Elisha Lim's illustrated gentlemen
ABOUT TOWN / Drawings of butches earn the first show slot at new feminist gallery
Chris Dupuis / Toronto / Thursday, April 07, 2011
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Attention all butches! Elisha Lim wants you! Though the Toronto-based queer trans artist identifies as butch, when it comes to sexual partners, femme girls need not apply.

“My mom once jokingly asked me why I don’t just date men, since I’m attracted to butchy women,” Lim says. “The butch/femme dynamic is pretty set in people’s minds. It’s a great myth to bust.”

Lim’s new exhibition, launching this week under the eponymous title Elisha Lim & The Illustrated Gentlemen, will feature a series of 50 drawings and an installation exploring the many butches that have passed through Lim’s life.

“I’ve had thousands of crushes on butches over the years,” Lim laughs. “This show is an homage to my queer community and the range of bodies that make it up.”

Each drawing is accompanied by an anecdote about Lim’s relationship with the butch in question. The drawings were originally intended to be published as a book under the title 100 Butches back in 2009, by American queer press Alyson Books.

But the publishing house folded its print division and now publishes e-books only. But luckily for Lim, another publisher wasn’t too hard to find.

“One of the guys from Alyson has launched his own press,” Lim says. “We’re expecting the book to come out in November this year. It’s too bad that it’s taken so long, but it’ll be great when it’s finally in print.”

The opening will also feature a performance by Lim’s band, The Sex Appeals. Known for their poppy hooks and quirky song titles like “I Wanna Suck Your Cock,” the all-queer five-piece ensemble has been steadily gaining popularity over the last year, with gigs at Pride and the AGO.

Readers may also be familiar with Lim’s comic, Sweetest Taboo, which ran in Xtra’s Ottawa edition in 2008 and 2009. Exploring children’s pop culture of the 1980s, the project aimed a queer lens at everything from Polka Dot Door to Flight of the Navigator.

Lim’s exhibition will mark the first show at the Feminist Art Gallery, a new initiative by art-dyke power-couple Allyson Mitchell and Deirdre Louge. Also know by its acronym FAG, the gallery resides in the beautifully converted garage of the pair’s Parkdale home.

“Getting the nod from them means so much to me,” Lim says. “It’s such an incredible honour and a validation to be presented at this space. I have such huge respect for both of them.”

Rather than turning to traditional funding sources, FAG has assembled a team of feminist philanthropists, who provide financial support for the gallery and collectively make programming decisions. Interested parties, regardless of their gender, can make a contribution by getting in touch with the gallery through Facebook.

Though a lot of young artists wouldn’t expect to get much from a gallery in the early stages of their careers, Lim has been pleasantly surprised by the amount of support the space has provided.

“They’ve given me an artist fee, a generous materials budgets and so much attention through the process,” Lim says. “They even offer an artist bedroom in their home that’s available for use while you’re working on the show.”

But creating spaces for feminist art is about more than just bridging the gender disparity that exists in the art world.

“We live in a sexist world and the art world mirrors that,” Lim says. “Women aren’t a priority when it comes to programming choices. But initiatives like this will end up unearthing a lot of talent that we wouldn’t otherwise get the chance to see.”


