UPDATE: 'Somebody stick a dick in her mouth and shut her up'
HUMAN RIGHTS / This was a 'spat between two children,' tribunal hears
Nathaniel Christopher / Vancouver / Tuesday, March 30, 2010
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UPDATE: March 31, 4:45 pm —

This was a "spat between two children," another comedian who performed at Zesty's the night of the alleged human rights violation told the tribunal today.

Describing the lesbian complainant as righteous, Nic Roy called the hearing a "waste of tax payer money."

He also described comedian Guy Earle as a "terrible comedian and an asshole" and says the situation got out of hand after Earle interacted with Lorna Pardy's table.

Once Earle began interacting with Pardy's table "it stopped being a comedy show," comedian Nic Roy told the tribunal March 31.
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Pardy and her girlfriend were kissing during his performance, but Roy said their behaviour was more distracting than rude. "You're two women and you're making out in the front booth of a stand-up show - no matter where you are you're going to get something."

But once Earle began interacting with Pardy's table "it stopped being a comedy show," Roy testified.

"It got awkward. Guy Earle was being offensive without being funny. He pretty much acted like Michael Richards, so to speak, instead of using the word nigger he used the word dyke.

Zesty's owner Salam Ismail and his brother Sam told the tribunal about Salam's relationship with the gay and lesbian community. Sam Ismail described his brother, who comes from Iraq's Assyrian Christian minority, as someone who knows discrimination first hand.

Salam Ismail said that he has been on the Drive since 1997 and has maintained a good relationship with the gay and lesbian community.

"About 60 percent of my customers are lesbian and gay and I have a lesbian show every Saturday for the last seven years," he said.

He said the incident has cost him many gay and lesbian customers, hurting his business.

Longtime lesbian comedian Ardell Fitzpatrick and her partner Lee Anne Keple said Ismail has been a huge supporter of the gay and lesbian community for years. They hosted their show, the Laff Riot Girls, at Zesty's from 2000 until 2007.

"Our show predominantly features female comics," Fitzpatrick and Keple told the tribunal in a written submission. "Salam welcomed them as well as the male comics. He welcomed all of our comics and audience equally, whether they were male or female, young or old, straight or gay and regardless of their faith, the colour of their skin or whether they were differently-abled."

One Laff Riot Girls fan even proposed to her girlfriend on stage, Fitzpatrick said. "Salam was like, 'Are we gonna hold it here and have a reception?' He was fine. Ardell and I met at Zesty's and got married a few years later and Salam was extremely positive."

Earle, who lives in Ontario, has not been present at the hearings this week. His request to appear by telephone was denied.

Earle's lawyer, Jim Millar, walked out of the hearing in protest on day one, claiming the tribunal lacks the jurisdiction to hear this case.

Millar says his client is entitled to the freedom of artistic expression guaranteed by the Charter of Rights which, he says, trumps Pardy's complaint.

Millar, who also defended accused Aaron Webster killer Danny Rao in 2004 and got him acquitted, said he would wait for the tribunal's written decision in this case before deciding whether or not to appeal.

 

 


UPDATE: March 30, 5:55 pm —

The May 2007 incident at Zesty's was a case of bad comedy, not homophobia, according to Vancouver comedian Mike Wolfe.

 

"Guy Earle's not a very good comedian," Wolfe told BC's Human Right Tribunal today. "He'll tell his jokes and if someone interrupts regardless of who is there he'll attack someone. And because Guy Earle's not a good comic he doesn't understand that the audience will retort. This isn't the first time this happened, but it was the first time it happened with lesbians.  It wasn't new for Guy to do that but it was the first time it hit that level where it hit the fan."

Earle is currently the subject of a human rights complaint filed by Lorna Pardy.

Pardy alleges that Earle violated her human rights when he made homophobic remarks about her and her girlfriend from the stage and later broke her sunglasses.

Jeremy Miedzinski is another Vancouver comedian who performed on the night in question. He claims Pardy's table was actively heckling the performers before Earle addressed them.

Miedzinski told the tribunal today that Earle didn't address Pardy's table until after members of Pardy's table were shouting general "heckling stuff" at Nic Roy, another local comedian. That's when he said Earle returned to stage and said, "You've ruined the show you will need to shut up or leave."

"Both of them were sharing insults with each other," Miedzinski said. "It started out with basic things like 'shut the fuck up you dumb bitch' or 'fuck you, you ugly loser' and escalated into insults directed at his mother with comments like 'she should have aborted you when she had that chance' and 'your mother was shitty mother.'"

