Mississauga high school balks at awareness day after students suggest trans speaker
EDUCATION / Students 'not ready' for trans guest
Greg Beneteau / Toronto / Monday, April 05, 2010
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For the past five years, students at Cawthra Park Secondary School in Mississauga have been encouraged to learn about social justice causes through Social Awareness Day, the highlight of which is a talk by a prominent activist.

But there will likely be no Social Awareness Day (SAD) at Cawthra this year — and organizers are accusing the school administration of scuttling the event rather than invite a transgender speaker to the school.

"My administration made the wrong decision by declining my speaker, and their reasoning has made it clear that it is because they are uncomfortable with her being trans," said Grade 12 student Andrew Randall, coordinator for SAD and a member on the Cawthra School Board.

Randall said the student group in charge of organizing the talk, Leaders Empowering All People (LEAP) settled on University of Toronto student Nikki Stratigacos as their choice five months ago for a discussion on the difficulties facing transfolk in society.

A Bachelor of Arts grad who returned to school to pursue a degree in sexuality and diversity studies, Stratigacos was no stranger to working with young people, serving on YouthLine's board of directors and as a youth mentor in the Supporting Our Youth mentorship program.

Stratigacos was also the political and educational coordinator for LGBTOUT, U of T's organization for gay, bi and trans students.

Randall said administrators "said no right away" to having Stratigacos speak at the assembly, where past participants have included a former child soldier and a gay man living with HIV.

When organizers protested, they pointed out that Stratigacos was a former sex worker and helped organize the 2009 U of T conference on commercial sex work, Sex for Sale.

"They said it was a morality issue, that students wouldn't feel comfortable," he said.

In an email to Xtra, Stratigacos wrote that she gave organizers the name of another trans activist, Michelle Le-Claire, back in early January.

"The issue of sex work is, by no means, the reason that Social Awareness Day was cancelled and is an attempt to deflect the clearly transphobic decision that was made by the school's administration," Stratigacos wrote.

But three months later, no speaker had yet been cleared to speak at Cawthra. A week before the event was scheduled, organizers decided to cancel it, saying there wasn't enough time to prepare.

Further, Randall accused the school of shutting him out of planning Social Awareness Day after they turned down Stratigacos.

"I was not allowed at any of the meetings for the event I was running. I was cut out of emails," he says. "I wasn't allowed any contact whatsoever."

The administration of Cawthra directed interview requests to Anthony Edwards, Peel District School Board's superintendent of education for Cawthra Park.

He denied that the school had turned either Stratigacos or Le-Claire away. Instead, he blamed organizers for not coming up with a plan to prepare staff and students for the topic of discussion, as required by the school.

"It's my understanding that when asked, 'Has anyone heard the speaker? What is she going to speak about?' they couldn't give the school admin a good answer - here's the topic, here's what's she going to speak about, here's what she's going to cost," Edwards said.

"The principal needs to know what's happening in her school and the group simply hadn't done their homework."

However, Edwards added that he would have supported the decision to keep Statigacos away because of her past.

"You have to understand that we would not actively promote having someone who was a sex worker coming in and being an appropriate speaker, and I would support that because we have a broader community that we have to respond to," Edwards said. "Our parent community would have a hard time understanding why we would — of all the people that could speak about any number of issues — why we would have someone that was in the sex trade."

"That person would have been deemed not the best choice of speaker."

A teacher at Cawthra, speaking on condition of anonymity, backed up the organizers' version of events, saying teachers at the school spoke out after being told Cawthra Park was "not ready" for a trans speaker.

With alum that include Adamo Ruggiero, the openly gay star of Degrassi: The Next Generation, the school is widely perceived as a safe space for queer youth, she noted.

"There are kids thriving at Cawthra that would have been beaten up and harassed at just about any other school in the GTA," she said

In response to the cancellation, Cawthra Park student Alex Biro launched a Facebook group designating April 21st as "Dress-the-other-way Day," in opposition to transphobia.

Biro said he hopes male students will dress in skirts and high heels and girls will come dressed in suits and ties, to show that "what's on the outside isn't important."

If nothing else, Biro said he hoped the attention would ensure that organizers get their way next year.

"I think most students have shown they're mature enough to handle it," Biro said.


