just a group like many other groups that have come before it complaining about global human rights abuses. That was ok with everyone until it was about Israel." Bullshit. Reeking bullshit. What we're not okay with, and pretending this away won't work, is the use of bellicose language i.e. 'Israeli apartheid.' People are okay with Israel being criticized, and there's lots to work with there, because they've fucked up a lot. What we're not okay with is the blatant sucking up to Hamas/Hezbollah elements in this city as in display at Israeli Apartheid Week events where "Down With Israel" is the chant-du-jour. Yes, there are elements that call every criticism of Israel anti-Semitism. But there are those of us who aren't of the "Israel can do no wrong" school who nonetheless have a problem with QuAIA. Still, I don't think they should be banned. See how it can be NOT black and white? I don't like your group, but it has the right to march. You can't handle that, can you? You want us all to be mindless Israel-supporting automatons. The bloody-mindedness on both extremes shows they can't be trusted and we'd do well to keep an eye on them all.
Ari, Thornhill ON
07/18/10 5:36 PM EST
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Peter's disneyland degree and Gaia's vulgar sexism
Peter, I know you are very proud of your little degree from who knows what distance university... here is a star for you... but I doubt that you have ever even taken a look at Nebrija's grammar or that you understand the context in which it happened. Nothing I have said is disputable. It simply is what is. Sometimes Peter one makes disputable arguments, this one isn't one of those. You could certainly add to it, if you were smart, but it would never contradict anything I said, because what I gave is the bare bones of what happened, that which is not disputable. As for Gaia, there is nothing to own up to. You see, I would have looked it up myself. And I do not call people bitches. It is just trashy. I hate to be classist but what kind of a back alley were you raised in? I know... I am trying to work on it... just because you are raised by people who swear all the time, spit on the ground, have too many bears and can't quite take the car and the old bathtub out of the front yard it doesn't mean they are less than me... I can't be perfect... so my apologies for this little outburst.
Tam, Toronto Ontario
07/18/10 5:53 PM EST
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@ Tam
Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah it's the same old same old you might want to get professional help sweetie you are attacking people again, if I remember I'm not the only one who said this and you might want to get someone in that the psychology department to help you. Tam the reason why I said that you make no sense. I could correct it but you will just attack so there is no point.
Peter From, Toronto ON
07/18/10 6:01 PM EST
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I just don't understand, how many times do I have to tell you to stop addressing me? Are you like a Jehova Witness? (no that there is anything wrong with that.. just wondering). "I could correct you...but I won't take the time"... lol... you are so funny... Still, please stop addressing me. It is just a waste of our time. You bark at me, I look down at you... what is the use of that. I am not trying to change your mind. You are a waste of time.
Tam, Toronto Ontario
07/18/10 6:11 PM EST
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It is a good thing
that I never open up that email address... damn forms!
zezi, Toronto Ontario
07/18/10 6:15 PM EST
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Queer UP PRIDE
I agree with someone's comments above. Too many straight people come to pride now because it is so inviting and boring. I have never seen as many straight people making out and being sexy as at pride. Once it gets good for them, you know it's on its last legs. I'm all for the Fetish Fair - no kids and very family unfriendly!
loki, toronto ON
07/18/10 6:22 PM EST
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Comment Above
Queers Only? Talk about Apartheid
WTF, Toronto ON
07/18/10 7:07 PM EST
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Comment Above
I too did notice this year alot of straight guys and girls celebrating their own version of Pride, but we should never seek to exclude them. It might not be a bad idea to incorporate some sort of Straight Tent at Pride, not as a means of separation, but to give them an opportunity to experience their own sexual liberation -- the gay way!
Ryan, Toronto ON
07/18/10 7:55 PM EST
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JG:sexuality is personality-but make it relevant
I don't see myself defined by my sexual preference. However, my sexuality does define my personality as it does yours. I am a gay man who sees that my whole life doesn't have to be compressed into our Pride parade/weekend. That time is best spent on gay issues. It's not meant for Middle Eastern politics,nor Canadian Apartheid (that one is for you, TAM), nor striking miners, nor multi-national corporations that strip Canada of its natural resources, finally, nor the TS and OCD which has complicated the lives of my children. Pride should be a celebration of the gay soul: LGBTQQ2S and should be about gay issues. Middle Eastern Politics and Multi-national corporations are best suited to events such as the G20. My children's afflictions are best dealt with in special interest groups such as the TS Foudation of Canada. Pick the proper venue...you're entitled to your opinion but voice it to people who can do something about it in a relevant forum. Pride cannot take on the whole world's problems. What will the world care if a bunch of fags scream out for strikers' rights in the Sudbury district. Leave Pride for the gay issues...or just turn it into that fun carnival....that at least sounds better.
J. B. Thomas, Toronto Ontario
07/18/10 8:12 PM EST
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The Queen of Irrelevance
Tam, I thought you told Peter and me that we wouldn't have to hear from you anymore since it was impossible to make us understand. Glad to see you're back. I have to agree with Giada, you are excellent at spewing out the rhetoric but very poor at providing concrete examples to back up your claims. Though Giada may be coarse, I'd rather hear from her than you because I know that she says what she means. The message is clear and simple. Then there's the whole reminiscent stroll through the annals of history and the evolution of language. What's that about? How about we just agree to use the English that is the commonly accepted English of today. We won't go into the evolution of English with the Norman, Viking and Gaelic influences. Okay? Just to let you know: analisis should be analysis, english should be English, castilian should be Castilian, european should be European, (problems with the shift key?) "centre" is the correct spelling for Canada, bears should be beers (that one was not phonetic, so don't give me that garbage, Jehova should be Jehovah and finally, if you're going to insult somebody, use their correct name: Gaia should be Giada. Sorry...it must be the gay snob in me. I can't help it. We teachers and language learners love to come down on the self-righteous sanctimonious few who try to speak down to us!
J. B. Thomas, Toronto Ontario
07/18/10 8:23 PM EST
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@ Peter
I like when you say "blah, blah, blah" with respect to TAM's empty words. On the last forum we were on, I left her a list of five (actually seven) questions to answer directly and to provide us with her concrete examples as proof, without using her slimy rhetoric to wiggle out of the responsibility of delivering an honest answer.
J. B. Thomas, Toronto Ontario
07/18/10 8:29 PM EST
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Giada: me....a little hypocritical? - nah!