But Wolfe said the women did not heckle Earle until he "started throwing insults their way."

"If he said, 'You are heckling, shut up so we can get on with the show' that's a different category from saying lesbians and dykes ruining it for everybody," Pardy's friend Carlin Sandol (above) told the tribunal today.
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While he thought the women were initially being loud, Wolfe said he didn't consider their behaviour unusual. "They just seemed like friends having fun with each other, hanging out," he testified.

Miedzinski told the tribunal that Pardy's girlfriend gave her more than a peck on the cheek.

"They were full-on making out for a while," he testified. "Many of the comics were looking at each other because they were right up front making out. They were putting on a show for everyone at that point, they were making out in front of everybody."

Carlin Sandol, who was sitting with Pardy and her girlfriend at the table that night, tells a very different story.

"Zoe kissed Lorna on the cheek, that was after ordering a second round of drinks," she testified. "She just leaned over and give her a peck on the cheek. It didn't seem very significant to me."

Sandol claims her table came to Earle's attention while they were having a lighthearted conversation with two waitresses.

"We weren't screaming," she testified. "We were talking to the waitress, we were laughing. There were people on the mic talking loud so there was a chance we had to elevate our voices."

Sandol said they were only speaking loudly enough to be heard by the waitress over the noise of a nearby speaker.

Sandol, who is straight, argues that even if they did cause a disturbance, their sexual orientation was irrelevant to the situation.

"If we were causing a disturbance and being loud what does that have to do with your sexual orientation?" she said. "If he said, 'You are heckling, shut up so we can get on with the show' that's a different category from saying lesbians and dykes ruining it for everybody."


March 29 —
The BC Human Rights Tribunal today began a hearing on a complaint filed by Lorna Pardy who has accused Toronto comedian Guy Earle with discrimination based on her sex and sexual orientation in violation of the BC Human Rights Code.


"I've been dealing with this case every day of my life for the last three years," said Pardy of the May 2007 incident which took place while Earle was hosting an open-mic night at Zesty's Restaurant (now known as Zawa) on Commercial Dr.

Pardy told the tribunal she was neither drunk nor heckling the performer at the time of the incident. She went on to explain how the events exacerbated an anxiety condition and left her to deal with symptoms of post-traumatic stress disorder.

"Those are present as we speak," she said, visibly nervous but composed. "My hands are sweating, I feel myself shaking. It's the same feeling I get whenever I get into the facts of this case. I've had difficulty sleeping. Insomnia affects every aspect of my life. Especially work."

She had been drinking a Corona on the outside patio at Zesty's for approximately 90 minutes with her girlfriend and their mutual friend before they were asked by a waitress to move inside because the porch was closing.

Once inside, Pardy testified that her girlfriend kissed her on the cheek, at which point Earle said, "Don't mind the inconsiderate dyke table that just walked in."

Pardy said they were figuring out their drinks with the waitress and Earle confused this with a disruption of the show.

"I don't know what happened before we got into the show, but we were the perfect target for any frustration he had from earlier that evening," she told the tribunal.

Somebody booed from the audience and Earle assumed it was her, Pardy testified.

"He looked directly at me and said, 'Do you have a strap-on so you can take your girlfriend home and fuck her in the ass with it tonight?' I was so embarrassed and humiliated that I booed him, and he looked at me again and said, 'Are you on the rag? Is that why you're such a fucking cunt?"

Pardy said her friend spoke up then and accused Earle of being ignorant.

"I saw him come down off the stage," Pardy testified. "I put my hand on a glass of water because I knew he was coming to our table, and when he came to the table he put his hands on it and leaned over me. I threw water in his face and said, 'Don't come near our table.' Then he looked at me and screamed in my face 'Why do you have to be such a fucking cunt?"

Pardy told the tribunal Earle then returned to the stage and said, "Thanks for ruining the evening, you fucking dykes. Cunts."

That's when her friend spoke up and said, "Hate speech isn't free speech," Pardy said.

Earle then turned to Pardy and said, "You want to be a man don't you? That's why you're such a fucking asshole," Pardy alleged.

Pardy's girlfriend then accused Earle of not being funny. In response, he allegedly pointed to the girlfriend and said, "You're a fat ugly cunt. No man will fuck you. That's why you're a dyke, you fat cunt."

