Nightmare in Dubai for Toronto gay couple
TRAVEL / Detained nearly a month for possession of arthritis medicine
Rob Salerno / National / Monday, September 28, 2009
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A gay Toronto couple was detained for 28 days in Dubai for carrying the prescription arthritis drug Celebrex, which is banned in the United Arab Emirates (UAE).

Rocky Sharma and Stephen Macleod, who have been together for 10 years, were stopped upon arrival in Dubai on Aug 2, where they planned to spend the day before returning to Toronto from a vacation in India.

Macleod had a bottle of the prescription arthritis medication Celebrex in his suitcase. They were told Celebrex is a controlled substance in UAE and, even though they did not present themselves to border officials as a couple, both partners were detained.

“I think they thought we were gay and we would have some party drugs with us,” says Sharma, who is now safely back at home with his partner. “They were definitely targeting people who are young, from the western world and nicely dressed, like they are going to party.”

The UAE has very tough drug laws. Even over-the-counter medications that include traces of codeine are restricted. Possession can result in lengthy jail sentences, heavy fines or the death penalty, according to an advisory issued by the Canadian Department of Foreign Affairs and International Trade (DFAIT).

 Calls to DFAIT were not returned before press time.

Sharma says he and Macleod were given limited information about why they were being detained because border officials in the UAE did not speak English.
HARROWING VISIT. Rocky Sharma (left) and Stephen Macleod are safely back in their Toronto home after being detained in Dubai for 28 days for carrying prescription arthritis medication.
(Matt Mills)


They were not given an opportunity to contact a lawyer or consular officials but Sharma managed to contact friends at home on his Blackberry, which he had on him at the time of his arrest. Those friends gave him the emergency contact number of the Canadian embassy in Abu Dhabi, which Sharma called before his Blackberry was confiscated. Sharma’s family also contacted DFAIT in Canada but their efforts were stymied by the long weekend.

“When I sent the message, we were thinking we were going back home,” says Sharma. “That’s when I took it out of my bag and sent the SOS message. They were taking us toward the airport, but I’m glad I sent it because they were taking us to the detention centre. We were very lucky about that.”

Sharma and Macleod were forced by their captors to submit urine samples for drug testing. Sharma says they were told they were being held pending the results of the urine tests. They were kept in a filthy prison cell with eight other prisoners for 10 days before they were sent to separate prisons.


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“If you get a blanket and a pillow you’re very lucky,” he says. “For the first few days we slept on the floor. The bathroom conditions were just a hole in the ground for 200 people. Food was just rice with some kind of sauce on it three times a day.”

For the next 18 days, Sharma and Macleod could only communicate with each other via the case worker provided by the Canadian consulate.

“That was one of the worst parts, because I had no idea how he was doing, he had no idea how I was doing,” says Sharma. “We were told by the embassy not to even hint that we were a couple, to act like we were only friends, and that’s what we did.”

Homosexuality is punishable by death in UAE.

Even when the couple was formally declared innocent by the Dubai prosecution on Aug 18, they were kept another 11 days while their paperwork was processed.

DFAIT currently advises travellers to the UAE to “exercise high degree of caution” but does not issue an official warning against travel. Anyone carrying personal medication is advised to consult the UAE Ministry of Health Drug Control Department before travelling to confirm that the medication is allowed in the country.

Sharma says he and his partner will never return to the Emirates after their experience.
“We’ll never go back to that country,” he says. “What people need to know is that we were stopped because they thought we were gay guys. They thought we might be carrying party drugs.”