Giada, you said it like it is....call a spade a spade. Furthermore, all of your obscenities were spelled correctly. LMAO ;-) But I do really need to know, do your family and friends drink "bears" or "beers"?
J. B. Thomas, Toronto Ontario
07/18/10 8:42 PM EST
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@JG...in my books
Pretense is worse than snobbery. Some would argue they are the same but I can curb my snobbery while you just think you're omniscient (and better than everybody else). ;-) Stop talking down to us like we're children who just don't understand the grown-up world. Take care of your back yard first before you start pointing fingers abroad.
J. B. Thomas, Toronto Ontario
07/18/10 8:53 PM EST
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J.B,.
I said I wouldn't address you... which is different... this is exactly why I said that. You don't process information correctly so there is no use speaking with you. "You thought" ... well... now there is some optimism on your part. :) Who is? or Whose? And J.B., the last thing I'll say to you, please don't address me anymore after this, I already told you, we are not in the same league, sometimes people think they are better than you because they are arrogant but with no bases for it, sometimes they aren't arrogant, they just know, and they are right, that they are better than you. I would say J.B. that in your case someone like Peter thinking he is better than you would be stupid, but chances are anyone who thinks they are better than you... is right.
Tam, Toronto Ontario
07/18/10 10:26 PM EST
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Acting like a Super Genius are again? Yeah its Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah. You have to stop attacking people Tam that all you are going and funny you do that because you can't even make a argument. I still could correct your historical example but when it turns out to be right you will just attack again. You might need some get some help with this and I'm not the only person who have said that.
Peter From, Toronto ON
07/18/10 11:12 PM EST
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TAM: Superiority Complex
I think you suffer from a superiority complex which usually masks an underlying condition like an inferiority complex. I'm curious if it's in the DSM-IV or will it be in version 5? I don't know. You're the supposed psychology expert...and a very bad one at that (actually a poor academic overall). I guess that's the wonderful thing about "freedom of speech." I can address you whenever I want...you just don't have to read it...but compulsively,... you will. I've got you pegged...you can never be wrong and you want to verify that everybody around you agrees with that fallacy. Just as before, you're write and I'm wrong...I can live with it.
J. B. Thomas, Toronto Ontario
07/19/10 7:56 AM EST
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TAM's opinion of Canadian Apartheid
It never happened...and if it did...it's in the past, and we can't do anything about it. (The past didn't seem to be an issue when you were examining the evolution of the Indo-European languages and needed to explain phonetic spelling.) I showed my one Native friend (and a teacher of Native Studies) your comment about how those people (First Nations) "chose" to live on the reserves. This was her reaction, a direct quote: "I think it was interesting that your sparing partner mentioned that First Nations chose to live on reserve? If you are born on a fly in a community, what choice do you have? There are no jobs, no income, no way of leaving. Choice my ass and I have a big one so I know asses." Smells like apartheid to me, and it is still a very current problem. My other friend (not First Nations but a teacher of Native Studies) has stated that Canada did an excellent job of hiding what we did to the First Nations people. Who would ever expect quiet apologetic Canada? Sooooo....before we go sticking our self-righteous noses in Middle Eastern politics, why don't we clean up our own mess. At least we should take ownership of it. I know: you're right and I'm wrong. It bugs you though, doesn't it? (For the others reading this, this was a debate we had on a previous forum, same topic of QuAIA, about how we should stick to our own back yard before interfering with foreign policy. However, TAM feels that the Middle Eastern issue outweighs any other issue by far...tell that to the First Nations people you see wandering the streets of Toronto!)
J. B. Thomas, Toronto Ontario
07/19/10 8:08 AM EST
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ick!
I gotta shower after listening (reading) to her. Seriously, some serious issues here...I don't know is this what sociopaths sound like? Or just the seriously deluded entitled elitists?
tim, toronto on
07/19/10 9:45 AM EST
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@JB
I do not think that I have addressed others with arrogance intentionally or talked down to anybody as you state, besides I purposely addressed my postings to you, only you. Perhaps my hyphenated canadian way of communicating does not meet your required standard of sophistication and sensibility. I usually have no qualms admitting my errors, in this case however, you glibly accused others of bad grammar while you were offending yourself; in the same posting no less!! Should you not have "taken care of your back yard" first? Would it be fair for me to question your erudition and credibility based on just that? Who is (or is it whose? lol) the one pointing his learned and excessively manicured fingers here?
JG, Toronto ON
07/19/10 9:54 AM EST
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@JG....yawn.
Quit being so pedantic! You're boring me at this point. I think it's time for Peter to say: blah, blah, blah!
J. B. Thomas, Toronto Ontario
07/19/10 11:01 AM EST
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Poor Service, Not apartheid
It wasn't the recession or the crowd's position on apartheid that hindered beer sales. Is that the best excuse they could muster? The crumby beer sales were a consequence neophyte beer servers and horrible management at the beer gardens. I went to the 519 twice, bought 4 tickets each time and returned them for a refund because of the ridiculous line-ups to be served. I never had a sip of beer inside a beer garden fence all weekend. 8-10 people pouring beer for 600+ people is woefully inadequate. Profits from alcohol should be a no-brainer. Having competent servers and bar managers should also be a no-brainer. Clearly not the case this year.
closedhand, Toronto Ontario
07/19/10 11:10 AM EST
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superiority complex
Hi J.B., I don't have a superiority complex. I know I am smarter than you and I know that you never surprised anyone in school or in life. At least not in a positive way. I don't feel that way about everyone. There are other people who are smart, or have some amazing qualities I lack, but not you or Peter or Jamie. A superiority complex would be something like you guys, who lack any argumentative skills of substance, cannot recognize a fallacy if it stared you in the face and still thought you had something valid to say. There is no point (note for JG) in engaging in any intellectual debate with someone at your level of being. Deep inside you must know that.
Tam, Toronto Ontario
07/19/10 11:18 AM EST
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@JB..yawn indeed
... and that aptly sums up your narrow view of the world. "Don't bring your boring problems here with your bad grammar and unwashed faces! "... instructive!
@JB, Toronto ON
07/19/10 11:41 AM EST
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@Tam
I have followed the debate in another article, on Canadian Apartheid vs Israeli Apartheid. If they are advocating for a Pride devoid of "politcs", why the fuss and sudden compassion for First Nations?...must be another ill conceived attempt at divide, deflect and conquer. As far as responding to provocations, I never concede to bullies no matter how mellifluous the put down! I know code language when I read code language. Cheers.