"He then yelled to me 'Somebody stick a dick in her mouth and shut her up.' Which was interesting because I wasn't saying anything," Pardy said. "It was to humiliate me more and shut me down because my girlfriend is trying to stand up for me at that point."

Earle then approached her table again, Pardy testified, so she picked up another glass of water and threw it in his face saying, "I told you, don't come near our table."

Pardy claims she threw water to keep him away and hopefully diffuse the situation. "I thought by throwing water in his face it would embarrass him and snap him out of whatever rage he was in," she told the tribunal.

Zesty's owner Salam Ishmail outside the Human Rights Tribunal hearing.
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Pardy said she later passed Earle on the way to the bathroom. He was speaking with a man later identified as Zesty's owner Salam Ishmail. Earle called her a "fucking cunt" at that point, she alleged.

Upon emerging from the bathroom, she said she was approached by Earle once more.

"Guy Earle came over to me again and said, 'Why'd you have to ruin the show, you fucking stupid dyke? You fucking bitch.' Then he stands over me right in front of me. I'm frozen. I cannot move at this point. Everyone's watching me, this is centre stage at this point. Guy Earle is standing over me and says, 'You want to be a fucking man don't you?' He reaches over and grabs the glasses off my head, breaks them right in front of my face, cutting his hand in the process and throws them on the floor. At this point I can't hear anything, my ears are ringing, my face is red."

Pardy claims the staff did nothing to intervene and were nowhere to be found during the alleged incident.

"I was humiliated, and I was shocked and embarrassed. Physically too, I was shaking, sweating, and my ears were ringing. I felt like I'd been assaulted at that point. I didn't understand the comedy routine. I certainly thought it was a targeted attack."

The hearing continues Tuesday at 9am.


