Gay students feel betrayed by Halton Catholic board
NEWS / Are constitutional rights being violated?
Andrea Houston / Toronto / Saturday, January 15, 2011
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Halton Catholic District School Board (HCDSB) student Brock Doiron, 17, has been trying to start a gay-straight alliance (GSA) group at his school all year, but the board has made it abundantly clear that being gay is not something you talk openly about.

“My school is not very open,” says Doiron, a Grade 12 student at Bishop Reding Catholic Secondary School in Milton.
“Most kids just don’t come out. They’re afraid. When I came out in Grade 9, I was bullied pretty bad. It would have been really nice to have a GSA for support.”

Doiron even considered transferring out of the HCDSB but decided instead to stay and help make the school a more welcoming place for future gay kids.

Brock Doiron, 17, has been trying to start a GSA group at his school all year.


Since Halton has banned GSAs, Doiron is now trying to start Project Harmony, an anti-discrimination group where students can talk about racism, sexism and homophobia.

In some Catholic boards in Ontario, students can form groups that are gay-positive, but they can't have the word “gay” in the title, a loophole some people have called a sort of Don't Ask, Don't Tell policy.

But what message does this send to gay teens?

“Yeah, I’d rather the group be called a GSA,” Doiron says. “Kids should be able to call the group what it is and use the word 'gay' in the title. A GSA means acceptance. It means kids are not alone. It means they are not shunned.”

Students, gay and straight, from schools across Canada are speaking out against the HCDSB after an Xtra story broke the news on Jan 6 that the board had banned GSAs when it passed its equity and inclusive education policy in November.

The story, which quoted board chair Alice Anne LeMay comparing GSAs to Nazi groups, has mobilized students, teachers and parents to activism. Petitions have surfaced, a Facebook group has been created and comments have poured in.

“Gay-straight alliances are banned because they are not within the teachings of the Catholic Church,” LeMay said.

Sarah Kelly, a master's of teaching student at the Ontario Institute for Studies in Education (OISE), who started the Facebook page “Fight the Halton Catholic Board’s ban on Gay Straight Alliances,” says the HCDSB has received thousands of emails protesting the ban.

Is it any wonder? The anti-gay gaffes keep coming. At the policy meeting on Jan 11 in Burlington, trustee Ed Viana told the story of Sodom and Gomorrah; afterward, trustee Jane Michael told Xtra, "I don't think sex clubs should be in school." Yet another trustee, Anthony Danko, admitted to Xtra he had no idea people were outraged because he doesn't use Facebook or Twitter.

Kelly says gay students already feel alienated and suicide rates continue to climb. She says it’s shameful the board is turning its back on students at risk.
Sarah Kelly, a master's of teaching student at OISE.


Caitlin Kennific, 17, a Grade 12 student at St Thomas Aquinas Secondary School in Oakville, wrote an editorial for her school newspaper, Aquinas OnLive, entitled “Still Not Sure If It’s Safe To Come Out Yet.”

When her friend tried to start a GSA at her school, she was told, “There’s no teacher that will support it.” Being gay isn’t something that's talked about much in Catholic schools, she says.

“Kids are looking for a place in the school where they can safely say, ‘This is who I am’ and be accepted,” she says. “They should be able to call the groups what they are: gay-straight alliances. I really hope the school board sees this is about accepting people for who they are.”

Noa Mendelsohn Aviv, director of the equality program at the Canadian Civil Liberties Association, says she hasn’t heard any justifiable reason for not allowing students to get together in GSAs or other gay-positive groups.

“There’s another piece to this that many people would like to sweep under the carpet,” she says. “A general inclusive tolerance policy that omits the word 'gay' is itself a stigma, and one we need to be vigilant about. [If] you want to create a safe place for LGBT kids in high schools, then they need to be able to talk about their identity in a positive, supportive atmosphere.”

From a philosophical perspective, she says, boards are skirting human rights by censoring the word “gay.” However, she’s unsure whether the argument could succeed in court.