@Tam, Toronto ON
07/19/10 12:23 PM EST
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@Tam my mistake
Sorry Tam, the above posting is mine and I signed with your name in error! The comment was directed at you. This system is brutal!
JG, Toronto ON
07/19/10 12:31 PM EST
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It isn't conceeding...
There are a number of strategies used, including the one you mention about First Nations. By changing the topic to First Nations and making comparisons like that, they intend to make us feel like we too are like Israel (perhaps we have been, and that is disputable, but we aren't at this point in any case). Thus we would have nothing to say about Israel or in the best scenario, we would identify with Israel. None of which is about to happen to me. It also changes the topic of the conversation, which is something that they attempt to do in as many ways as possible. The other potential benefit of bringing up First Nations people or Darfur or any other thing is that they think we are all going to take up on every problem in the world. They also claim that if we don't, we target Israel unfairly, which is also not true, because Israel and its supporters brought this problem to North America and the world and have been asking us for help for decades and have gotten our help all at the same time as they have been trying to convince us that they are morally right and that they are just like us. No wonder then some of us have become interested in the conflict. The thing is, this isn't the first such debate I have been in, my own country had its own discussion group about these things, these people aren't going to be convinced. I am not conceeding anything... they aren't the people to concentrate on. Any change is going to have to happen despite them. I think it is already clear that I don't agree with them, so there is no concession. It is just a change of focus.
Tam, Toronto Ontario
07/19/10 12:38 PM EST
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@ Tam
Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah I think the first clue is the creators of Apartheid in South Africa copied our Indian Act(Canada) to create their system of Apartheid in South Africa.{common knowledge among people who study History} Also how did Israel cause this to happen? but of course it Israel's fault some how, since you seem you can't even make a argument you just accuse some others of being someone else, right? because it's: A) easier to attack B) Is easy to put the problems of the World on Israel or blame them for your problems. Interesting you are three things: A) People who George Orwell warns everyone about B) you sound like you are screaming witch I wonder how that worked out in 1692 since we seem to be doing this in 2010(you at least)C) you act like Germany in the 1930s-45 they blame others and looked what happened(or will you make a story up again like with the Aztecs). I bet you will attack me like you have with everyone that points out your errors and outright lies. I would suggest you get professional help sweetie you were told this before.
Peter From, Toronto ON
07/19/10 2:56 PM EST
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No need to attack you...
There is no need to attack you, I trust that people who read you know exactly the kind of fool you are.
Tam, Toronto Ontario
07/19/10 3:10 PM EST
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@ Tam is the fool since
fools? well just proves more that you can't make a argument and what don't like people who understand History? Well Tam your the fool here, the stories you tell are beyond reality and label people Israel Supporters or when they disagree with you that's your problem. I tell the facts and that does not make me a fool, you on the other hand tell lies and call it history and sweetie that does you the fool. Funny how I never support Israel in any of my posts, I just tell the truth and it seems you can't accept the truth. Canada being Apartheid and South Africa Modeling after our Indian Act is historical fact.I can agree with Canada is practicing Apartheid since there is historical evidence and even the realities that our first nations people face in Canada today.(You say does not exist) Just go to any native community in Canada and you will see this.(by the sound of it you never been to one have you?) Also I would suggest you get professional help and I'm not the only one who says this it does seem you do have a lot of hate in you and there are people that can help you with this
Peter From, Toronto ON
07/19/10 3:59 PM EST
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arguments
Peter, I remember you bragging about your MA in History and giving yourself authority because of it. Let me put it to you this way, I am a published historian, with a lot more degrees that you have brain cells. Slowly for you, when I write a paper, a bunch of other historians decide whether it is good enough, and how good my argumentative skills are. You are not qualified to determine how good my arguments are. This isn't to mean that I am necessarily right or that formal education is the only means to achieve good argumentative skills. It is simply to say that all the authority you give yourself because of an MA from a lowly university would irrelevant when faced with someone with a PhD in the same discipline. I don't care about my PhD or your MA, I care about the quality of your arguments, and those are also lacking. I get paid to determine who argues well and who argues badly. You would fail.
Tam, Toronto Ontario
07/19/10 4:06 PM EST
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@ Tam
Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah again sweetie you can't make a argument and I really doubt your a published historian(maybe for the KKK by the sound of it ) after all your white hood seems to showing again sweetie you can't even make a argument your attacking again(you were told this before) and you are saying you are a Super Genius and all you do is attack people? Yes Tam, your a published historian? maybe in your head you are. I do know real historians don't have a temper or hate when expressing their facts. You do, but the people at the institute for historical review( linked to the KKK and David Duke former Grand Wizard of the KKK)have all of this and you say you are a published historian and they promote all of those Anti-Israel books.Oddly the QuAIA promotes the same material from the institute for historical review. I wonder about this linkage. Well Sweetie you White hood is showing again and again and again and again and again and again because you repeat the same over and over again. Also I'm not the only one that has said this.
Peter From, Toronto ON
07/19/10 4:28 PM EST
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As I said
It is useless to argue with you. But, I would like to point out that people like you know, deep inside, that they are underachievers. They have faced evidence throughout their lives so I am not surprised that you want to pass yourself off as someone with intellect here. This is impossible though. It shows.
Tam, Toronto Ontario
07/19/10 5:34 PM EST
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@ Tam
Underachievers? back to the name calling again Tam you just repeat, repeat, repeat repeat repeat the same old crap since you can't make a argument. You still are a published historian? Super Genius? Pacifist? again Tam your white hood is showing. I bet your friends at institute for historical review are underachievers since the only people who accept their research are people full of hate as you seem to be sweetie. Does not take a Super Genius to figure this one out and even the institute for historical review think they are Super Genius too but they are not, they just think they are, I bet your as special as them. I bet others could agree with me( but you call them Israel Supporters since you can't stand being proven wrong, you sound like you are on a witch hunt when you say this) and you were told about your behavior and your rants before and someone did offer to pay to get you help. Oh Well Tam just tell your under-achievements oh wait I forgot you must blame Israel for all this do you since it would make you a Super Genius. Right? Funny Tam got I my MA at York and UBC and oddly I was on top of my class,(really I was) but by you act I bet you were the bottom and just blame Israel for all of your problems. Since most who do attend Israel Apartheid Week usually are underachievers because they can get straight A's by hating Israel
Peter From, Toronto ON
07/19/10 6:18 PM EST
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if you were smart
If you were smart, you would have figured out that the only reason why I repeat that you aren't smart is because, due to what you have written here, I have reached the conclusion that you are not worth engaging in an intellectual debate. Of course I am repeating myself... this is all very entertaining... but really, you can't expect me to respond to such stupid arguments. Name calling is all that is left between you and I. The forum has been left with only a few of us, when tehre is another forum up in xtra, I will address issues and responses, but here, you and I, have nothing to say to each other. Move along... and if I repeat move along, is because you don't seem to get it.