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Reader Comments


 
Verbal abuse is never funny
I felt ill when I read some of the comments this "comedian" made. They were not jokes,, and they were not being used in a humorous ways,, and a few of the words are never funny anyways. Shame on the restaurant owner who allows that sort of filth in his premise. Disgusting. I do not care what or who the women were, the comedian was abusive,, and that is not comedy.
Justine, Victoria B.C.
03/30/10 5:33 AM EST
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gimme a break!
oh for crying out loud! while mr. earle's comments may have been resoundingly offensive, this has made a mockery of the human rights tribunal, IMO. it should be reserved for exceptional, truly egregious cases, not because someone's "feelers" got hurt. ms. pardy's playing up her "victimhood" here is just plain sad. it's a freaking (formerly(?) pro-lesbian) comedy club. offensive crap is the NORM at such places. yes, freedom of speech has some limits (ie yelling "fire" in a crowded theatre), but censorship, state involvement, etc. should be the very LAST not the first option. there's just something about all this that makes me sick to my stomach. ms. pardy, you DO NOT speak for (little ole homo) me! get a freaking life! [end rant]
daf reek, vancouver bc
03/30/10 12:21 PM EST
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gimme a(nother) break!
(posting again - in a hopefully more readable fashion) oh for crying out loud! while mr. earle's comments may have been resoundingly offensive, this has made a mockery of the human rights tribunal, IMO. it should be reserved for exceptional, truly egregious cases, not because someone's feelers got hurt. ms. pardy's playing up her victimhood here is just plain sad. it's a freaking (formerly(?) pro-lesbian) comedy club. offensive crap is the NORM at such places. yes, freedom of speech has some limits (ie yelling fire in a crowded theatre), but censorship, state involvement, etc. should be the very LAST not the first option. there's just something about all this that makes me sick to my stomach. ms. pardy, you DO NOT speak for (little ole homo) me! get a freaking life! [end rant]
daf reek, vancouver bc
03/30/10 12:29 PM EST
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very different in MSM
I heard about this story from the TV this morning, according to them the comedian was heckled and he called them a rude name in response and that's why he's facing the HR complaint. There was nothing at all mentioned about the back and forth or that he did anything besides calling a heckler a rude name. I wonder why they reported it from the comedian's point of view and not the victim's? They really portrayed it as a lot of fuss over nothing and that the comedian was being victimized by the charge, apparently he's refusing to attend the trial but his lawyer is still there.
Rich, Toronto Ontario
03/30/10 12:53 PM EST
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Really guys?
Am I the only one who thinks the only laughable part of this is that Earle cites the pair kissing as having instigated the tirade? Am I also the only one who knows that most violent attacks on members of the LGBT community are described by the attackers as being "provoked" by the attacked's "gayness"? "They deserved it", "Two women were kissing in front of me", "I was provoked". I cannot believe some of the queer community is defending someone who has demonstrated hateful ignorance towards the community at large. Does no one care that this ass thinks lesbianism is synonymous with gender identity disorder? Is it acceptable that he used "dyke" as a pejorative term, after the lesbian community as had to fight to re-appropriate it? This is a pressing issue, as most of the comments on media outlets coverage of this suggests people think Purdy et al. should have just grinned and bore it, with some going as far as saying "if you can't take the heat, get back in the closet". This suggests that queers deserve abusive behaviour because there is something wrong with them, and they're so detestable and unnatural that they deserve it. We should not be pacifying this situation and blaming the victim, but rather treating this pre-Stonewallian behaviour as what it is: a breach of LGBT human rights as equal citizens under the law.
Rachel, Vancouver BC
03/30/10 1:11 PM EST
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Enough already
Yet another example of the Humans Rights Tribunal completely out of control. This case should NEVER be heard - period. It's getting to the point in Canada where you can't say anything without someone running to this tribunal claiming their feelings were hurt. ENOUGH ALREADY !
Jeff Taylor, Toronto Ontario
03/30/10 1:17 PM EST
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really.
I think I have a pretty good inkling of what transpired that night based on all sides of the story that I've read. Pardy & Co. were disruptive, disrespectful, intentional or not. Mr. Earle was instantly offended and immensley OFFENSIVE, no doubt. But FACT = Ms. Pardy threw her drink at Mr. Earle as all this progressed. Nasty, VERBAL banter lead to - illegal - behaviour. Mr. Earle responded by breaking Ms. Purdy's glasses, which doesn't say much for his character IMO, but in the heat of the moment... well, BOTH parties lost-it, bigtime! - BUT -- and A BIG BUTT, why this has ended-up before a human rights tribunal, that isn't even sure it has the authority to rule on this matter (see BC Supreme Court *Freedom O' Speech* Opinion) is beyond me. It's the finer details, like Ms. Pardy claiming mental distress, inability to work, etc. that peeves me to no end. PUH-LEASE! One awful evening may have been the straw-that-broke-the-camel's-back for a lot of legitimate, pent-up crap that Ms. Pardy has experienced, but the remedy sought here just belittles a process that should be used sparingly, if at all.