“I would submit that there is something problematic from a freedom-of-expression perspective and an equality perspective if a group is prohibited from stating who they are,” she says. “Not being able to call the group what it is is still a limitation. It’s a restriction of their freedom of expression and their right to equality.”

“There’s something deeply problematic here that the law should be seeking to address,” she says.

Students will find out at a board meeting in Burlington Jan 18 whether the HCDSB will lift its ban on GSAs and scrap the current equity policy. A protest is planned to send a message to the board that anti-gay policies have no place in schools.

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Not a public school
In my opinion, since this is not a public school, the board has every right not to allow these groups. If one wants to go to a Catholic school, one needs to follow the Catholic faith. This applies to both students and teachers. Sadly, the Catholic faith frowns on homosexuality; although I suppose Jesus himself would have been quite tolerant. Teachers will not get behind such groups for fear of being fired. Bottom line, Catholic schools don't have to follow secular trends. Their mandate is to protect and teach the Catholic faith.
John Wakeman, Grimsby Ontario
01/16/11 3:54 PM EST
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funding
Unless the Catholic schools are going to drop their public funding they can suck it up. It may not be a "public school" but they receive government funding to cover their costs and still have to play by the same rules as others. If they drop that funding they can ban gay groups all they want, until such time they can suck it up and allow them.
Tracey, Toronto Ontario
01/16/11 4:44 PM EST
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Moral Manipulation by the Catholic Church!
This is an outrage and an absurdity of ignorance. The Catholic Church’s attempt at moral manipulation on LGBT human right issues should stay in the church and not be allowed into the Separate School classrooms. Our school system in Ontario is intended to be a safe and accepting learning environment. Quite often Separate elementary students are strongly encouraged to go to Separate High Schools without even allowing local Public High Schools to give the typical school presentation to the graduating Separate Grade 8s. This in itself is unfair and manipulative. But to try and hide behind the statement that ‘high school aged adolescents are too young to have a sexual orientation’ again shows profound ignorance and a blatant disregard for the human rights entitled by everyone who lives in our Province.
Davina Hader, Toronto Ontario
01/16/11 6:16 PM EST
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ridiculous
If they're going to base their defense on the idea that teenagers are "too young to have a sexual orientation" they are going to get laughed out of town. I think everyone can attest to being a teenager with raging hormones and having a sexual orientation at that time, whether it was hetero, homo, or bi or whatever, its not like people are asexual until the age of 18, that's just ridiculous.
Rich, Toronto Ontario
01/16/11 7:52 PM EST
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Disgusting
In the catholic church, which is worse? Being gay, or killing yourself? According to their own holy book, killing yourself is worse, as you can never be "absolved" from your sin. So, this school is, in an indirect way, telling its students to commit the worst sin one can commit in the catholic rule book instead of finding something to keep you going, some hope in the morning for the day. Way to go.
Halo Oleandrin, Edmonton Alberta
01/16/11 8:42 PM EST
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Public funding, religious school
It's time to stop the public funding of religious schools in Ontario. We amended the Canadian Constitution to permit Quebec to de-fund them. Why not Ontario? It's time.
Randy, Windsor ON
01/17/11 1:15 AM EST
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Publicly funded, but not really public is it?
The comment was made previously that this is not a public school, so they should be able to thumb their noses at Ministry guidelines and forbid GSAs. This is, however, a publicly funded school supported by all taxpayers, including the majority who think gay students shouldn't just be protected for physical and emotional abuse, but should also be accepted for who they are (I suspect a good many Catholics think this way as well). The Catechism of the Catholic Church states gays "must be accepted with respect, compassion, and sensitivity" (The protection for physical and emotional abuse the Catholic school boards say they will provide? How nice of them.), but then it immmediately goes on to state "homosexual persons are called to chastity." While they are to be accepted in the pews, they are clearly not to be accepted for who they are. They are expected to recognize that