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Reader Comments


 
Be Inclusive
Xtra needs to stop being transphobic and allow the use of gender neutral pronouns that the people themselves use such as "they".
Jade, Ottawa Ontario
04/07/11 1:33 PM EST
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Shame on you Extra
Elisha specifically requested the use of the pronoun "they" so you replace every pronoun with a Surname? What's so hard about respecting your individual author's pronoun preferences. Shame on you Extra, I expect better from the a public representative of Canada's diverse queer community!
Andrea, Vancouver BC
04/07/11 3:37 PM EST
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HOLY SURNAMES!
I am so disappointed that Xtra is refusing to standardize "they". Not only is this transphobic and cissexist (big words to mean outdated and mean) but it is also translating into poor writing. Constantly using the person's surname sounds awkward and bizarre. Get with the times and get in touch with my community. Listen to the queers. We mean business.
Ashling, Kitchener Ontario
04/07/11 4:04 PM EST
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Get With the Times
It's ridiculous that Xtra refuses to use "they" as a pronoun. Please spare us the "grammar argument", the only excuse for this is transphobia.
Heather, Toronto Ontario
04/07/11 5:18 PM EST
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Insulted
Does Xtra think we're idiots? Do the writers and editors at Xtra really think that if they use "they" in their articles I will be SO BLOWN AWAY by the grammatical "incorrectness" that I will sit in my chair, confused as to why they're using the plural for an article that appears to be about one person? Get real. I am just finishing a degree in philosophy, and used "they" as my chosen pronoun in countless essays, with nary a comment from my professors, who have meanwhile jumped down my throat for many other tiny mistakes with grammar and citation. Why? Because my papers were perfectly understandable. As would this article be, if it were using "they". Stop being transphobic to Lim and condescending to your readers. We can all handle it.
Veronica, Toronto ON
04/07/11 5:41 PM EST
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question of respect
i dont understand why would it be SO hard (for Xtra) to respect the neutral Gender by using the neutral pronoun.
Sam, Montreal Quebec
04/07/11 5:54 PM EST
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I thought Xtra was a Progressive Publication
They, them, and their are not novelty pronouns. I am incredulous that Xtra would not use gender neutral pronouns. Is it because the editors have been living under a rock, and have not been attendingg queer events? Gender neutral pronouns have been in wide use for ten years. Please change your policy.
Kat Kent, Vancouver British Columbia
04/07/11 6:29 PM EST
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well...
i need your help, i identify as queer. i totally want to be inclusive to me... they just gives me the creeps, makes me think of multiple personality disorder...wich is...very painful
claude, moncton N.B.
04/07/11 6:34 PM EST
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hmm..
Xtra, Elisha requested the use of the pronoun "they" so you ignore that and replace every pronoun with a Surname? Shame on you!
Sara Randell, Vancouver BC
04/07/11 7:22 PM EST
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a little respect goes a long way
It's really unfortunate that xtra is once again taking the easy way out when it comes to respecting gender neutral pronouns. As someone who uses "they/them/their" regularly, and whose friends for the most part seem to have little difficulty following suit out of respect, it baffles me as to the problems you're having. If you like, there are a number of people who would be more than willing to support you in learning how to do this better. Here's a very simple example: "Elisha makes fabulous art. They create portraits of the community. I purchased something made by them last year", and so forth. Perhaps uncomfortable for some, but certainly not too difficult, wouldn't you agree? You do your readership and this community (both of which happen to include people who use alternative pronouns) a disservice by treating us as though we're incapable of understanding different pronouns, by refusing to respect and honour people's stated pronouns. i promise that a little respect goes a hella long way. ps And Claude from Moncton? It's unfortunate that these pronouns creep you out and brings up MPD issues for you, but please don't put that on people like me. My pronouns aren't actually up for debate.
romham padraig gallacher, vancouver bc
04/07/11 8:00 PM EST
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oh, forgot something
in case xtra is concerned about causing some kind of ruckus over respecting peoples pronouns, read this article and clarify the reality: http://www.editorscanberra.org/a-singular-use-of-they/ It's not new, it's not awkward, it's not beyond your readers scope of understanding, and it's not beyond you. Please, just do the right thing here.
romham padraig gallacher, vancouver bc
04/07/11 8:29 PM EST
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pronouns
Thanks for this profile of Elisha Lim, whose work I love. I wish, though, that you had been respectful enough to use the pronouns they requested. I would expect a queer publication to be more mindful of trans and genderqueer rights and make a point of including gender-neutral pronouns in house style, rather than sidestepping the issue as you have done here.
Kathleen, Sechelt BC
04/07/11 11:08 PM EST
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FEMME LOVE
Thanks everyone for your marvellous support. Aside from Xtra's pronoun allergies I also refuse to participate in its rampant sexism. I would never imply that 'femme girls need not apply.' That line verges on misogynist and really makes me cringe. FEMMES ARE MAGNIFICENT AND I WANT THEM IN MY LIFE <3
Elisha, Toronto Ontario
