Hate meme creator confesses
NEWS / Carleton student takes partial responsibility for internet harassment
Bradley Turcotte / Ottawa / Thursday, August 30, 2012
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A Carleton University student has been fined for creating a number of hateful internet memes targeting fellow student Arun Smith.
 
As Xtra reported in May, Ottawa police launched an investigation after dozens of homophobic image macros were posted on the website QuickMeme. Derogatory text was superimposed over images of Smith, and some messages alluded to sexual assault.
 
Raphael Deketele has confirmed to Xtra that he created some of the memes. This was first revealed during an investigation headed by Ryan Flannagan, director of student affairs. Student Affairs deemed that Deketele committed acts of harassment as defined under the Carleton University Student Rights and Responsibilities Code. 
 
Deketele says that while he regrets his actions, the memes he created did not explicitly threaten Smith.
 
“Although some of the things I said were obscene, all I did was insult him. I didn’t say that I would do anything bad to him or that anything bad was going to happen to him,” he says.
Raphael Deketele poses as part of the Firearms Association of Carleton University.
(Source: Facebook)

Deketele was forced to submit a written apology and was given the option of writing an essay about hate crimes and the queer community or paying a fine. He opted to pay the fine.
 
“I made nasty jokes about him. I agree that they were nasty, and I wish I hadn’t said them,” he says. “I don’t think that I should have been punished with sanctions by the university just for being insulting.”
 
Smith received the written apology on Aug 28. It reads: “Dear Mr. Smith, I would like to apologize for the seven ‘memes’ featuring your image that I posted online, especially the ones that alluded to your homosexuality. While my intent was simply to make some light-hearted jokes at your expense, and not to threaten or abuse you, it was nonetheless wrong of me to write about you in such a way on a public forum. I assure you that I will not do anything like this again, and I hope that you will forgive my indiscretion.”
 
Smith, who is the coordinator of Carleton's Challenge Homophobia and Transphobia Campaign, thinks the apology lacks sincerity and says Deketele has failed to recognize the severity of his actions.
 
“I certainly appreciate the apology, though I think it falls flat in terms of making amends,” he says.
 
Deketele, who made the university’s honour list for the 2008/09 and 2009/10 academic years, says the memes were never meant to go viral. Despite what he wrote in the apology, he blames Smith for publicizing the incident.
 
“If he doesn’t like you he will try to assassinate your character. I was worried that if I came forward he would do that, and it happened anyway. Just my luck that it only happened to me; I’m the only person who had someone rat on them. I feel bad about what I did, I really do,” Deketele says.
 
Prompted by Deketele’s apparent lack of remorse, Smith says he will provide Deketele’s name to police and seek legal counsel.
 
Flannagan says it is not the university’s place to involve authorities in such matters.
 
“As it relates to criminal matters, that is a decision for the Ottawa police,” Flannagan says. “If people want to go to the police or go to the courts, by all means; the university doesn’t have an opinion on that.”
 
Dekelete says he will not reveal the names of the other students who were involved.
 
Meanwhile, Smith has filed a freedom-of-information request with the university and says he will forward police any relevant information.
 
While Smith feels Carleton handled the situation appropriately, he also thinks justice has not been served.
 
“So long as Raphael continues to be a student, there’s still a fundamental question of my safety, whether we’re talking about my emotional safety or my physical safety,” he says. “There has to be some actual justice, and right now there is no justice.” 