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Parents not ready, NOT students
Who's willing to bet its a homophobic group of self-interested parent/trustee hybrids on the school board that decided students weren't ready... in other words they both a) neglected to consult the student body at large on whether this was a good idea and b) then attempted to deflect criticism by saying students (their kids) aren't ready. I'm sure staff are cool with it, teachers are usually quite liberal and level-headed. The administration would have supported it but they had the school board breathing down their neck. Good attempt at trying to deflect attention from the issue and making it look like students are too immature, though. Usually, when it comes down to it, high school kids are more than capable of rational thought. Parents are always the last to jump on board.
Tim, Victoria BC
04/05/10 4:34 PM EST
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sad
Sad to see that even at a 'queer-friendly' high school, we trans are still so easy to marginalize.
Sav., Toronto ON
04/05/10 5:19 PM EST
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also sad
It's also sad that the administration tries to deflect the criticism by coming down, of all people, on the students! Come on, you're supposed to be helping to build the students up, giving them confidence for the future... not blaming them for your own phobias and short-comings.
Sav., Toronto ON
04/05/10 5:24 PM EST
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excuse confused
The administration saying it was because they were a former sex worker doesn't hold much water in my opinion, after all they had a former child soldier also speak and besides I got the impression from this article at least that the speaker would be talking about trans issues and not sex work issues. I don't think someone speaking about the sex trade as a positive career choice in particular would be a very good idea for a high school crowd but a trans person who was in the sex trade talking mainly about trans issues is a whole different story. The concerns about their sex trade past were also clearly bogus since there was an offer of having a different trans person speak and that was turned down. You'd think trans speakers would be of little concern, its not like they could conceivably influence a person's choice of genders, at most they might help students struggling already with gender issues and that should be a good thing not a bad one. I wonder what their reasoning for it was? was it discomfort with trans folk? or was it a fear that gender might become more fluid at the school after such a speaker? Of course we'll never know because it's all being denied and blamed on the students already. What a shame.
Rich, Toronto Ontario
04/05/10 6:55 PM EST
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Not so Proud
As an alum of Cawthra Park I have always been proud of the environment the school fostered. I consider myself an ally to the LGBTQ community and I learned a lot about the LGBTQ community from attending Cawthra Park. Now I attend a University where the same students who were NOT harassed in high school have to deal with harassment and stereotype on a daily basis. I used to remember the environment Cawthra fostered as one that made me proud. My little brother attends the school now and I am sad to say that I have lost a lot of that pride in the institution that seems to have forgotten its primary mission is to educate and allow students to experience diversity instead of continuously squandering it. I admire the efforts of students to raise awareness and not take this sitting down, I just hope that the administration responds like it used to -- by listening to and acknowledging the legitimate requests of its student population.
Mali, Mississauga ON
04/05/10 10:32 PM EST
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Are We There Yet?
One reason why running as School Board Trustee is not an attractive option for me. We still have some ways to go on equality rights. Susan Gapka Candidate Ward 27 Toronto City Council
Susan Gapka, Toronto Ontario
04/05/10 11:31 PM EST
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Why not...
ask a sex worked to speak to students. Some may be in the sex trade -- either now or in the future. Others may be customers -- again, either now or later. Perhaps a broader understanding of being up to students needs is in order here. It seems clear the trans issue spooked the administrators, but that the idea that her work in the sex trade should have been an obstacle anyway strikes me as equally insupportable.
Douglass St.Christian, Stratford Ontario
04/06/10 3:37 PM EST
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Be thankful they chose to ignore you.
I was married to a private school director (principal) for 23 years. She married me knowing I was transgendered and they decided to be rid after she climbed the teachers ladder to the top. Rather than be content with keeping our children, two houses, our friends and my business, she needed to have me arrested three months after leaving and living in a homeless shelter. I have been reduced to a depressed suicidal transwoman alienated from her children, family and friends and forced to defend herself in Criminal Court without a lawyer. I would not wish the wrath of a principal on anyone. They live in a world that they rule and anyone that becomes a threat to their standard of living is crushed like a bug. You wear the armour of truth, I hope it is enough to protect you from the black hole they would have you disappear into.
Stefonknee, Toronto Ontario
04/08/10 2:07 PM EST
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Sad to be a graduate
I graduated in 1999, and I thought Cawthra Park was better than this. I went through high school, and no one I knew, gay or bisexual were beaten up or attacked. I went through high school, and was treated with respect by fellow students and the administration. This is damned shameful and I am now embarrased and sad to admit I am a graduate of CPSS. This is very telling that the administration there has changed drastically since I was a student. For the worse.
Gordon, Toronto Ontario
04/08/10 10:33 PM EST
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trans alum of cawthra park
wow, what a slap in the face to read of my former high school's administration acting like cowards. like the other alum's have stated, cawthra was always an environment that seemed to encourage students to explore and express themselves. it was a place for queer kids to be themselves (as much as one can be when a teenager). it's been ten years since i graduated, and i'm now living as an out & proud transman on the west coast. nice to know that i would not be welcome back to cawthra, on the grounds that the students "aren't ready" for me. what a joke.
Ethan, Vancouver BC
04/25/10 12:30 AM EST
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