daf reek, vancouver, bc
03/30/10 1:59 PM EST
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Comedy Club
Everybody is fair game when going to a stand up comedy club. No matter what sexual orientation or ethnic background you belong to you are fair game and part of the show.Fat, dike, gay, black, Asian etc. Most of the time it is in poor taste. Ladies go drink somewhere else and really encourage the bookings of our own gay/ lesbian comedians!I would have walked right out of the bar. How many dikes does it take to walk out of a bigoted bar?
Louis, Vancouver BC
03/30/10 2:45 PM EST
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Was it wrong...
Was it wrong that, even as a gay man, I laughed a little reading this article?
William, Montreal QC
03/30/10 9:05 PM EST
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Hit the fan
OK, double points for double entendre "hit the fan".
Randy, Windsor ON
03/30/10 9:51 PM EST
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Angry manhaters...
I hope the tribunal throws out this frivolous case. They never should have heard it to begin with, but they have to justify there useless cushy jobs somehow. Why do so many dykes think it's OK to assault males, but never the reverse?
ron, Vancouver BC
03/30/10 11:34 PM EST
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Thought experiment
I'm still on the fence about whether this is something the HRC should be involved in. But let's try a thought experiment. Instead of "You're a fat ugly cunt. No man will fuck you. That's why you're a dyke, you fat cunt," let's swap the insults out for a black man: "You're a fat ugly n*gger..." Or, try it for someone who's Jewish: "You're a fat ugly K*ke..." Is it all still okay then?
Dan, Toronto ON
03/31/10 8:15 AM EST
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Thought Control?
Of course comments like that aren't OK, in any way shape or form, but are they illegal? (answer = no) Should 2 loudmouth idiots who can't control their primal and juvenile emotions then have all this end-up before a now seemingly discredited HRC? No f'n way! Free speech includes slurs, insults, and hate-filled tirades. It'd be different if this 'comic' had started uttering death threats or summat, but as it stands, it's all just a terribly sad spectacle that's done far more harm to the HRC process than Mr. Earle's words could ever do to Ms. Pardy.
Dirk Dufus, Vancouver BC
03/31/10 9:19 AM EST
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My awesomeness!
I don't agree with what Guy did, but I don't understand why we are have a Human Rights Tribunal over hurt feelings. Ps. Just to let everyone in both the gay and straight communities know.... I am very funny. Thank you. pps. Darby's every tuesday at 9:30 4th and McDonald.
Mikey Wolfe, Vancouver BC
03/31/10 1:19 PM EST
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Setting yourself up as a target
Generally speaking, when you heckle anyone on stage you set yourself up as a potential target. If the "victim" heckled the comedian, then she made herself a target!
Steve Turner, Vancouver BC
03/31/10 1:20 PM EST
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Stand up comedy
Stand up comedy stands alone as the only performance art that tolerates heckling in any form. As a result both comedian and audience member walk into a comedy show KNOWING that the possibility of confrontation exists. I am a 17 year veteran of the Canadian Stand up comedy community and if I could have made 20k for every time someone without provocation shouted "HEY BALDY", I'd have a billion dollars. Ms Pardy claims that she was only raising her voice above the level of the show to order drinks. Would she have done that at a live play or opera? NO! As for Lorna Pardy's claim of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder and insomnia, I say. HOW DARE YOU?! What a horrible insult to everyone who truly suffers from these conditions. Anyone who has ever had an argument that lead to profanity and name calling knows that you are lying, as do war vets and sex abuse victims etc, who live with PTSD every day. With that said, can we believe anything she says? As for Guy Earle, NEVER HOST ANOTHER SHOW! When the host of a stand up comedy show resorts to using profanity with malice to deal with a heckler, he loses, and so does everyone else in the room. The host's job is to befriend everyone, make them feel comfortable, start them laughing and introduce the acts. As for hecklers, I know you think that you're adding to the show when you yell something out, but really you're not. Stand up comedy is very free flowing and uncensored but it's also methodically written and rehearsed in most cases. So when a heckler yells out YOU SUCK just before a punchline, they ruin it for both the comedian and the audience members who were enjoying the show. My name is Carter Hortie and along with Paul Breau, we currently produce and host the Thursday evening comedy night at ZAWA (formerly Zestys, where this incident took place) and I can tell you that the owner does care about such things and he did try and stop it that night. Come down to the show and see how it should be done, FUNNY &a
Carter Hortie, Vancouver BC
03/31/10 2:37 PM EST
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agreed
Carter said it best. He pretty much nailed it there. I wish I had the chops to state it in such a way.
Mikey Wolfe, Vancouver BC
03/31/10 3:01 PM EST
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Pardy is the only joke here