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wtf?!?
uhmmmmm why hasn't this student been suspended or expelled?!?! I mean, I haven't had the opportunity to read the memes in question so I have no idea about the severity of the "insulting remarks" but the university has already likened the behaviour to a hate crime by the nature of the punishment that he received. is there not some sort of zero tolerance policy towards hate crimes, particularly in educational institutions? if not, I kind of feel concerned for the students attending the school and for the queer community in general
Michael, Ottawa Ontario
08/30/12 4:44 PM EST
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Disgusting
This is absolutely disgusting. How has this kid not been expelled from school?! Clearly he still doesn't think what he did was harmful if he is whining about his character...what about what he has done to Smith?! This is shameful! In 2012 this is what continues to go on?! If he has a backbone he would come forward with the names of the other bullies!
Melissa, Oshawa ON
08/30/12 5:48 PM EST
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More to this story...
Mr Smith is actually quite well known around campus for having an axe to grind. His track record is one of taking things out of context. Case in point taking a CUSA counsellor's joke and attempting to have a democratically elected official recalled instead of actually sitting down and discussing it like a mature adult. Please see that attached link for more info. Running to the media everytime you have a disagreement with someone is starting to come off a little petty and vindictive. http://charlatan.ca/2012/02/student-attempting-to-remove-cusa-councillor-over-inappropriate-comments/
Amanda, Carleton U Ontario
08/30/12 10:42 PM EST
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still........
Again, I wasn't privy to the comments that were made about Smith but I can only gather that if Deketele was given an order to write an essay on hate crimes or pay a fine, then clearly there has to be some substance to Smith's concerns over this matter. I just don't understand why behaviours like this are tolerated in 2012, particularly in an institution of higher learning. politics aside, its offensive.
Michael, Ottawa Ontario
08/31/12 12:45 AM EST
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Re: Amanda's comment
Amanda: Mr. Smith may have an axe to grind, but he has the courage to step up and speak his mind. What Deketele did was struck under the cowardly cloak of anonymity. I will give you credit for comprehending the difference. The gun-loving Deketele, who has expressed no real comprehension of what he as done wrong, should be expelled (at least temporarily until his mental state can be assessed) for the safety of Carleton U students.
Mark W, Ottawa ON
08/31/12 12:46 AM EST
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I love how this guy is being crucified publicly even though the vast majority of people here never saw the the actual images. Anyone who goes to Carleton knows that there is so much more to this than what you would be led to believe. The images were innocuous and some could be seen to go too far, but this reaction is pretty crazy when you actually look at what happened and look at the evidence. As a side note, it feels very wrong to me to infer (in the form of comments here or otherwise) that this person is violent or disturbed despite having no evidence to support it accept for a picture of him after a skeet shoot. It just makes me wonder if that image was submitted only by coincidence.
James, Ottawa Ontario
08/31/12 7:36 AM EST
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Arun Smith
As a student at Carleton, everytime I see Arun's name in the paper I just roll my eyes at this point. Here we go again. Probably yet another minor incident twisted out of context. How come we don't actually see any of these memes? More then likely just an online flame war that got taken a little too far. Arun seems like he will do anything to get his name in the paper. Even in the last few weeks the story around campus was he made these up himself.
Taylor P, Ottawa Ontario
08/31/12 12:42 PM EST
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Is This The Sun?
The amount of hate speech apologism is this forum is absurd. Come on, when some does something wrong, especially on this level, there has to be a true acknowledgement of the wrong done before anyone involved can move on; that is simply not happening here. Both Deketele and a fair share of the commentators here would rather victim-blame then actually acknowledge the injury caused. Pathetic.
Shane Davis-Young, Ottawa Ontario
08/31/12 4:41 PM EST
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Arun Smith
@Shane Davis-Young. Sorry Shane, but it is well known that you are in a relationship with Mr Smith so you are obviously biased. Frankly the rest of us on campus are getting a little tired of having minor incidents turned into a controversy and making our school look bad. Speaking as someone who has had to deal with a sexual assault it's things like this that make it harder to feel free to report what has happened to me, when I see people taking such minor incidents and using them to further a political agenda, I get nervous it will be used as some sort of political tool. Mr Smith took some comments out of context and turned it into some sort of witch-hunt in order to further his leftist agenda. Sorry but a few nasty comments online are not even anywhere near the pain caused by a sexual assault. Mr Smith would should probably spend more time focusing on his studies then looking problems where none exist. I mean 6 years to finish an undergrad? Really????
Amanda, Carleton U Ontario
08/31/12 8:04 PM EST
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@Amanda
Relationship? Well known to whom? I am not in a relation ship with Arun, nor have i ever been. Why would you think that? Oh right; gay men can't have any heterosexual friends, so of course we're partners. No one is claiming that sexual assault isn't a valid issue. Physical assault and hate speech, although they have a lot in common, are incomparable. It's apples and oranges. We should be working on eliminating both. As for this "leftist political agenda", I fail to see how someone's view on economics justify treating their concerns with any less gravitas. Arun was the subject of a homophobic attack, plain and simple. If he was a stanch Harperite, the attacks would still be wrong. And what are with all the cheap shots about Arun taking a long time to finish a degree? How is that in anyway relevant to the issue at hand? Speaking as someone whose post-secondary career is also complicated by factors beyond my control, the idea that you get to put down and belittle someone for taking longer than the prescribed amount of time to finish something is really unfair, and frankly, mean-spirited as well.
Shane Davis-Young, Ottawa Ontario
09/01/12 6:54 PM EST
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This will never end.