Tam, Toronto Ontario
07/19/10 6:24 PM EST
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This is an article about Pride's budget
Why does every single Pride-related thread turn into this?? Always ends up with one person boasting about holding a PhD and knowing more about everything. +++++ Regarding the appeal of a low-budget, smaller, less profitable Pride. If your attitude to seek less and aim lower, unless you're buddhist, maybe Toronto's not the right city for you. It would be a terrible message to send to all those tourists and people who come from out town that they aren't welcome and that we don't really appreciate their business or company. It would be a scar on our city and community if we let Pride become like a fucking courtroom wedding. Toronto is becomming an overly-protesty city. Those against everything never have any workable solutions, just a bad word about everyone else but themselves. +++++ Closedhand had a good point about incompetent beer garden managers. This is a fact. Some beer gardens are overstaffed (South Stage) while others are too busy to funtion properly(Central Stage, 519). Both LOSE money that way. Better staffing and management of vendor sites should be more important.
Ryan, Toronto ON
07/19/10 6:27 PM EST
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Ryan
I think you are right, so maybe the pro-Israel lobby should stop threatening the income of Pride. If that doesn't happen, don't you worry, the tourists are the least of our problems... after all, Pride is our celebration. And, in case you didn't notice, because I can see how selective you are in your criticism, it was Peter, bad arguments and all, who has been pretending to be a historian since his first post while I, who am a historian, finally, after months, told him to shut up. It is the jungle here... any idiot can have an opinion and brag he has authority because they gave him a masters.
Tam, Toronto Ontario
07/19/10 6:37 PM EST
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OK -- ENOUGH of this argument!
Dear Tam and QuAIA-allies... it is becoming clear that it is no longer a productive debate to engage in this argument with the anti-QuAIA folks on these threads... they are relying mostly on an emotional attachment to the state of Israel combined with crude name-calling and fear. Replying to them is just dragging the debate down to its most coarse level, distracting from our primary message (Israel cannot enact it's racist policies in our name, period, essentially the end of our argument) and turning off neutral observers from having the discussion entirely. This is one of the last-ditch strategies of our opponents: to make the conversation so coarse and intellectually un-appealing that no one will want to get involved and learn anything new one way or the other... because they know most people who learn more about the issue will move in our direction. We need to end this conversation and not start a new one when the next story related to Pride funding comes up. When the pro-Israel people respond to this message and make fun of it IGNORE THEM ENTIRELY. Post your own opinions but DO NOT respond to what they say. To pro-Israel people I will only say this: call on the Israel lobby to meet with QuAIA in a public forum for an open debate in real life. I know you won't do that and you know you won't do that because we both know you will lose that debate. END.
Sav., Toronto ON
07/19/10 8:30 PM EST
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@ comment above or @ Ryan @Tam
Ryan does have a good point here, he simply pointing out what is happening will not just affect Pride but everyone as a whole. The whole country did see the G20 protest turn violent and I think this could happen Pride if something is not done to stop all the and the Pro and Anti Israel or whatever Some day one side might do something stupid and Toronto will be known as the city were every cultural event will turn violent, From Pride to the Santa Claus Parade. In our case this was not even a problem until the QuAIA came into the Picture. Tam I have been follow your comments and your war with Peter. I could agree with him you do seem to have a lot of hate in you and yes you do seem to attack everyone that disagrees with your opinion. I think anyone realizes this was never a problem until QuAIA came into the picture and not the Israel Lobby. I remember when Jews and Non Jews marched together with no problems at all and in unity. The meaning of Pride is the memory of the Stonewall riots in New York. That is the real meaning of Pride not this crap the QuAIA or group with a wider political agenda that has nothing to do with Gay Rights say it is. If you do attack me like you do to anyone else then I do agree fully you do have a lot of hate in you. Ryan very well said you might want to ignore Tam.
WTF, Toronto ON
07/19/10 8:30 PM EST
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@ Sav then start by telling facts and not lies
because your going to be on the losing end of history one of these days. Here's another troll that tell lies and distorts the truth to suit his political agenda.(copies the lines from a certain blog too) Oddly I have never defended Israel in any of my comments, but you on the other hand is like Tam. Calls anyone they disagrees with the Israel Lobby as a escape goat (just like screaming witch). I find it most interesting that anyone in the QuAIA can't accept even basic history such as Canada Indian Act and Creators of Apartheid South Africa copying it or your case you say the JNF controls 93% of Israeli land when in fact the Israeli government controls 93% and the JNF has only 13% if that and you did say the JNF was apart of the Israeli government and it was not. I did prove you wrong but of course the truth really hurts sometimes does it? Wow Sav just distort the truth as much as you want just as Tam does or any one in the QuAIA but your lies will one day catch up to you and the truth or even reality will be to much for you to accept.
Peter From, Toronto ON
07/19/10 8:49 PM EST
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Come on Sav! Not really!
Sav, what you say about the Israel lobby is true, but QuAIA also could have used any of literally hundreds or thousands of words, but choose to use 'apartheid' a powerful and loaded word and maybe even an accurate one. As someone with much sympathy for the Palestinians, I tend to want to hear what you've go to say but the shoutiness of your contingent is a real put off. Please don't deny that you are intentionally provocative. I'm not part of the pro-Israel lobby. I'm not part of either camp, really, just an interested party. From my perspective you both use bellicose language and analogies. This idea that 'they' are being emotional and you're just being rational is laughable. Give us more credit than that and don't disown the emotional aspects of what you do. Sympathy and empathy are not bad things. Both of you have more in common with each other than you have with more neutral observers. Can't you see that? One thing you both do is assume that anyone at variance with your party line is with the other side. Mostly, we're not. I am finding that the conversation between you both isn't a particularly good environment for learning. Anyway, just thought I'd share that with you, as an interested but non-aligned party.