As someone who suffers from anxiety issues and panic disorder, I find Pardy's claims offensive. If her symptons of these very real disorders were so easily triggered she shouldn't have been out at a comedy show. Any doctor or therapist who was treating her would have given her a way (mental tool or breathing technique) to handle a situation like this.... more importantly someone who actually suffered from these disorders wouldn't have put themselves in this situation. Pardy did and now she claims she's a victim?! "Victims" don't throw drinks at people saying bad words. That's an instigator not a victim. If she can't sleep now maybe it's because she knows she's created this horrible, overblown, nightmare and she actually feels guilty about it. A lot of guilty people lose sleep.
Vic, Vancouver BC
03/31/10 4:25 PM EST
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two things
One, trowing water at someone will never calm them down unless they're on fire at the time. Two, it must really sting to have people call you not funny under oath. This is a farce, glad people are taking it as one. Sorry the taxpayers have to bleed money while it happens.
Ian Boothby, Vancouver BC
03/31/10 9:05 PM EST
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Embarassment
I am embarassed both as a gay man and as a comedian. This wasn't an act of hate. It was an act of a comedian who doesn't have the verbal skills to disarm a heckler without resorting to name calling fighting with a woman who was too stupid to realize that if you have to raise your voice to be heard over the comedian's voice coming out of the speaker you're sitting in front of, then there's probably a comedy show going on that you should shut up for. I personally want the tax money back that is being spent on this spat. Oh and if anyone chooses to avoid Zesty's just because of this incident, then you are an awful person. Grown ups don't abandon their friends for something so petty.
Darren Elmore, North Vancouver BC
03/31/10 9:48 PM EST
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Snooooozer story
The only thing more boring then a stranger's sexual orientation is Guy Earle's comedy routine.
William, Vancouver BC
04/01/10 3:49 PM EST
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Even a mouse...
Even a mouse when cornered will turn and bite you. When 'Bad Guy' was on stage firing off his rant, it was possible to see it as 'artistic Right'...the moment he stepped off that stage and brought his issues to only ONE particular table, he got personal in a most absolute way. Not art, but PERSONAL. That takes the issue away from Free Speech into the realm of Verbal Assault. His actions OFF STAGE takes him out of the realm of Artist, and puts him into the category of BULLYING THUG. That he got splashed with water for his efforts at being physically intimidating actually speaks well for Lorna...I know some women who would have tried to carve the bully a new anus with the container the water was in...simply out of fear! People react differently under such duress, unless trained otherwise. Lorna has no such training apparently...so this nice little 'mouse' just settled for 'peeing' on the bully in her own way. LOL!! Had this been a pair of men, or even a male/female couple, I personally don't think the incident would have happened...as bullies generally don't pick on someone that can walk a mud hole through them. I recall in the podcast 'Bad Guy' did, that he referred to the Zesty owner as his EMPLOYER and therefore HE should be the one held responsible. Also something about not getting paid much that night, as he had to cover his bar tab. Hmmm...volunteer eh? As for Zawa/Zesty's, after the name change, business boomed. The patio was packed regularly. I think the loss of business is simply due to poor service, and less than stellar business practice...by another THUG--only for his recreant treatment of his customers by supporting a recreant. Hold your chin high Lorna, Justice may prevail and these 'Goliath' archetypes may stand revealed for what they really are...ugly little worms wallowing in the filth of their own feces. In my own opinion of course!
Mark A Roberts, Vancouver BC
04/01/10 8:59 PM EST
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My shoe's on your other foot
Hey, I'm black, pretty good looking, and a straight guy. Went to a lesbian-friendly bar with friends, got no end of jibes and 'truth-hurts' jokes thrown at me - all uninvited. Had I know then that I could complain to a tribunal and ruin somebody's work as well as score a bunch of free cash, heck, maybe I wouldn't have just smiled, laughed, and rolled with it. Went to a gay-friendly bar with friends, got hit on c-o-n-s-t-a-n-t-l-y, when all I wanted to do was help celebrate a friend's birthday. Heck, if I'd have known I could have gotten the backing of a tribunal to help me out some closet queers, and score some dough, maybe I wouldn't have smiled, laughed, shrugged it off and put up with some truly creepy, sleazy men in very very close situations. In other news, my friend from Somalia got a load of nigger/donkey dick abuse at work, and when he got fired with 4 weeks pay in lieu, Alberta Labor Standards told him he got better than the minimum, move along,son, move along.
Sixer, Calgary AB
04/01/10 9:48 PM EST
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Ouch.....
I was at a comedy show about 10 years ago that I will never forget. I was heckled for being a 'breeder' and for coming downtown from my 'inbred burbs' to see how 'real people' lived. My friend was told that she had to 'wipe the cum off her lips cuz we all know she needed to get permission from her man in order to be here'. Bottom line; I walked in to a venue where I KNEW there was potential for ridicule, I got it and never went back but you don't see me at a tribunal over it.
Annette, North Vancouver BC
04/02/10 11:17 AM EST
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Compensation