I am so sick and tired of this guy.I am in no way sorry for what happened to Arun. He puts down and vilifies everyone who has a dissenting view point then him. In the past and recently he has shown no restraint in making personal attacks on multiple levels against people he strongly disagrees with. I suppose when he makes personal attacks based on someones beliefs (religious, political, etc), and race (calling people of colour a 'disgrace to their race' for not sharing his same extremist views), and their sexuality then that is completely acceptable--however, if someone else does something similar he'll organize a moral crusade on you.
Christopher P, Ottawa Ontario
09/01/12 7:39 PM EST
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@ Amanda and Shane
I am no side, I really am not. However, to enlighten both of your minds, sexual assault can and DOES happen to women AND MEN (and the majority of victims - 65% are gay men, and given their actual percentage in population, it's pretty alarming) and the majority of perpetrators are heterosexual men (98%) - sexual assault is not about desire, it's about power and hate and control. And btw, it CLEARLY says in the 2nd paragraph that "some messages alluded to sexual assault." Hence, clearly the memes were visual/verbal assaults that were potentially physical AND sexual in nature. Having a male body does not mean you are immune to sexual assault and women are not the only ones who are/can be sexually assaulted- open your minds please.
P. Pious, Ottawa ON
09/02/12 4:46 PM EST
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Campus Newspaper covered this too.
http://www.charlatan.ca/2012/08/student-apologizes-for-image-macros/
Brandon Wallingford, Ottawa ON
09/02/12 10:48 PM EST
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Back on topic
Has anyone seen a single, overtly homophobic cartoon? Anyone? I don't mean one that can be taken as such, I mean one that blatantly attacks this on the basis of him being gay. How come in every article, he's the only source of the cartoons? Not only that, but now idiots are using firearms training as some sort of indicator of mental stability. At least this kid has a demonstrable skill, and could perhaps amount to something besides a snivelling, simpering opportunist. He made a mistake, and now the radical bits of the Community are busy crucifying him--'cause this really shows off our forgiving and compassionate nature, right? Arun's got his apology and his scapegoat--as well as a fancy, well-paying job! This has nothing to do with homophobia and everything to do with a demagogue using a homophobia scare to advance his own political agenda--Arun's failed to mention his stewardship of CHaT came after the memes, which were only reported to police a month after being taken down. Come on Arun, if these memes are so bad, let's all see them so we know what we're talkin' about. Original timestamps on screencaps and image files, please and thanks.
Whyte Rabbit, Ottawa ON
09/04/12 1:26 PM EST
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Doesn't anybody read anymore?
It's like no one bothered to read the original article before commenting even though it was linked in this article. http://www.xtra.ca/public/Ottawa/Hate_meme_creator_confesses-12468.aspx Would the university have taken it so seriously if they had not seen the images? Clearly, these images are harmful enough for the university to have taken action.
Martin, Montreal Quebec
09/05/12 3:35 PM EST
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Doesn't anybody think critically anymore?
Just because a university or anyone else takes something seriously doesn't mean it's serious. The memes on the original articles can be interpreted as homophobic, but that'd be a stretch. I've yet to see a single explicitly homophobic meme, to be honest. The fact the site's been taken down means there is no evidence of homophobia, let alone of a hate crime. There was a second set of memes a while back that was entirely political in nature, including the text "It's not oppression... when I do it", that got classed as homophobic as well. This has been a complete non-issue, the overreaction of a person who is used to his overreactions getting attention. It's the worst kind of demagoguery, and it's sloppy journalism to have paid attention to it for any length of time and apparently not to have fact-checked the complainant's claims. Once again: fact-checking is not a crime or a sin, it is a good standard of practice. Can we all please engage in it before we start throwing 'hate crime' around and making a kid who insulted another kid a pariah?
Whyte Rabbit, Ottawa ON
09/06/12 12:10 AM EST
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Thought experiment
Just for a second, imagine if the content of the memes had been racist, instead of homophobic. What might have been Deketele's 'punishement' in that case?
Thomas Edward, Ottawa ON
09/07/12 9:42 AM EST
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Punishment?
We have apparently convicted this young man of a hate crime without any evidence can be presented. No arrest, no charges, no admission of committing a hate crime. We don't know the memes are openly homophobic; thought experiments about racism are a waste of time. How about we worry about evidence before we think of how to mete out punishment
Whyte Rabbit, Ottawa ON
09/09/12 5:30 PM EST
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Punishment
Good point Whyte. I didn't choose my words carefully. The article mentions that, "Deketele was forced to submit a written apology and was given the option of writing an essay about hate crimes and the queer community or paying a fine. He opted to pay the fine." I interpreted that as 'punishment'.
Thomas Edward, Ottawa ON
09/16/12 11:24 AM EST
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ridiculous
Smith is a crybaby douche who put himself in the public eye and got made fun of. While the memes may be immature, boorish, or ( OH NO!) mean. calling this stuff a 'hate crime' is absurd and diminishes actual victims of violence. I see way worse stuff aimed at local politicians etc and nothing happens. Oops, hope you don't trace my address and charge me with a crime for calling Smith a crybaby.
freed, ottawa ontario
09/16/12 8:45 PM EST
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From an artilce on US conervative 'sharish'
"To be fair, conservatives often look like rank amateurs when it comes to suppressing speech. Troll through the archives of campus speech codes and you will find a level of censorship that is simply astounding – much of it aimed at protecting the tender feelings of the most easily offended person on campus. For brevity’s sake, let one small example suffice: As recently as 2010, George Mason University in Northern Virginia prohibited "any form of bigotry....whether verbal, written, psychological, direct, or implied." Try to find a logical limit to the concept of implied psychological bigotry."
freed, ottawa ontario
09/17/12 10:21 PM EST
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