they suffer a condition they should resist all their lives. The reality of their homosexuality is not to be accepted -- either by the Catholic community or by gay Catholics themselves. Therein lies the problem with the Catholic education community's approach to gay straight alliances in their high schools. They will never accept homosexuals for who they are, but only protect them from physical and emotional abuse while praying that they change their orientation or are successful in resisting it for the rest of their lives. That's not good enough. That these schools are funded by a government that otherwise accepts homosexuals for who they are is a contradiction that needs to be dealt with. Leonard Baak president, Education Equality in Ontario (www.OneSchoolSystem.org)
Leonard Baak, Ottawa Ontario
01/17/11 6:39 AM EST
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I Fully Support the Board's Decision!
The doctrines of the Catholic Church should never conform to more modern day lifestyle due to public pressure. This is something that I respect regarding the Catholic faith: the doctrine has held tight to the beliefs that are 100% based on the bible, which is God's true word. EVERY, and I mean EVERY belief in the Catholic faith is based on direct biblical scripture, and it is its holy mandate to continue to implement biblical doctrine. I will not judge gay people, as that is meant for God and God alone, but the bible is His holy truths and anything that contradicts His truths is blasphemy. The bible does not state that the gay person is wrong, but that these practices are wrong. I pray that the Catholic boards will hold strong and not give way to public pressure. There are too many compromises, but we are not to compromise the word of God to try and suit modern day living. Good and evil, wrong and right do not change. Lifestyles change, moral values change, but the sound Catholic doctrine should never be compromised. The Catholic church began with the 12 apostles, and that is why it is proclaimed the truest church, as the beginnings were with those who know Jesus most intimately, as they were His followers. Peter was the first pope, and the apostles became priests. This is in the bible, and many non-Catholics are unaware that the root of the Catholic church began with Jesus! I am informing those who are unaware who may now ask, "From where does the Catholic church derive its beliefs?" I feel deep empathy for those who are gay, as they have great challenges in life. But the fact remains that Cathcism is based on sound biblical teachings. If you are gay, you should really consider not attending a Catholic school if you expect them to change the law of God. God does love us all, and there will be judgement, when we meet our Maker, for all of us. I, too, am not without sin. I too will be judged. Embrace Christ; there
Alana, Pictou NS
01/17/11 9:30 AM EST
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To be out or not
There is now a definite trend (stampede) that young people - not just gays- are leaving their small towns and cities(like me from Ottawa) as they are just too homophobic now that Evangelicals are playing dirty politics. I would advise kids to keep quiet and just make an escape to Toronto after high school. Evangelicals are targeting everybody who might be tolerant to gays and most teachers are in fear of losing their jobs in a depression.
Bryan Charlebois, Toronto Ontario
01/17/11 10:27 AM EST
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@alana, you're nutters
You write: "Lifestyles change, moral values change, but the sound Catholic doctrine should never be compromised." What a load of crap. For a very basic example, it was only in 1965 that the Vatican declared slavery a "poison in society," and formally rejected it. In history, Catholics kept slaves, Popes kept slaves, and the Church generally accepted this reality. (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Catholic_Church_and_slavery) Clearly this is an instance where "sound Catholic doctrine" was found to be grossly out of step with society - i.e. a change in lifestyles and moral values. That the Church clings to this hateful dogma is not surprising. Perhaps in a few hundred years they'll grow up and recognize the worth of every human being.
Dan, Toronto ON
01/17/11 11:06 AM EST
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Catholic Schools are Public Schools