I do think Ms. Pardy should get *something* for her terrible ordeal. (copy and paste to your browser's address bar) http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4004/4484227217_3fb547fd8e_o.jpg oy.
daf reek, Vancouver BC
04/02/10 2:55 PM EST
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1 mo' time...
that address again (minus the *oy*) -- http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4004/4484227217_3fb547fd8e_o.jpg
daf reek, Vancouver BC
04/02/10 3:01 PM EST
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Dear Mark Roberts
Dear Mark A Roberts, Comedians at an amateur open mic night are NOT employed by the venue that hosts the event. There is no pay stub. No EI paid for Guy by Zesty's no medical or dental - because he is NOT employed by Zesty's. That's a FACT. Another FACT - Ms. Pardy, ASSAULTED Mr. Earl. Throwing anything in the face of someone else - NO MATTER THE GENDER - is assualt. The door was right there and not locked. Pardy chose to say and throw stuff and create a distrubance. Now she's chosing to cry wolf and make a quick (fraudulent) buck. She's a horrible human being in my opinion.
Izzy, Vancouver BC
04/02/10 7:01 PM EST
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DEAREST IZZY
The open mike was hosted, by 'Bad Guy' on behalf of his employer...AS ADVERTISED. Going to the table in question, was looking for trouble which was found. To equate that with Artistic Freedom, or to blame it on the victim is akin to saying that Charles Manson was persecuted for Religious reasons...or that Olsen should still be free for researching his book that he eventually published as an Author with a Right to the same type of "Artistic Freedom". Puleez! Drink a coffee and smell the reality. FACT: In his Podcast Interview (which I understand was aired in the Tribunal) 'Bad Guy' made it clear that he was the Host, and that the owner of Zesty's/Zawa was his EMPLOYER-whom 'Bad Guy' thought should be the person held responsible for the incident--AS THE EMPLOYER. "Bad Guy's" very own words. FACT: The owner/EMPLOYER was there and allowed his abusive employee to be, and continue to be, abusive...which any sane and reasonable person would assume would NOT be allowed to happen. So yeah, she stayed a bit longer until she learned that as a PAYING CUSTOMER (with the HUMAN RIGHT to kiss in public) that injustice ruled the establishment...which is a very bad way to conduct business with people that are supposed to be getting SERVED. Obviously, we disagree in our opinions...but thank you for voicing it, and pardon my being a bit 'flip' in my response.
Mark A Roberts, Vancouver BC
04/02/10 7:48 PM EST
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Trippy...
OK, maybe it's just the weed kickin' in, but based on my summation of M.A.R's 2 posts, Ms. Pardy's situation is comparable to something between a mouse with a bladder problem and Charles Manson's religious beliefs. Well, thanks for clearing THAT up! - All in all, what gets my goat about all of this is how a 'fight' between 2 consenting jackasses has ended-up before a quasi-judicial court that may actually be in contempt of itself at the moment. It's made me question a lifelong belief that such avenues are necessary, and has done grave and lasting damage to the whole process, IMO. And why it took 3 long, expensive years to finally get to this point is also beyond my comprehension.
daf reek, Vancouver BC
04/02/10 10:25 PM EST
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Hell hath no fury like an angry lesbian scorned
Really? Human rights tribunal? For an argument which heated from both sides? Pardy is at least 40% responsible for escalating events. IMO, telling someone that their mother is a failure and shoulda had an abortion, then later throwing water in someone's face is not an innocent victim of a one sided attack. How is this even in human rights tribunal? Does LGBT community really want to waste this card on an issue so grey which could cause backlash more harmful than good? What happens then when a real hate crime occurs then and nobody takes it serious as a result? I sat through tribunal and evidence under oath suggests that Pardy has grossly exagerated events. At no time were her human rights in danger, as she was free to express herself as a heckler... now she wants to contest freedom of speech? What a hypocate. As for Earle, you never belong on a stage again if this ruins stand up comedy freedoms in this country... the reprocussions could kill the accepted art form which relies on freedom of speech to exist. Bill Hicks, Lenny Bruce, Richard Pryor, George Carlin raised the bar and this bell-end has lowered it. Where are next generations of comedians gonna grow if open mic's get killed as a result of this tribunal fall-out? This is an embarassment to both sides of the argument and doesn't belong in tribunal.
vince, vancouver bc
04/02/10 11:54 PM EST
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DUDE!
Sorry if I was vague, the references were to compare with 'Bad Guy'. ;) and yeah, it's probably the weed too. Thanks for the chuckle daf reek!
Mark A Roberts, Vancouver BC
04/03/10 12:49 AM EST
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Dear Mark
Hi Mark, People have the right to kiss but not everywhere at any time. Try going to a movie theatre this weekend and kiss someone in front of the projector so that no one can see the film. Now if someone complains and calls you names because you're ruining the show and you throw drinks at them what would happen? Lorna was talking over the show. She should have been given the bum's rush by the staff. Bounced immediately but that doesn't happen enough in this city. She was not allowing the people who wanted the show to see it. The only person who could stop her was the MC because the staff were too busy. His skill set was poor but all's fair on a comedy stage. She then threw something at him twice. He threw words from a stage, she threw a substance when he was off that stage, in what crazy backwards world is he guiltier than her? She should never be allowed in performance venue again and this case should be tossed on its ear. If she wins this will make things worse for everyone.