04/08/11 12:30 AM EST
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Pronouns
It really isnt as hard as you are making it out to be. They/Them/Their - the use of gender neutral pronouns has a long history and your readers really will be able to manage. Your refusal to use gender neutral pronouns when requested goes far beyond disrespectful - it is oppressive. When you do this you join in the larger societal effort to erase the realities of people who do not identify within the she/he binary. This, as you should know, creates a hostile environment, one in which trans and genderqueer people are at greater risk for all sorts of harm, including violence. Please reconsider your policy.
Kalamity Hildebrandt, Vancouver BC
04/08/11 12:33 AM EST
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They're Awesome...
By which I mean Lim, of course. Also, 'they,' the pronoun, is awesome. Extra, it's time to catch up. They is a pronoun. Use it when requested.
Lisa Ugray, Ottawa ON
04/08/11 8:52 AM EST
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as a trans person, and as an organizer
i'm embarrassed to have ever promoted this publication. shame on you, xtra.
jesse, montreal qc
04/08/11 9:42 AM EST
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also re: FEMME GENDERS
femme isn't a gender identity reserved only for women. a lot of people label me as "butch" because i'm trans masculine, but that's just crappy and transphobic.
jesse, montreal qc
04/08/11 9:46 AM EST
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Really?
I find it super awckward to read a text where no pronouns are used, but the person's surname is used again and again and again. Thank you Extra for not using "they" in order to be less "awckward" because that so didn't work. English is very lucky to have gender neutral pronouns, why don't use them? Especially when it is requested by the person you are interviewing, shame!
Karine, Montréal Québec
04/08/11 11:37 AM EST
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Pronouns and thank you Elisha
Xtra: let me add my ditto to all of the above on the use of pronouns. We've got as few choices for gender neutral as we do for gender specific in English so just get with the respect-program already, yeah? Elisha: Thanks for clarifying on the 'femmes need not apply' deal-io. I'm all about people getting the socks rocking they want with whomever they want. Lately, though I feel as though femmes are getting pointed at with a short but very sharp and hurtful stick - so thanks for clarifying. I love the theme of your art and as far as I'm concerned we share that appreciation for the aesthetics of butch, period.
Anon, Vancouver BC
04/08/11 9:17 PM EST
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Shouldn't point fingers...
I'm not one to defend Xtra by any means, they're a little weird when it comes to inclusivity, and I hope people will get on board with that. However, I also have a problem with this art gallery. Seriously? FAG? there's a feminist art gallery calling itself FAG? The name is so incredibly uncreative and uninspired that it's obvious it was chosen for the acronym. The name is homophobic, and a group of feminists have no right to reclaim that term. Way to co opt it though, and minimize gay men everywhere.
David, Oshawa Ontario
04/09/11 8:14 AM EST
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X-tinct!
Is it really so hard to use 'they'? Xtra has proven itself to be a dinosaur. This won't fly with today's queers. Does anybody else sense that a certain magazine will have to change or become X-tinct?
Adrian, Toronto Ontario
04/09/11 11:52 AM EST
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misrepresenting
Dear Xtra!, You now have an audience of people from all over (I'm from Dallas, TX and Claremont, CA and have told friends about this. A lot of us signed Elisha's petition) who are furious at your refusal to respect the art/ists you pretend to support. "femme's need not apply?" That TOTALLY stuff words into Elisha's mouth that THEY would never, ever say. As for the pronoun thing, xtra! is starting to look like a big fool. How can you print the word queer, butch, feminist, ART and gender disparity in the same article where you so violently refuse to properly pronoun someone who has done NOTHING but ask for respect? Very soon, the mask of "progressiveness" will reveal nothing more than a normative publication. If what I have said is untrue, then make change. get it together, B
Bere Villela, Claremont, CA USA
04/10/11 5:19 AM EST
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Gender plurality
Gender plurality is a reality for lots of us in the queer community! Why is it so hard for you folks at Xtra to acknowlege those of us outside the gender binary by using the pronoun "they" - especially when it has been explicitly requested?
Alex Grove, Nelson bc
04/11/11 11:10 PM EST
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transphobia.
We are once again reminded how trans and genderqueer folks are not respected by the gay/lesbian mainstream. Transphobia is just as bad as homophobia. Fuck you Xtra.
sol, Halifax nova scotia
04/14/11 12:50 AM EST
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??? mysterious and sad
I lived in Toronto for awhile and was impressed by what a queer-aware city it is (most of the time). I also always assumed that Xtra was at the forefront of it. So wtf? This seems like gender politics 101. All I can picture is some editor being fussy about it not being "in the style guide". Well, why not revisit your publication's style guide so that it's in line with the goals of your publication? I'm guessing being queer-positive and welcoming is included in those goals, no?
alex olsen, montreal qc
04/18/11 12:17 PM EST
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They is excellent
Xtra, this is pretty sad and embarrassing. I expect this kind of pathetic behaviour from Fab, but I honestly thought you were better than that. Shame!
Asam, Toronto ON
04/29/11 11:25 PM EST
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