Funding for public education in Ontario exists in 4 divisions - English Catholic, English, French Catholic and French. They are all public and receive funds on a per pupil basis as well as other grants for student needs. The Catholic boards also enjoy funding through their diocese. It's awkward language saying the 'public public board', but it's used, particularly to describe the English non-catholic public boards, to distinguish them from their co-terminous Catholic boards. The fact is, however, all four systems are publicly funded and should defer to rights enshrined in law. Canadians are guaranteed freedoms that transcend parochial attempts to limit their human rights. If an LGBTQ student feels a supportive environment is not present in the general population of their school, then meeting with allies in a group can make a positive difference in self-acceptance. These groups are sponsored by teachers who are in good standing with the Ontario College of Teachers as well as their respective federations, so they understand and must abide by high professional standards when facilitating GSA group activities and meetings. No one receiving public funds has a right to discriminate on grounds that don't respect basic human rights. Public school boards - English, Catholic & French need to elevate their interpretation of inclusion and equity to be beyond that of tolerance or compassion for a flawed sinner. The Bishops and the Church once saw a naturally dominant left hand as the work of the devil that needed suppression, but they changed that notion in the 20th century. Gone are the days in Catholic schools of earnest Sisters rapping a sinister child's knuckles with a ruler until they were red with welts when they were caught writing left-handedly. Expression of handedness is as much an innate human quality as expression of sexuality or gender. We need to accept our children for who they are: right or left handed, ambidexterous, LGBTQ or otherwise
Julia Burgess, Kingsville ON
01/17/11 1:42 PM EST
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Response to Dan
I never said that certain persons in the Catholic church have never made great mistakes or committed great sin...I am talking about the ACTUAL teachings and the belief system, which is the actual CATECHISM of the Catholic church. People, all people, are capable of great sin. The Catholic church is not without fault. There have been terrible atrocities committed by persons of great power in the church. Again, I am STRICTLY speaking in reference to the beliefs supported by biblical references. Man is fallible and sinful, and even those in great power can commit great sin, but God's words and teachings are absolute truth. I am not saying that the church is not without some infiltration of sin through the actions of some leaders; simply put, and reiterated, the actual teachings are to what I was referring. I can see where there is discouragement and lack of faith in some of the past activities of the church, but we must focus on Jesus's teachings. Judas was a liar, a thief, and said he loved Jesus, and then he betrayed Him. He is a prime example of how evil can infiltrate even the most holy...he was greedy and full of pride. Anyway, I don't want to make this about defending the church; it is not without sin, but the teachings of the church are completely biblical based. The doctrine is what is pertinent. The doctrine states that being gay is a sin, and therefore, the church cannot contradict the bible. If the church begins to make changes that contradict the bible, then it faces even greater hypocrisy than its previous sins. The church that allowed slavery had corrupt leaders who were not in line with biblical teaching. SOME of the people of the church failed the people, but the beliefs, the CATECHISM of the Catholic church, has NEVER changed. I mean to only lend my opinion. If it offends others, that is not my intention. I am merely trying to stay to true to biblical teachings because I love God and do not want His word to ever be compromised.
Alana, Pictou NS
01/17/11 9:15 PM EST
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Charter Challenge for Gay Rights
I may be able to lend some foresight as I'm currently involved in a GAY RIGHTS CHARTER CHALLENGE. In Family Law case no. FL01-01406 which is a gay male family that has faced discrimination due to gaps in FLA and proposed Bill 22 which the Govt was planning to proclaim July 1st, 2011 but it is also discriminatory. I have self represented for 4.5 years and counting. I await Justice Eidsvick's reserved decision to my recent request for interim funding. This would be rare. Very rare. You may contact me at my email. I may have some good suggestions for your cause. In fact I'm sure I do. Gay Familys are not protected equally in Alberta. The elephant here is also that homophobia and denials around it exist. Especially in OIL DriVen black eye to Alberta where child abuse and legal kidnapping are enabled by those who "dont want to talk about it". Denying makes everything worse for everyone. You DO have a case, we both are driving for the same thing. Gender equality, commonlaw=marriage, presumed parentage for gay male intending families, and so much more...our fight continues and its people like this young guy that makes my case and my fight for my daughter worth every humiliation, bullying, false allegations, defamation, contempt and more. Our case is sadly the worse precedence for the Gay Canadian culture to put forward which will also redefine "family". Bill 22 will likely be the most advanced legislation of its kind globally. This gay male family has seen recent readings and royal assent, to proclaim or not to proclaim its still discrimination. Parent Alienation Syndrome and Professionals like Dr. Terry Pezzot Pearce and Lawyers Edward McCann and Laurie Allen know best for they've been senior BAR members for years and are all too well aware of the nastiness in FAMILY?Criminal Law. Here's to Hope. I hope I can help you DWH.