Alain, Oshawa ON
07/20/10 1:17 AM EST
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Peace in the Middle East can happen...
I’ve been off for a few days celebrating our anniversary and have come up with some conclusions. A 48 year old Canadian Jew and a 47 year old German Canadian (who looks like a Turk) have found “true love” in a jaded guarded gay world of Toronto,...one from an upper class family with right wing politics and the other from a working class family with left wing politics...throw into the mix a burst of estrogen (we have four teen daughters between us) and two yapping dogs. If we can make this crazy mix work, then surely, peace will arrive one day in the Middle East. Arabs and Jews will just have to work at it.
J. B. Thomas, Toronto Ontario
07/21/10 9:50 PM EST
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A glimpse at a bleak future...
As for Pride...perhaps it’s run it’s natural course. As an organism gets too big or can’t regenerate itself, it begins to die. Whether, QuAIA was a catalyst or a malignant cancer in this process is irrelevant. The damage is done and change will come. Perhaps, pride will go back to it’s “grass roots” with a much more political message....so be it. Unfortunately, nobody will notice. We, the LGBTQQ2S community, will be lined up with our little cardboard signs, waving them above our heads, just as the Tamils lined up last winter along the downtown streets to protest the demise of the Tamil Tigers. We’ve all but forgotten that event....erased...and that’s what will happen to us. The average English-speaking Canadian is just not interested. (The Francophones are busy having their francofun with their language and culture). The English Canadians are all busy talking and texting on their smartphones while crossing the streets to get home to their big screen televisions in order to watch their hockey games or reality TV. But we’ll have our “political pride”. We’ll have our “mute” message that nobody will notice. The sponsors will have pulled out because they can no longer make money. Good riddance! We will truly get what we all justly deserve....a lot of disappointment: “This is the way the world ends Not with a bang but a whimper.”- T. S. Eliot. Then as the old guard dies off, they’re be nothing to replace us. The youth are not interested in politics...only instant gratification or maybe even iGratification. It will be the end.
J. B. Thomas, Toronto Ontario
07/21/10 10:10 PM EST
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A divided community
I’ve decided to leave this bitch hole...not really a forum for new ideas...just a way of harassing each other’s cyber-personalities. We’re all set on our own ideas; we don’t listen to others and the larger community. The world out there is not listening to us. This “forum” is not a creative process but a destructive process that divides the community and hastens the death of the Gay Entity...the organism I spoke of before. I haven’t read any posts since my last post and my life has become pretty pleasant. I can get to that list of better things to do. I think I’d like to keep it that way...so I don’t think I’ll be reading any of the future posts. Good luck to all. Remember you will get what you justly and richly deserve.
J. B. Thomas, Toronto Ontario
07/21/10 10:15 PM EST
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ah, this is how you make ammends!
Martin Gladstone comes clean! I just heard that he has offered to write a cheque and cover Pride's deficit! He is also getting the National Post and B'nai Brith to throw in a couple grand! Great way to make ammends. Thanks Martin! Always good to see when people realize they are in the wrong and can make ammends. I know not everyone can make a financial contribution to the cause, but very happy you can Martin! Mozaltov!
roy, Toronto ON
07/22/10 2:36 PM EST
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Alain -- fair questions
Hi Alain, thanks for your thoughtful comment, sorry I didn't see it sooner and I hope you see this response (I am responding as it was a genuine question). I can relate to your point, and I can see why you would get frustrated on reading this thread. The debate is intense and obviously people have gotten personal in their criticisms above, and I guess both sides have fallen in that trap to some extent. But I want to make clear, the reason that we call it apartheid is because that is our genuinely held political view. It's not to be provocative or just to get attention. I have been to the West Bank, I have passed through the checkpoints, seen the segregation of communities (including Jewish-only settlements and Jewish-only roads) and the system of appropriating land, water and other resources to benefit one race at the disadvantage of another. I recognize it as apartheid because I saw it. Also I would point out that the fact of the matter is that Israel as an apartheid state is mainstream Palestinian political discourse. So you can agree or disagree if you want... but if you want to remove the term "Israeli apartheid" from the conversation in order to foster "dialogue," then I have to point out that you would probably have to remove most Palestinians from that conversation as well. So that's not really a valid starting point for dialogue anyways. On the other hand our opponents accuse us of hate speech and anti-semitism. What can I say other than it isn't true and they just can't answer to the charge of apartheid in rational terms. What else could the situation in the West Bank be?
Sav., Toronto ON
07/22/10 9:19 PM EST
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Let's stop the facade of "gay unity"
The QuAIA issue has obviously divided the gay community. But, perhaps it's a good thing that we stop pretending that there is one "gay community" and realize that we're a very diverse group with different factions that really hate each other. We may share a common sexuality, but have little else in common. People like Tam and Sav obviously hate and have little patience for people like me. We may both be queer, but that's all we have in common. "Gay unity" is a lie.
Joe, Toronto Ontario
07/22/10 11:26 PM EST
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"gay unity"
During Pride QuAIA brought the director of Al Qaws, one of two major Palestinian LGBT rights organizations to Toronto to talk about the struggle for queer and trans rights and visibility in Palestinian society. To me, queer and trans unity includes standing with those in parts of the world who are still struggling for their rights. (notice I use the term "queer and trans unity" as that does not marginalize me as a trans person). I'm confused on how that is hateful factioning Joe. And even if you disagree with me, I want to be clear that I do not hate you in any way.
Sav., Toronto ON
07/23/10 4:06 PM EST
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hate
The pro-Israel side keeps on bringing "hate" as a label (where did you hear that? how long did it take you to copy it? Would you have done it by yourself? Who do you think came up with such an emotional word to use to label those who disagree with you?)... I have to say that I don't think much of anyone who supports not allowing children shoes into Gaza... or anyone who supports Israel while settlers continue to steal land...it says a lot about them... certainly not my favorite kind of a person. Hate... I don't think so. I am sufficiently aware that perfectly normal and nice people can be brainwashed and manipulated to the degree many of you are. Still, I don't think much of people who don't think for themselves and pretend to have morals when all their beliefs with regards to Israel stand in contradiction to those morals. You don't get to support an oppressive regime that undermines every attempt at peace, that supports expanding its borders into land that isn't theirs, that discriminates against people of other religions, that controls another people and thinks they have a right to do it, and then pretend you are a decent. It doesn't work like that for me.
