Connecting dykes one haircut at a time
COMMUNITIES / How a straight hairdresser became a hub for Ottawa's queer women
Noreen Fagan / Ottawa / Wednesday, February 10, 2010
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DYNAMIC DOS. Meghan Dailey, with her signature tools -- a pink razor and funky scissors -- cuts the hair of many young, urban, queer women in Ottawa.
(Noreen Fagan)
Meghan Dailey is the straight girl at the centre of a lesbian haircutting hub. Through asymmetrical haircuts, whacky colouring and wispy femme styles, Dailey is connecting Ottawa's queers together — one hairstyle at a time.

Dailey, works at Hair Junkie on Laurier Avenue, is a whacky, fun loving woman with an easy temperament and a knack for talking a mile a minute while cutting hair. She knows and loves what she does and it shows — in the hairstyle her clients walk out with and with the growing number of lesbians, queers and
not-so-queers who go to her on a regular basis.

"There's a lot of links," says Dailey. "I lose track of who originally sent people in but I definitely get 6 or 7 links. If I piss off anyone in that link, that whole link is gone."

Dailey who loves to create awesome and sometimes whimsical hairstyles — without pissing off any of her clients — has been cutting and shaping hair for the past five years, yet hairdressing was not her first career choice.

When she first went to hair school, she did it on a whim. One lazy summer with nothing to do, Dailey blithely enrolled in the Marvel School (now closed) on Bank Street along with her best friend. There, Dailey found her creativity and entered into her fantasy playground of art, fun and fashion.

"We got mullets and skullets," says Dailey. "All the really good hair was at that school. It was awesome."

After ten months of training and 3,500 haircutting hours, Dailey, with her signature tools — a pink razor and funky scissors — snipped and coloured her way into a new career. Dailey did the rounds at various Ottawa hair studios that allowed her the freedom to experiment and create original hairstyles — all the while building up her chart of queer followers.

"What I do remember very clearly in the few months after my first Meghan cut," writes Megan Butcher, a Dailey die-harder, "is that it felt like every dyke I talked to suddenly went to her or knew someone who did."

Butcher, who is now sporting a Mohawk, further emphasizes the links and incestuous life of the queer haircutting clique.

"Someone would say 'Wow, that's a great haircut!'" says Butcher, "so I'd say Meghan at [her old salon] did it. And inevitably they or someone nearby would say 'Oh yeah, Meghan. She does my/my girlfriend's/my best friend's hair too.'"

Karen Cocq, whose hair is asymmetrical, coloured and wispily textured, is another Dailey fan. Dailey had never met Cocq — in fact she had no clue who Cocq was — when she started getting new clients referred by Cocq, six in one week.

"Karen has sent me all of her office," says Dailey, "then like, their sisters, then their kids, and their husbands and whoever."

Cocq first found out about Meghan when she arrived in Ottawa over two years ago.

"I was with a friend of a friend," says Cocq, "we were hanging out and I noticed she had really great hair, and I asked her where her got her hair done."

Cocq got her question answered but since she didn't need her hair cut immediately, Cocq started recommending Dailey to her office mates and friends and that piqued her curiosity about Dailey's creativity.

"They kept on showing up with great haircuts," says Cocq, "and I thought I can't wait to get my hair cut."

Cocq finally got her haircut — months later — and is, two years later, still making hair connections in the city and helping Daily expand her chart of queer followers.

If you want to know more about Dailey's creative hairstyles — and become part of the queer connection — you can find her at Hair Junkie on Laurier Avenue.


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Amazing!
I would love to see a photo gallery of some of Meghan's cuts.
Tracie LeBlanc, Ottawa Ontario
02/11/10 5:02 PM EST
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She's the best!
I've been seeing Meghan almost as long as I've been seeing my wife, and she's always given me awesome cuts. She recently dyed my hair a really excellent electric blue, and I love it! Her excitement and enthusiasm for her work is really refreshing, and I'm constantly recommending her. Way to go, lady!
Christina the tattooed lady, Ottawa Ontario
02/11/10 10:21 PM EST
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proud Mama
Meghan has always valued people for who they were - nonjudgemental on every front, non-partisan, not sexist or bigoted...she has always had a heart for those who have suffered at the heartless comments of others. Besides that, she rocks when it comes to hair cuts and colour. She knows her stuff and is not at all reluctant to seek advice or new knowledge from her peers - she never pretends to know everything. Keep up the good work, Meg! You do your family proud.
Carol, Nepean ON
02/15/10 12:20 PM EST
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where is she now?
Meghan is amazing but where did she go? Called to make an appointment today and she's not there!!!!! Any info-please post.
yvonne, ottawa ontario
02/22/10 7:46 PM EST
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[Editor's Note]
She's Moved
Meghan will be working at Hair Junkie on Laurier Avenue West. Tel: 613.565.0123
noreen, Ottawa ON
02/23/10 8:50 AM EST
Thank You Darlin'
After reading about Meghan, I had to check her for myself. I have been struggling for years, trying to find an above par stylist. I was luckily enough to get an appointment with Meghan that very day. She greeted me with a warm smile and brilliant green hair. We talked about what kind of cut I was looking for, she made some suggestions without being condescending or pretentious. I told her I had been secretly cutting my own hair, she assured me that there would be no judgment on her part..."but from now on leave the cutting to me!" haha, I walked out of the salon tremendously happy about the cut.(normally I just wanna rush home and restyle it but not this time) Meghan is a real gem, great conversation & perfect cut, what more could you want is a hairdresser? thank you xtra for writing about this fantastic talent we have living in Ottawa.
Meika, Ottawa On
02/27/10 10:24 AM EST
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