DWH, CALGARY ALBERTA
01/17/11 11:14 PM EST
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@Alana
Alana, by all means stay true to your "biblical teachings". It's not my place to question your beliefs. What I do question is what you are doing on a gay newspaper's comment section?
Peter Bochove, Toronto Ontario
01/18/11 9:33 AM EST
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Queer as an alternative?
If the private school won't allow for the word "gay" to be used in the clubs name, why not just use the word "queer" instead? it has broader definitions, yet could be used to refer to one's sexuality at the same time, without offending those people in charge. Just a thought.
Christopher King, Toronto ON
01/18/11 10:40 AM EST
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@Christopher
Catholic schools are not private schools as they are funded with tax dollars. The people in charge, therefore, are the taxpayers. Changing a name to avoid giving offense is no solution.
Peter Bochove, Toronto Ontario
01/18/11 8:31 PM EST
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the kids lose
Legally, the Board may be within its rights to ban the group, but, if that is so, the law needs to be changed. Children know whether they are gay or straight, and it is not a choice. I knew and it was a terribly difficult time. I had to live a lie to survive. I would not want any other person to go through what I went through. I wish that there had been GS groups in my day. The Bishop's assertion is laughable. He must know that he is lying through his teeth. No one can be that stupid, not even a Roman Catholic Bishop. Shame on him for his dishonesty. But why are people continuing to play this charade and follow blindly the tune of the Roman Catholic hierarchy? It is so un-Christian. It makes me so sad.
Phael, Toronto Ontario
01/19/11 2:17 PM EST
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you are a public school with a fancy name
The catholic schools are publicly funded therefor they have no right to act on a different set of rules. I was born and raised in Milton and did summer school at Bishop Reding and the some of the teachers try to force religion down peoples throats. This whole thing about high school students being too young to have a sexual orientation is crap too, I knew I was gay before I got to high school and its not like it has changed since then. Most people know if they like boys or girls or both before they are in high school, gender identity too. It is not like there is an age that you reach and boom you know. This bishop needs to keep his nose out of these matters. The GSA at my high school helped many kids and helped me. It was a place where we felt safe from the scurtiny of others and helped us develop friendships and better coping mechanisms. They are great assets to schools and LGBT youth. No one has the right to tell these kids what they are or are not. It is things like these that harm LGBT youth and send them the wrong message.
Donovan Lawson, Red Deer Alberta
01/20/11 5:18 PM EST
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Wow
'Gay' that word brings up so much stuff!
Cindy, Mount pleasant Bluehill
01/28/11 8:39 AM EST
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Every school is a public school
The involuntary indoctrination of queer kids inside a homophobic instution is an injustice. Some may be strong enough to get through it. Some are emotionally tortured—caught between pleasing their religous parents and following their immutable sexual orientation. Learn what kind of hell those kids go through first, then try defending Roman Catholicism or any other homophobic religion.
Charles M., Toronto Ontario
02/27/11 3:17 PM EST
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Catholics will provide for their students.
The debate surrounding Homosexual/Straight Alliances (GSAs) in Catholic high schools is being complicated by the fact that people are not distinguishing between an objective and a strategy. GSAs are a strategy that some people propose to achieve an objective with which the Bishops of Ontario are in agreement: that all students in schools feel safe and respected. The Catholic objective is that each student be treated with dignity, for each is a child of God. It is not right or fair to suggest that one particular strategy is the only way to achieve a given goal. Catholics seek to achieve the goal of a safe and loving environment for all students in a way that is in harmony with their Christian faith.
Vox Populi Z, Sydney Nova Scotia
03/10/11 2:25 PM EST
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