Ian Boothby, Vancouver BC
04/03/10 4:46 AM EST
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GEE, Ian
That analogy of yours should get together with my analogies and go kiss at a funeral! :D Thanks for the chuckle!!
Mark A Roberts, Vancouver BC
04/03/10 2:38 PM EST
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hmmmm...
A loudspeaker at a table/booth forcing the occupants to speak loudly to hear each other...sounds like a floor design plan problem that the Owner of the Eatery is responsible for. Not the customer(s).
Mark A Roberts, Vancouver BC
04/03/10 4:20 PM EST
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Bully on Trial
All of you who are defending the comedian have it wrong. Both the Comedian and the restaurant owner are responsible if they cannot provide a safe environment for the customer. Lorna Pardy threw water on her attacker - someone who should have stayed on stage and dealt with this very common situation at a comedy show rather than call her a name in a derogatory that was meant for maximum emotional damage toward Lorna and her partner. There is a precedent set here. Hecklers or disruptions during comedy shows are a regular occurrence. Michael Richards has proven how NOT to handle a heckler. Perhaps Guy Earle should have taken a page from his book. But clearly Guy Earle had a prejudice and it came out in the heat of the moment. THAT IS WHY THERE IS A TRIBUNAL! I was at a show at Zawa/Zestys when a Comedian called a woman in the Audience a C**t.. yes.. that word.. unacceptable and unnecessary. The emcee Carter and the owner once again did nothing to stop the comedian from being offensive. And could have cared less that the comedian did not handle the situation. Nothing was offered to the client and it was brushed off. The whole audience was offended and it changed the tone of the show. We all left shocked. All you comedians on here defending Guy Earle should get your heads outta your respective asses. Try walking a mile in Lorna Pardys shoes as a lesbian woman - So typical of men to come to the defense of the MAN in this situation. Real men defend what is right. And in this case Guy Earle was very wrong.
Wreck Beach Girl, Vancouver BC
04/30/10 5:30 PM EST
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re: Beach Girl
Are you asking us to censor the comedian? Not another bro-conspiracy thing? Typical talk? I have heard a few woman stand up and some lesbians stand up call men " Dicks" Was it more funny because a woman said it? Enjoy your summer on the beach, see you at Wreck. I will wear a hat...if it is not offensive?
Louis, Vancouver BC
04/30/10 6:33 PM EST
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@ Louis
I don't agree with censorship, but I do think that some people need sensitivity training - the majority of Men still have misogynistic tendencies and blame the woman or the victim in this case.. Lorna Pardy was standing up for herself and is now being characterized in the worst possible light.. she is still being attacked, and not just by Guy Earle.. Comments on this board prove that.. and all in the name of free speech.. how far does it have to go. Perhaps Guy Earle could have offered an apology and this might not have gone this far - but the fact that none of these defendants is willing to humble themselves and admit they might have handled the situation badly. And how was she supposed to get up and leave the restaurant in a moments notice during a heated exchange which was instigated by the comedian, who then made it personal by getting in her face. Yes, I suppose she could have walked out, but she chose to stand up to the bully and is being vilified for doing so. As for the show I saw at Zawa, I would have expected the organizers of that show and the owners to have dealt with an inappropriate comment from a comedian - not brush it off like it never happened - it cast a pall over the crowd, and quite frankly it became difficult to laugh at anything after that display. As a woman, I am often subjected to comedy I can't laugh at and often cringe at the lowbrow misogynistic attitudes that are still pervasive among Male comedians. There are certain comedians in Vancouver I just won't watch - I will leave the room, go to the bathroom or go outside, but what is unfortunate about comedy in Vancouver is that those comedians end up driving the female part of the audience away from seeing standup in favour of more positive entertainment. and comedians in this town wonder why the standup scene here is flagging.. give us humour that doesn't turn us off.. I do want to be entertained.. not insulted. but you only see it from a mans perspective
Wreck Beach Girl, Vancouver BC
04/30/10 8:32 PM EST
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Enough, go to the beach now!
Sorry, I do not need training.How would you like to be trained? How perfect you must be and stuffed with your own perfection to tell men we are all so insensitive, are tears next? Misogynistics, homophones racists have been around and will be around after we are both gone.Your paternalistic views are lame and you would not take it either if I suggested the same thing to you. Change yourself.We all have choices, the woman had the choice to walk out unless they were blinded by their own stupidity.Grow up, Princess.
Louis, Vancouver BC
05/01/10 3:04 PM EST
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