Tam, Toronto Ontario
07/23/10 4:40 PM EST
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ok
Hi Tam, I think we have clearly made our points and we should leave it at that, even if there are further responses. Like I said, I fear that dragging this debate on can turn undecided people off from considering either point of view. And much of what they are saying undermines their own argument.
Sav., Toronto ON
07/23/10 5:00 PM EST
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Thanks
for responding thoughtfully though I imagine the Israeli side would choose a similar stance (seen the Hezbollah shrapnel bombs in Israel, suicide buses etc). I disagree with you, but I have never wavered from my position that you have a right to be at Pride. There's a lot of anti-Semitic discourse in the Islamic world - I've heard it. Most of it couldn't be repeated here, so I don't think that's a convincing argument. And once again, shame on the self-described pro-Israel crowd - not all criticism of Israel is motivated by anti-Semitism. Both of you have people who are undermining your credibility. I'm sorry you can't stay if only to stay in conversation with those of us who would try to listen and respond with some measure of peace, but remain critical. The solution rarely emerges from the extremities of an argument. You need to stay in touch with us, because you can't do this on your own.
Alain, Oshawa ON
07/23/10 5:46 PM EST
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Renaming and not excluding
Sav wrote: "To me, queer and trans unity includes standing with those in parts of the world who are still struggling for their rights (notice I use the term "queer and trans unity" as that does not marginalize me as a trans person)." In response, I agree that trans people should not be excluded. You should ask QuAIA to change their name from "Queers Against Israeli Apartheid" to "Queers and Trans Against Israeli Apartheid" (QuTAIA). You should ask Xtra to change their banner from "Xtra - Canada's Gay and Lesbian News" to "Xtra - Canada's Queer and Trans News".
Joe, Toronto Ontario
07/23/10 6:47 PM EST
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Thank you for the support.
I am glad that many people here are bringing attention to what is happening in Gaza. Sometimes, it is too much help and I am concerned for the health of certain individuals. Being a psychiatric resident, I've noticed some mental health behaviours that might give your critics some leverage against you. It would be my advice for you, Ms. Tam, to talk to your family doctor to see if you qualify for a psychiatric consult. I have a suspicion of narcissistic personality disorder.
Dhalia, Ottawa Ontario
07/23/10 6:50 PM EST
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Dear Dhalia
I wish you well in the process you must still undergo to become a doctor. Here is a bit of advice though, it is a no no to try diagnose someone, or even to suggest such thing, over the internet. You can ask the person you have to report to, and I am sure they will agree with me. I am hardly narcissistic, so much so that I think Sav is correct in everything she has said and I admire her ability, and QuAIA's ability, to deal with people whose beliefs have such terrible consequences to other people without calling them what they really are. I think people might hate being called racist, but sometimes... that is just what they are.
Tam, Toronto Ontario
07/23/10 7:13 PM EST
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@ Tam
you were told this before and not by me.
Peter From, Toronto ON
07/23/10 8:40 PM EST
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@Peter
I have told you to stop addressing me and have ignored your posts over and over again Peter and you don't seem to listen. But, to be clear, just because I am not affected by insults from people who clearly cannot come up with logical arguments nor engage in a real dialogue or debate, doesn't say anything more than I get easily tired by people who say a lot but think very little. I have put up with a lot of insults from you and others, they don't affect me because the source is so faulty that I put them in context. I don't know what to tell you but I am not the only one who has told you that you have reasoning problems.
Tam, Toronto Ontario
07/23/10 9:12 PM EST
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@Typical Tam just attacks anyone
She disagrees with. It seem your the one who does not like debates since you seem to attack and insult anyone who questions you, since you seem to never give any factual information, but you just say you are a Super Genius(end of story.) Also sweetie what sources are you talking about this time? Also sweetie who else have told me this? Oh wait those voices in your head? Tam, the most interesting part of all this, I never defended Israel in any of my posts but still label me the Israel Lobby (you would make the Puritans very happy that their witch hunts still continue since this is basically all you do) I wonder why? you can't stand when you are proven wrong such as your Aztecs examples. All I say is the truth but you have shown time and time again you can't seem to handle it the truth. Can You? Yeah Tam your just another troll. Sweetie since I care please go see your family doctor they can help you since you seem to need all the help that our health and mental health care system could provide.
Peter From, Toronto ON
07/23/10 9:26 PM EST
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Don't engage!
Please don't engage with Peter or Dhalia. All they will do is continue insulting you and dragging the level of debate down to garbage and hate. The other side wins then because no one cares about the discussion anymore other than the people talking. (I will respond to Alain when I have a chance later because he is asking reasonable questions and raising real discussion).
Sav., Toronto ON
07/23/10 9:41 PM EST
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Sav another that does not like the truth
like Tam, Sav does not to be questioned. What Sav? Don't like the truth? or in your case you said that the JNF controls 93% of Israeli land when that 93% is own by the Israeli people(including Arab population). Oh Well, Sav or Tam only likes to tell lies and can't handle the truth since it might interfere in their political agenda and don't want the truth to be known. Just two of the trolls that like the lie then tell the truth. Sav you can't run from the truth and tell lies forever. I just hope you do know this.
Peter From, Toronto ON
07/23/10 10:01 PM EST
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Sav and Tam
Welcome to a democracy. If you don't liked to be questioned then I would suggest you find a country that would accept your no questions or agree to agree debates. I would suggest North Korea,Iran,Cuba, China or any other country that hates when their people questions. This is a democracy and it's not a one way street we have the right to question if you like it or not and you can't stand it can you? I think the only bullies here are you and tam, since you attack and insult anyone who questions you. I say to both of you get over it. We have the right to question in Canada and of course every time the thought police is out in full force taking down any form of opposition. Sav and Tam you are the people that George Orwell did warn us about and at least I'm not the only one who see this.
WTF, Toronto ON
07/23/10 10:14 PM EST
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re: Peter from
Peter did you never hear the saying people in glass houses shouldn't through stones? You seem to delight in being obnoxious and infuriating, what does that say about yourself? You know full well that Tam isn't the only one to ever question your reasoning skills, especially for someone claiming to have an MA. I know Sav is right and no one should engage with you since its pointless, much like debating the Israel-Palestinian conflict in these sorts of comment sections, but I just had to have my say after reading your last comment. Say what you want about me in reply, I won't be responding, I've said what wanted to and anyone reading your posts regularly will take them for what they're worth, regardless if they agree or disagree with your side of the issue since you really do your side no favours.