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Reader Comments


 
UAE boycot
Certain laws of this state are immoral and barbaric. Anyone visiting, conducting business or otherwise supporting the Emirates are directly supporting these. They have laws to kill gay people and their wealth buys a blind eye to their practices.
Daniel, Dublin Ireland
09/28/09 5:15 PM EST
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Hint
When making plans to visit a backward country with ridiculous human rights and drug laws, consider the best, easiest, and cheapest option: don't go. There's a whole world out there, more deserving of your business. I hear Canada is a rather large country.
Randy, Windsor ON
09/28/09 7:37 PM EST
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Death to Dubai!!
Shame on Dubai for detaining such pretty boys in a filthy prison over Celebrex. I have read other stories about similar arrests so I agree that gays should not spend a penny in that disgusting UAE!!!
George, Toronto ON
09/28/09 7:48 PM EST
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They had it coming
So they guy says: "What people need to know is that we were stopped because they thought we were gay gays. They thought we might be carrying party drugs." But he was carrying drugs! They were arrested for carrying banned substances. It doesn't matter if their drugs were "party drugs" or not: they were illegal. They're just playing the gay victim card so they can act like they didn't do anything wrong when in fact they broke the law. When you visit a foreign country you're responsible for knowing and respecting their laws, which this couple did not.
John, Montreal QC
09/28/09 11:04 PM EST
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Why Go?
Stop for a day in Dubai? For what? To go to the mall? I'm sorry such a horrilbe thing happened and they are lucky it ended after 28 days, but why go to Dubai in the first place knowing the political and social climate?
GuyGolfer, NYC USA
09/28/09 11:22 PM EST
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Dubai misread the med name
@John from Montreal... these guys were not carrying restricted drugs. I suspect the Dubai authorities thought the drug was Cipralex, an anti-depressant, which is on UAE restricted medication list, along with other anti-depressants for some reason, including Prozac, Zoloft and Effexor, as well as estrogen patches that women use for menopause. What they WERE carrying was Celebrex, an anti-inflammatory drug like ibuprofen (Advil), aspirin and naproxen (Aleve).
RJ, Toronto Ontario
09/29/09 10:25 AM EST
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Kuddoos For Getting This Out!!!
I cannot imagine the horror these guys went through on this ordeal and I would have cocooned myself in submission on return so kudoos to them for coming out and telling there stories to help others. Very Courageous. These Islamic Countries should never see a gay dollar EVER!!! and Rocky you can bring Celebrex to my home anytime:-)
Francois, Montreal QC
09/29/09 12:16 PM EST
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You are HEROES!!!
You guys are true HEROES for telling the story. Do not listen to the bullshit about you were carrying drugs and even if you were what right do they have to keep you in prison for 28 days? Why not deport immediately like civilized countries???? Thank you for letting us all know and we should boycott damn UAE.
rachel, Vancouver AB
09/29/09 8:15 PM EST
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gay in Pakistan.
well i belong to such country where gays facing restrictions and i have no one here in Pakistan especially after the death of my entire family in Earth qake comes in Pakistan in Oct 2005, in which my whole family died and my house is totally damaged, and luckly i was only member who survive from my family beause i was in islamabad at that time for my education. At this moment i m in very bad position and need ur help as the mangement of shelter home at where i m staying afther the earth qake comes in Pakistan, now they stop to provide us food, and at this moment my situation is this i even not able to purchase even food for my self and as after the death of my entire family no one even help me for my food, i even not take my food from last 4 days, i request to u if u can give me any favour please help me for my food at least so that i may be able to purcahse food, for this u can write to me at tmphs_2005@yahoo.com Naseer
Naseer, Lahore Punjab
09/30/09 6:41 AM EST
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Yeah, you should stick to miami.
The comments that have been posted are ignorant and small minded - yeah you guys should stick to miami, LA, and the gay beaches in western europe. you obviously don't know how to comport yourselves in any other environment. The laws are different outside Canada, its that simple and the guys who made a day stop over in Dubai cannot now claim ignorance and blame it on "gay". Many gay guys have traveled through the middle east, myself included and have never - NEVER - had any problems. These countries offer the greatest hospitality, warm friendly people, the most ancient of cultures and history and I know that when I visit these countries I am a guest and they have brought me the most rewarding and awakening of travel experiences. es-salaam / shalom / peace
Fred, Toronto ON
09/30/09 8:51 PM EST
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Reality Check
