Rick Bébout: Jan 11, 1950 - Jun 10, 2009
PROUD LIFE / One of the great figures in the political history of Toronto's gay and lesbian people has died
Ken Popert / National / Wednesday, June 10, 2009
Share |



One of the great figures in the intellectual and political history of Toronto's gay and lesbian people has died.

Rick Bébout is best known for his role in The Body Politic collective in the 1970s and '80s, and for his writings then and since on gay life in Toronto.

One of thousands who had fled to Canada from the United States during the Vietnam War, in 1977 he joined a small group of Toronto lesbian and gay activists who were publishing The Body Politic, a 'gay liberation journal' that had soared to prominence both in Canada and abroad.

Particularly interested in design, he brought the resource-poor publication to an astonishing level of graphic sophistication, while also contributing to its unique voice by writing in its pages.

But his interests extended well beyond sexual politics. Like many other refugees who have settled in Toronto, he was passionate about the city that had embraced him, editing in 1972 The Open Gate: Toronto Union Station, a book that helped prevent the destruction of the iconic building.

Despite his interest in mass politics, he was intensely private and writing was the medium in which he conducted much of his life, particularly in his later years. Notably, he carried on a decades-long correspondence with novelist Jane Rule. (Their letters are being prepared for publication by a US scholar.)

Living with HIV since the mid-1980s, Rick suffered an apparent stroke on Jun 4 and died this morning of HIV-related illnesses.

A larger appreciation of his life is forthcoming.

***

In May 2008, Gerald Hannon, an early member of the Body Politic collective and a board member of Xtra's publisher Pink Triangle Press, interviewed Rick on camera. Watch part one of the interview below, and check back on Xtra.ca for more clips:





Share |


Reader Comments


 
RIP
Some of the lessons I learned from Rick at PTP about how to establish and nurture a fair and decent workplace environment are still with me 15 years later. Rest in peace, Rick.
Shawn Syms, Toronto ON
06/10/09 4:43 PM EST
Report this comment to moderator.
A good man gone
Rick was part of a generation of radicals -- Gerald Hannon is another -- who managed to continue being radical, often in quite charming and unobtrusive but nonetheless fundamental ways, for their entire adult lives. Whatever it is in most of us that kicks in after college to make us revert to variations on parental themes was missing from Rick and for that, anyone who reads his website or uses the Xtra archives, or who was lucky enough to have a conversation with him, should be thankful.
Bert Archer, Toronto Ontario
06/10/09 5:19 PM EST
Report this comment to moderator.
A shining example of humility and commitment
Not all those who make a contribution seeks the limelight as Bert has noted; I suppose it is part of our celebrity culture that we tend to honour those who remind us how important they think they are. Bebout and others have been solidly and consistently there through some of the most challenging times of our collective histories as GLBT people. I never met him, but I grew into a gay adult with Rick there. I'll leave those who knew him to fill in the blanks. Rest in peace, brother.
Alex MacLean, Toronto ON
06/10/09 6:56 PM EST
Report this comment to moderator.
A gentle soul with a Big mind and insights
Rick was a very gentle soul who was a great hero in my mine as he did what he did for the sake of it--often with no compensation. I shall miss his gentle spirit and insights to say nothing of his prodigious memory. He was also a brave man who valiantly carried in in the face of the worst hardships without complaining. RIP Rick!
james Dubro, toronto Ontario
06/10/09 8:50 PM EST
Report this comment to moderator.
A very gentle soul and Big heart and insight
Rick was a very gentle soul who was a great hero of mine as he did what he did for the sake of it--often with no compensation. I shall miss his gentle spirit and insights to say nothing of his prodigious memory. He was also a brave man who valiantly carried on in the face of the worst hardships--never complaining. A very fine gay historian, archviist , activist. RIP Rick!
james Dubro, toronto ontario
06/10/09 8:54 PM EST
Report this comment to moderator.
excellent, moving insightful video of Rick
Excellent and very moving interview with Rick by Gerald Hannon--and right on target! RIP gentle soul...
james Dubro, toronto ontario
06/10/09 9:37 PM EST
Report this comment to moderator.
Rick Bebout - Man of Dignity and Class
I heard today that Rick Bebout has died. He will be missed. Toronto has lost an intelligent, humble and well-informed human being. I remember interviewing Rick for a piece I wrote for a Ryerson student newspaper last year (a profile of Gerald Hannon, actually. Small world, no?) I could tell that Rick took the time to consider his answers to my questions. His answers were quite in-depth, which unfortunately didn't make for any snappy single sentence quotes, but did result in a very enjoyable interview. I spoke with Rick on other occasions, and visited his apartment a couple of times since then. The impression he left with me is that of someone intellectually engaged with the world around him. And Rick was always very polite and charming, even when I could see that his physical ailments were getting him down. I only wish I could have spent more time with him. Rest in peace Rick.
Josh Bentley-Swan, Toronto Ontario
06/10/09 10:19 PM EST
Report this comment to moderator.
A remarkable life
I met Rick back in the TBP days. He taught me about the gay liberation movement of the day by example. I still have a framed poster he gave me from Buddy's ("in the lane behind Crispins"). His was a life well lived.
Kenn Chaplin, Toronto Ontario
06/11/09 1:14 AM EST
Report this comment to moderator.
Every culture has it's heroes, Let's cherish ours.
In a country, where many gay men and women dance without thinking of the backbone and values of those who got us here, it is time to remember that we are still gay not straight. This is our culture and perhaps we are stronger for being more tolerated, but that is not equality. In disease, in blood, in employment, in families, in neighborhoods, among various Canadian ethnic group, we are still in debt to people like this man but still so far to go. A quiet hero goes quietly, but let us not be silent. Stop the criminalization of HIV transmission and the Canadian HIV apartheid! Silence equals the Death of Equality.
Mark Midensky, Toronto Ontario
06/11/09 7:52 AM EST
Report this comment to moderator.
One of the best!
I am sorry to hear about Rick Bébout's sad disappearance from this mortal coil... he was one of the most engaging and engaged people I have ever met... with a prodigious talent and an intellect to match. There are very few people I have admired as much as I do/did Rick...above all because he had an elegance about him, not only in his writing but in his approach to people. His pîxie-ish charm was disarming, and for those who are not aware of it, he left an incredibly fascinating and readable legacy on his web-page; many extraordinary pieces of writing, and one long memoir about his years at the Body Politic called Promiscuous Affections. I hope these remain on the Web or get published one day. They are a wealth of information and graciousness. Here is the link for those who aren't aware of it: http://www.rbebout.com/
Ken Cowan, Paris France
06/11/09 12:48 PM EST
Report this comment to moderator.
Thank you!
I meet Bebout twice, both times through Buddies in Bad Times youth program (pride Cab). And I foundly remember his rant about "gay marriage" and "how my/this generation 'lost' its focus by fighting for 'marriage' and 'buying into patriarchy'"( of course I'm summarizing, and mr. bebout would probably disagree w/ my wording). And I also remember how awestruck I was by having a much older gay man being way more radical than I was(at that point). His stories of the "old times" also blew me off. I remember seeing him around the village (and at our shows), and just his presence (and his acknowledgement of us/youth) made me hopefull about this whole queer "community"... may him rest in peace.
Luka, toronto ontario
06/12/09 1:25 AM EST
Report this comment to moderator.
RIP Rick
Rick touched my life as well. I'm deeply saddened by the news of his passing. He was a true pioneer and a brave soul. He will be deeply missed. His writings need to be preserved - Promiscuous Affections is a testament to the history of gay Toronto and is a priceless memoir that must not be lost. RIP Rick.
Derek Meade, Ottawa Ontario
06/12/09 3:31 PM EST
Report this comment to moderator.
Rick... Thanks for the memories.
I have a photo of the second day I started working for Xtra more then 20 years ago. In that photo is Rick Bebout, along with Gerald Hannon and Ken Popert whom all have left me with the fondest memories of my working and adult personal life.
Colin Brownlee, Puerto Viejo Costa Rica Limon
06/12/09 4:03 PM EST
Report this comment to moderator.
A Life Well Lived
Rick lived his cause for the cause and truly did understand that "the liberation of homosexuals is the work of homosexuals themselves". It is our job to continue his work in some way so his life will continue to have meaning.
Wayne Madden, Edmonton Alberta
06/13/09 1:53 PM EST
Report this comment to moderator.
I'll miss him.
I grew up knowing Rick - gentle, quick to chuckle, a freakishly detail-oriented memory - a talking archive of Toronto, the Body Politic, the epidemic and more. Some of my family photos I most cherish are of the young bucks at the Body Politic office on Duncan Street in the late 70's, coffee cups in hand, serious "we're changing the world one endless Collective meeting at a time" faces - and there's elfin Rick, a small smile, and you can tell in his 20-something eyes that he's taking it all in, storing it all away. To me, as a kid, I was fond of Rick for being sweet and kind - as an adult I learned to really appreciate him. I grieve not just for him - a sweet queer uncle - but for the radical insight informed by a startling awareness of history that we lost with him.
Stefan Lynch Strassfeld, San Francisco CA
06/13/09 4:42 PM EST
Report this comment to moderator.
With Great Respect
When I ran into Rick's website by accident 2 years ago, I knew right there and then that if Rick were to leave us some day, his website would be one great gift that he would leave behind for us all. His talent with words, attention to details, and clarity on timeline, all combined to let his readers relive with him the different stages of his eventful life, as well as remembering our own experiences in the different periods which Rick'd vividly captured. Thank you Rick. RIP.
Jimmy Poon, Beijing China
06/14/09 12:36 PM EST
Report this comment to moderator.
Thanks for my political awareness
When I moved from Montreal to Toronto to attend university in 1980, my gay political awareness was almost nonexistant. My gay existance was the club scene in Montreal. Several people in Toronto, Rick Bebout, included as well as the entire group involved with the Body Politic aroused my political awareness in particular the time of the Toronto bath house raids and the numerous demonstrations that ensued. Rick was one that I always admired their courage for the relentless dedication to our community.Rick will be sorely missed.
Clifford Chan, Vancouver BC
06/15/09 2:15 AM EST
Report this comment to moderator.
Community Hero
I first met Rick back in the 1980s at the Body Politic. His dedication to both the publication and the gay community was legendary, and he also took a great interest in and wrote about his adopted city's history. He was a kind, gentle and supportive man - also very amusing - and he will be missed. RIP Ricky B.
Alan McGinty, Toronto Ontario
06/15/09 2:01 PM EST
Report this comment to moderator.
So long, Ricky B
I first met Rick in the mid 70's when as a young pup I was volunteering and eventually working at TBP. The man was a graphics genius and taught me much over the several years we were connected. He was a huge, huge part of my gay political life and in fact is the "icon" that pops into my mind when I think back on that time. Warm hearted, brilliant and an astounding human being all around. May his legacy go on and on. You will be missed by people who don't even know you, Ricky, and even more so by those of us you touched.
Paul Aboud, Burlington Ontario
06/22/09 4:14 PM EST
Report this comment to moderator.