Rich, Toronto Ontario
07/23/10 10:33 PM EST
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@Rich
You don't like the truth? but the lies are just fine? Again Rich, I never defended Israel in any of my posts but just correcting the trolls who seem make up information and in some cases out right lies or use a certain blog that that is full of those lies. Do ahead censor me, but in the case of the QuAIA they were censored but they are becoming really good at censorship, I wonder why? So they can not be censored but it's fine for the QuAIA to censor people they might see as a threat. This is kind of like the Gaza Strip Club all over again. Also the Internet are never sources,I could recommend books that do talk about Gay life in the Middle East(including about Palestinian queers in Israel and in Palestinians Areas)or will a Super Genius make more garbage up. I wonder will they blame Israel?
Peter From, Toronto ON
07/23/10 11:11 PM EST
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for real?
WTF you do realize that in your attack on Sav and Tam you're describing exactly the tactics of the pro-censorship side? Just look at what you wrote and think about the past few months. You're accusing them of doing exactly what the pro-censorship did except in a much bigger way. You say "We have the right to question in Canada" yet oppose the questioning of Israel policy towards Palestinians, you say to them "you attack and insult anyone who questions you" yet you're a supporter of the smear campaign against QuAIA, you support sponsors boycotting Pride in order to silence them. You also complain that "the thought police is out in full force taking down any form of opposition" yet what else is the "Israel can do no wrong" side doing in their efforts to silence all those with opinions on Israeli policy different than their own other than trying to control what people think? You support attacking Pride for supporting free speech in a very real way with potentially very serious consequences for the entire LGBT community yet you complain of Tam and Sav opposing and questioning what you're saying in a way that has no impact on you in any real way beyond perhaps hurting your feelings. How hypocritical can you get? Your side of the issue is doing real world damage to Pride and the community who values Pride greatly in an effort to control what other people think about Israeli policy and you have the nerve to say what you did about them, without irony, because they question and oppose your opinions in an open debate in a comments section with no real world consequences of any sort to anyone. Well you certainly have reached the heights of hypocrisy, I'm sure QuAIA and most everyone else would've been delighted with only being questioned and opposed instead of QuAIA, Pride, and the community being attacked through trying to get Pride shut down if they don't start agreeing to help out in your side's thought control attempts. Hypocrisy rea
Rich, Toronto Ontario
07/23/10 11:11 PM EST
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@ comment above or @Rich
Rich Talk about Censorship. Everyone has the right to a opinion in Canada. Questioning is not censorship but attacking or insulting someone because they disagree with is Censorship. The way you put this comment is something George Orwell did warn us about and I think anyone can see this. Rich, people have the right to question the QuAIA even if they hate questions(by the sound of it they do). I bet your to blind to see this? Karl Marx quote: {Question everything} and I do, of course you don't seem to get this since the thought police seems to out in full force again tonight. Attack and insulting everyone they can. As Sav and Tam seem to do every time anyone questions them. Just like in 1984 or even in Animal Farm since they think they are more equal then others.
WTF, Toronto ON
07/23/10 11:28 PM EST
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my deepest apologies
I am so sorry, Ms. Tam...it was not my intention to insult you. I am foreign born and foreign trained (Jordan). I'm just at the beginning of my psychiatry residency. Things are done differently in this country and I have much to learn. My concern was for your health. I did not diagnose. I made only a suggestion that you see your doctor. it was not my place to make the assessment of npd. Please continue your good work. thank you. D.
Dahlia, Ottawa Ontario
07/24/10 10:09 AM EST
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@Dhalia
Dhalia, Just a suggestion, why don't you read something about internet dynamics and how they differ from regular dynamics. I am sure a lot has been written about it.
Tam, Toronto Ontario
07/24/10 11:36 AM EST
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@Sav
Done! I will take a hiatus.
@Sav, Toronto Ontario
07/24/10 11:43 AM EST
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thank you again
Thank you very much for your advice, Ms. Tam. I will do this. Can you provide me with some links. When I put "internet dynamics"; into Google, I only receive information about internet companies which provide internet services. I don't think this is what you mean. You must mean something to do with communication. I think it must be how to talk to somebody but I'm not sure of the proper wording.
Dhalia, Ottawa Ontario
07/24/10 2:24 PM EST
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BITCHES AGAINST ISRAELI APARTHEID
"Bitches-Againstst-Israeli-Apartheid" group applied to march in the CARIBANA Parade. Allegedly. They were rejected, as they were NOT an appropriate group for the venue —as they were inappropriate for Pride 2010. ____ * The group claimed an African member to support their legitimacy, and they all got dark chocolate spray-tans, and dressed as enormous GerrySpringer-fat, vicious, female Dobermans and Pittbulls in skimpy glittery bikini costumes, with feather headdresses and high stiletto hooker heels, in front, and their hind legs had heels on wheels. ____ * The Bitches also irritated grass-roots-groups and sponsors to pressure Caribana to change their minds. Allegedly. They also petitioned the Human Rights Commission claiming that their Freedom of Speech and Expression Rights were violated. Allegedly the Commission stated that their Freedom of Expression rights were not violated because they could still march elsewhere and quoted Marcus McCann: "If I don't publish your letter in XTRA, your Human Rights are not violated, because you can still publish elsewhere." ____ * Allegedly, the spokeswoman for Caribana suggested that the Bitches rent some children and march in the Santa Claus Parade. Allegedly, supporters of Caribana threatened to pellet the group with garbage if they come near Caribana —as was done to them in the Gay Parade in 2009. Community activists called "Retards-Against-Repression" vowed to boycott Caribana and to protest during the parade —as they don't have jobs— it's something to do. ____ (: P.S. Irony, Parody, Satire, Sarcasm, have been used as forms of protest worldwide for millennia. There is even a Pulitzer prize for Satirical cartoons :)
The Bitches, Toronto ON
07/25/10 8:38 PM EST
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Pride in a new decade
I think we can all agree, PRIDE WEEK can't be an easy event to schedule. I have my own issues with the way Pride has been handled lately. I didn’t attend very much of it, since I really didn’t want to be associated with the fetish groups not only being given a float but a huge platform to perpetuate their sexual stereotypes and agendas. It disgusted me. It’s funny how back in the 90's, when Pride was smaller - it seemed even more community based rather than a huge corporate conglomerate. Trans Pride ? Pansexual, billboard like signs shouting “legalize the sex trade” - are you kidding me PRIDE TORONTO ? I know we want to be fair, but I always thought the point of having a pride week was to show the country (and now the world) that we are not the stereotypes they once thought we were. It’s taking 10 steps back if you ask me. Now onto the “money loss” issue. A massive deficit is very sad indeed, but here’s how I see this one : perhaps Pride visitors, “especially Torontonians” should ask themselves "What did I do to help Pride Toronto this year ?" Gay Torontonians do have a rep of "expecting" without “giving” anything in return. People with that attitude truly perplex me. It reminds me of a city in Ontario a few years back, who could not afford to host any “pride related”. The community complained and the response given was perfect - "We wanted a pride celebration, we put in our work, but did you?" Yes, this was a smaller city and perhaps the city’s governance did not have the funds (or desire) to help out like Toronto does. We are lucky to have such an amazing government that can and will sponsor us in any fashion (and yes, I know there were budget cuts, but still money was handed out.) Basically, we can't expect everyone else to foot the bill while we walk around like pretensions teens expecting candy for free. If you attend the private events, that’s great - but if you do attend those not sponsored by PRIDE TORONTO - please don't co
Derek, Oakville ON
07/29/10 4:21 PM EST
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Continuation (Pride in a new decade)
... please simply don't complain to Pride, because what it boils down to is that you did not help, and is that what being a community if to you ? Thanks for listening and I encourage and respect any thoughts or feedback. Looking forward to 2011, I know it can and will get better with discussions like these. Thanks.