I totally agree with Fred. Most people travel through islamic countries without any issues. the tone of the article is derogatory and disgusting. I find it hard to believe "Food was just rice with some kind of sauce on it three times a day" "they were being detained because border officials in the UAE did not speak English." YIKES, what a load of crap. I think people ought to stop passing their colonial attitudes for being canadian. UAE is well within its rights to carry out drug checks. Unlike most so called western "democracies" which routinely arrest Muslims without a warrant and put them in detention centre and conduct sexual assults on them( Guantanomo being just the tip of the iceberb), the UAE officials did release them when they were found innocent. or try coming getting through immigration in canada and you will realize how annoying it is, esp. if you are brown. The incident is sad but to use it as an excuse to promote racisim against Muslims is unacceptable.
reality check, ottawa on
09/30/09 9:19 PM EST
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THE TRUTH ON THIS
Enough already. I know of this couple through a 3rd party and know of this case. The pair are lying. Even the last name on one of them is fake. They did have hard drugs on them and this story is a cover up.
John, Toronto Ontario
10/01/09 10:58 AM EST
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ED's Note:
John, thanks for your comment. I visited Sharma and Macleod at their home in Toronto. Although I didn't check their id - I have no reason to - I did notice their doorbell nameplate matches the names they gave Xtra. Xtra is still awaiting a response from DFAIT. But it seems to me somewhat implausible that Sharma and Macleod were released after being caught entering Dubai with "hard drugs." I tried to email you at the addy you supplied with your comment but the message bounced back. If you have additional information for this story, we're all ears. Lay it on me. matt.mills@xtra.ca
Matt Mills, Toronto Ont
10/02/09 9:34 AM EST
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If It's So Nice There , Then Move There
Fred and Reality Check are very welcome to be apologists for these brutal, fundamentalist, barbaric countries. I however will not easily ignore the tactics used by these Islamofacists. If Fred and RC think these countries are wonderful havens of "hospitality" then I suggest Feed and RC move there indefinitely and then report back on their wonderful stay. Any nation that bans prescription drugs legally purchased with a prescription from one's doctor, is a backwards nation. If some Southern state had done this to this couple, you'd all be screaming anti-Christian epithets and denouncing American anti-gay fascists. But because these men's captors were brown skinned and practice the religion of "peace", you give their brutality and pass. I agree with RC on Gitmo; however it should have only been the tip of the iceberg; more should have been done to keep those prisoners--and that's what they are, prisoners--under lock and key. None of those prisoners were decapitated; nor did any have their anus glued shut and were not fed drugs to cause diarrhea, killing them in a slow, brutal method. None were hanged in a public square for simply being gay. As long as we excuse the atrocities those people commit in the name of their "profit", we will continue to allow the wholesaler murder of LGBTQ citizens living under the rule of those tenth century barbarians.
Paul Rapso, Cambridge Ontatrio
10/02/09 12:42 PM EST
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Ah, the religion of peace at its best!
Yes, friends, that is the world's most cosmopolitan and advanced Islamic country for you! Genetics tells us that cultures are not "savage" for any innate biological reason. That leave us with the possibility that a savage religion that worships a savage blood God might have the effect of creating a backwards and bloodthirsty culture. So yeah, they can kill you loving someone of the same sex, but they have the right to be offended by cartoons. Muslims piss me off.
Alan, Rome Georgia
10/03/09 4:35 AM EST
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Wow
Guys? It *is* possible to denounce state homophobia and human rights abuses, even ones in Arab countries, without being racist. I promise. I've done it before. Seriously. You aren't helping.
Ace, Montreal QC
10/03/09 10:11 AM EST
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Gay Dubai Expat
As a long term Western gay expat in Dubai I find all of this hoo hah quite ridiculous, ill-informed and stupid. Dubai indeed is an Islamic country and does not have the same laws as we in the west do. This is based on their religious beliefs. HOWEVER, I have been residing here for 4 years with my partner and we have never suffered any form of harrassment or legal issues what so ever. The Emirati's have a saying "what one cannot see, does not exist" meaning lay below the parapet and we dont care. Generally speaking the majority of the local Emirati's are educated and open minded, however they dont want everything thrown in their face as is it against their core beliefs. So unless you are some campy lou lou strolling hand in hand and playing the GAY card too much, this would NEVER be an issue. Lastly, my cousin who has had a double lung transplant (Cystic Fibrosis) had passed through Dubai on two occasions on route to a month long trip to Europe. Her condition means that she needs a suitcase FULL of prescription drugs for a one month trip. On EVERY occasion she was questioned by the immigration officials in Dubai, she explained her situation and showed the doctors letter and they bode her farewell and "enjoy Dubai" So this case to me is rather unusual, these people are not stupid and they are not biggots... Something is missing in this story...
Dubai Expat, Dubai U.A.E
10/03/09 1:04 PM EST
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Typical backward muslim behavior....
...persecute gays, christians and jews, then turn around and demand tolerance of their own medieval ways.
ron, Vancouver Bc
10/03/09 11:37 PM EST
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Hmm