Derek, Oakville ON
07/29/10 4:33 PM EST
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Incomprehensible!
I missed the parade this year (I attended 2008 and 2009) and all the political fireworks. QuAIA are an incomprehensible group. My father (not gay) fought for gay rights and he would be turning over in his (Catholic) grave at what QuAIA are doing. Israel is a leader in gay rights not only the Middle East but in the world as a whole... ask all the Arab gays who seek refuge in Israel from the persecution - even outright lynching - they are subject to in their home countries. Forget about advertising or beer sales; what QuAIA is doing is sheer idiocy! Pride should be sponsoring campaigns for gay rights in Arab countries, not campaigns to destroy the only safe haven gays have in that part of the world.
Denis, Montreal Quebec
08/02/10 8:17 PM EST
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the truth about QuAIA
Go on the QuAIA site: no names, no affiliation with anyone (including similarly named groups in Israel). Who is the President, Vice-President, treasurer of QuAIA? Who bankrolls this group? Who is responsible for the LIES they disseminate over and over? Just a couple of figures to help put things into perspective (from the World Bank): Palestinians have one of the highest per capita incomes of all Arabs in the Middle East... despite Israel. Palestinians have the highest life-expectancy of just about any Arab group in the Middle East...despite Israel. Someone is obviously telling us LIES about their poverty and their "horrible"living conditions. ..If you look at the history of the last 50 years you will discover that the Arabs never supported Palestinians in 1948... they attacked Israel with the hope of expanding their OWN territory. The number of Palestinians killed by the Lebanese and others (Egypt) surpqsses the number killed by Israel. So why is Israel continuously being singled out for disparagement? 20 times more Arabs have been killed in Sudan by other Arabs than the Israelis have killed in the last ten years...and the butchery continues...why is no-one discussing Sudan and ONLY discussing Israel? Are the ONLY Arab lives that matter those of Palestinians? Or is anti-Semitism REALLY what is being disseminated by a group (QuAIA) which has no openly responsible leaders? It is time the Gay Press started doing some investigative journalism insteqd of simply parroting what their pals in QuAIA have been telling them. Aren't the people at Xtra capable of thinking for themselves? For 40 years Fatah and later Hamas have been targeting civilians..a definite war-crime.; why is this not worth discussing too? As for Pride... sponsors have the right to remove their funding when they see fit. The gay community uses boycotts, why can't others? It is hypocritical to pretend that QuAIA is not at the centre of the loss in funds.
Ken, Paris France
08/03/10 10:45 AM EST
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Addressing Ken's Ignorance
Ken - you didn't actually offer any figures just statments without proof - your opinion. Your statement fromt eh World Bank about Palestinian incomees refers only to Palestinians living in Israel, not the West Bank or Gaza. Since you "quoted" from the World Bank, here's another for you * First, unless the Palestinian territories are able to achieve high levels of economic growth, the prospects for future poverty reduction are not encouraging. Not only will the number of poor Palestinians grow rapidly, but their share in the population will also increase which could become a socially destabilizing factor.* You say Arabs never supported Palestinians in 1948 so are you saying that excuses Israel's actions for the last 60 YEARS? You basically say Arabs kill Arabs so why can't Israel kill Palestinian Arabs, where is your logic? Many people discuss the atrocities committed by Omar al-Bashir (Sudan) that's why the United Nations has charged him with war crimes in Darfur. The war crimes committed on both sides (Hamas and Israel) have been discussed in many international papers and reports from Amnesty Internation and Human Rights Watch etc, but you ignore all of this. QuAIA is not responsible for Pride losing money - Pride actually had MORE sponsors this year than last year, it is pure mismanagement. Pride has been losing money for years but they decided to get even bigger this year which was a mistake. You are so paranoid about anti-semtism that you see it everywhere and in everything.
J Roman, Toronto ON
08/03/10 1:48 PM EST
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Is anyone still reading and want to stay on topic?
FYI to all: In several comments above, the beer gardens during Pride have been referred to in such a way as to imply that Pride Toronto is responsible for ALL of them... The Beer Grdn @ the 519 is separate from the other beer grdns run by PT. There is no connection btwn the two other than they both occur during Pride Wknd. The $$ raised @ the 519 green space goes directly to support programming, volunteers & services provided by the 519 and is run in part by staff & volunteers, and on only 2 of the 5 days, an outside staffing company. PT on the other hand hires outside staffing for all its beer grdns and the profits (?) go into the general coffers of PT to balance their budget and offset ANNUAL costs. i.e. the BUDGET they present @ the AGM is the cost of maintaining the organization (staff salaries; office space & overhead; admin expenses; and the festival costs) incurred year-round. PT needs to earn in one week (or in lead-up to that one week) what it spends over an entire year. ...and the beer grdns is just one of many sources of revenue for the organization.
Lisa Duke, Cabbagetown, Toronto ONT
08/04/10 8:09 PM EST
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