It's not fair to deny anyone the right to say what they experienced. Perhaps this story is 100% true. However, without a statement from Dubai authorities, or even a legal expert familiar with UAE laws, there's no basis in knowing if this situation is possible. This story is very serious, it should have been held until that info could be obtained. In Dubai, Westerners are not held to the same rules as UAE citizens; tourists can drink alcohol, while Muslims are restricted. So I would think a prescription painkiller would be allowed for someone visiting the country. However, a Dutch citizen would never be allowed to bring marijuana to another country—or even a California resident with medical marijuana would never be allowed to bring it through an airport. Perhaps UAE views codine the same way? For whatever it's worth, I went to Dubai with my boyfriend, and we were told we couldn't have a hotel room that shared a bed. We were told it is illegal. And while we were there, a group of residents were arrested for having a gay wedding party. It was in the news. No matter what country you're in, it's possible for over-zealous officers to cause a lot of problems.
Dan Renzi, Miami Beach Florida
10/06/09 11:43 AM EST
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Hmm
It's not fair to deny anyone the right to say what they experienced. Perhaps this story is 100% true. However, without a statement from Dubai authorities, or even a legal expert familiar with UAE laws, there's no basis in knowing if this situation is possible. This story is very serious, it should have been held until that info could be obtained. In Dubai, Westerners are not held to the same rules as UAE citizens; tourists can drink alcohol, while Muslims are restricted. So I would think a prescription painkiller would be allowed for someone visiting the country. However, a Dutch citizen would never be allowed to bring marijuana to another country—or even a California resident with medical marijuana would never be allowed to bring it through an airport. Perhaps UAE views codine the same way? For whatever it's worth, I went to Dubai with my boyfriend, and we were told we couldn't have a hotel room that shared a bed. We were told it is illegal. And while we were there, a group of residents were arrested for having a gay wedding party. It was in the news. No matter what country you're in, it's possible for over-zealous officers to cause a lot of problems.
Dan Renzi, Miami Beach Florida
10/06/09 11:44 AM EST
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Reality Check
As I said this I know people who knows this couple & there is lots of lies. I e-mailed the editor & proved my correct e-mail. So as I said, there is a lot of hidden stuff that the couple are hiding. Celebrex my ass!
John, Toronto Ont
10/06/09 3:25 PM EST
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Ed's note.
John, I looked into things a little further. I've seen Sharma and Macleod's passports and they check out fine. I've seen correspondence with DFAIT officials about this case and it supports the sources. The story is sound and sources credible. But as always, if you have real, verifiable and credible information to the contrary, I'd be interested to see it. Best wishes.
Matt Mills, Toronto Ont
10/07/09 2:59 AM EST
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John's Comments
He is correct I also know friends of this couple and it has been mentioned they had other things. Also Rocky Sharma does go by another name - Kalia. Check out facebook - Rocky Kalia it has pictures of the same guy.
Tony, Toronto ON
10/17/09 8:26 AM EST
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ridiculous
The comments are hilarious and many are rediculous - especially the gay guy sticking up for dubai. Please go back and take your culture back with you if its so wonderful. If you like taking risks by all means go. But don't be naive these places are counter to most of our values so don't be surprised when something goes terribly wrong. And you end up executed for dying your hair or some other nonsense god only knows what . Just because you are open to their culture does not mean their open to yours look whats happening in Europe. You welcome them in then they throw you out. If their king knew you were writing negative things he'd cut your head off. So make sure you say how wonderful it is because you can ski in summer and see a tall building.
John, Cincinnati Ohio
10/18/09 11:18 PM EST
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Facebook Page
Interestingly Rocky Kalia's facebook page is no longer available after I posted my comment. Now if that is not guilt then I don't know what is. But frankly who cares about these two so called unfortunate individuals and there so called nightmare
Tony, Toronto Ontario
10/27/09 7:21 AM EST
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Cover Up
This story has more cover ups than an Avon facial. These guys are known to be full of b.s. As Tony says, why suddenly the facebook page is removed? Lies Lies Lies Lies. They're gonna getcha
Fulla Lyze, Vancouver bc
10/28/09 12:39 AM EST
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stop it they had drugs
if u r gay that dosent mean that u have to support gays no matter what and if i am currently working in dubai customs that dosent mean that i have to support them no matter what u have to support right and face wrong and yeah for u all guys am one of the enemies i work in dubai customs in the airport although am still freshly employed but am holding the report of sharma and macleod in my hands right now and they had drugs not only medicines and they were not unfairly treated according to this country laws and for the info this country lives on the tourists so they will never ever be misstreated and thats a fact, btw am not a uae national i only work in this country and i just wanna calrify the situation although am aware of what am gonna be facing but i had to tell the truth bieng someone who knows it, they were carrying drugs no doubt abt that
deiaa, dubai deira
11/01/09 8:28 AM EST
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