Gay man savagely attacked in London: UPDATED Oct 1
VIOLENT CRIME / Suspect arrested
Matt Mills / National / Monday, September 14, 2009
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NEED TO BE PUNISHED. Brandon Wright was attacked in London Ontario on Sep 8.
(Xtra files)
UPDATE - 10:00pm 1 Oct - Alex Myros, the man charged in connection with the Sep 8 beating of Brandon Wright, appeared in a London courtroom today and was relased on $5,000 bail, the Canadian Press reports. Read the CP report here.

UPDATE - 11:30 am Sep 25
- Alex Myros, the man wanted in connection with the Sep 8 attack on Brandon Wright was arrested at the London International Airport on Sep 24.

Read the London Free Press report here.

He is scheduled to appear in court on Sep 25.

UPDATE - 7:45am Sep 16 -
Alex Myros, the man wanted in connection with the Sep 8 attack on Brandon Wright, is the same former London Silverbacks football player who was honoured by the Red Cross for helping the victims of a Jun 21 car accident.

Read the Red Cross account here. Read the London Free Press reports here and here

UPDATE - 5:30pm Sep 15 - The London Police Service has issued an arrest warrant for a man in connection with the Sep 8 attack against Brandon Wright.

Alexander Myros, 22, of London, is wanted for aggravated assault, assault with a weapon, forcible confinement and two counts of uttering threats to cause death. Police don't know Myros' location but believe he has fled to Western Canada. Check back here for more information as it becomes available.

UPDATE - 10am Sep 15 - Const Amy Phillipo of The London Police Service tells Xtra that officers responded "at 11:33 am after a 22-year-old male was observed exiting a black pickup truck while the vehicle was in motion."

Phillpo says police are looking for a "male described as being white, 20-26 years, 6ft, blue eyes with a tattoo on one of the lower legs. No clothing description. The vehicle is described as being a black mid-aged model Ford F-150 pickup truck."

Phillipo declined to say if police have any idea who the assailant may be. "The investigation is ongoing," she says.

UPDATE -
10am Sep 15 - Join the facebook group here. Read coverage from London Free Press (LFP) here.

Readers may notice some facts in the LFP piece that conflict with Xtra's account posted yesterday. Xtra followed up with Wright at 9:30am on Sep 15. Wright says Xtra.ca's account is accurate.

"Last night I asked them [LFP] to edit a few things because it's not what I said," says Wright. The attack happened at "noon and not 11:30pm."

Wright says he arranged to meet the man ahead of time via MSN. It was not a random encouter at the variety store as reported by the LFP.

"That was wrong as well, I told them to change that," says Wright.

Wright says he's trying to contact a lawyer.

"The police are trying to brush it off and not make it as severe as it is," he says.


14 SEP, LONDON, ON -- A man says he narrowly escaped with his life after he was lured into a truck and savagely attacked in London Ontario on September 8.

Brandon Wright, an event manager and modelling agent, says a man who called himself Alex approached him online via instant messenger. The man told Wright he was an aspiring model looking for work. Wright arranged to meet Alex around noon near a variety store on Kipps Ln near Adelaide St in London.

After meeting, Wright told the man that he wouldn’t be able to help him find a modelling job.

“He just didn’t have the looks for it,” says Wright.

The man then told Wright that he wanted to show him something in his truck. When Wright climbed into the passenger side he says the man said, “Because you’re gay you need to be punished. I’m going to fucking kill you and you’re a faggot.”

The man then drove off with Wright still in the passenger seat.

“He started hitting me with a big, black, heavy object,” says Wright. “He kept repeating, 'I’m going to fucking kill you faggot.'”

Wright says the attack continued even while the man was driving. Wright jumped out of the moving truck to escape.

“I honestly believed that if I didn’t get out of the vehicle I would have died,” says Wright.

Wright says bystanders came to his aid.

“A group of people attended to me immediately,” he says. “This thug guy came over and took off his shirt. He said, 'Put this on your head.' There were all these people and they were being so kind and calling the ambulance.”

Wright was taken by ambulance to Victoria hospital where he was treated and released. He suffered a dislocated shoulder, deep gashes to his scalp and check, ruptured blood vessels in his left eye and severe bruising on his left side.

Wright says he was interviewed by police for several hours. Xtra contacted the London Police Service, but they did not respond before post time. Check back here for updates.

Wright says London Police investigators led him to believe they may have a suspect.

Wright didn’t get a detailed description of the man who beat him other than to say he is in his 20s, was wearing a hat and driving a black truck at the time of the attack. Wright also says the man mentioned that he is from Thunder Bay.

The attack against Wright comes just four days after a brutal assault on another gay man in Thunder Bay. Jake Raynard suffered 15 fractures to his cheekbone, a broken eye socket, a broken jaw and a broken palate when he was attacked by as many as eight men on Sep 4.

Wright says he just wants the guy who beat him prosecuted.
 
“It has always been a struggle for me being a gay male,” says Wright. “I was used to walking down the street and being called a fag, I didn’t care but the fact that someone had the idea that I had to be punished and they were going to kill me, I do not feel safe at all. I just don’t want it to happen to anyone else. I’m a strong person and I can fight whatever comes my way. I just don’t understand why it happened.”

Anyone with information on the attack against Wright is encouraged to call Crime Stoppers in London at 1-800-222-8477. And contact Xtra here.




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Reader Comments


 
Omggg.
Brandon! I loveeeee you and just so you know I'm behind you for sure. Whoever did this should definitley be punished. They are probably just ashamed that no one loves them as much as people love you. Stay strong. ?
Lacey, London On
09/14/09 7:20 PM EST
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Shocked!
My partner and I live at Kipps lane and Adelaide and have been there for 17 years.Nothing like this has ever happened to us in all that time and I am shocked and angry to learn that this could happen anywhere.These cowardly acts of violence must stop.We must all stand together against such hate.We are so sorry that this happened to you Brandon.I hope they catch the one responsible.STOP THE HATE NOW!!!
Dwayne, London Ontario.
09/14/09 8:14 PM EST
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Media Coverage
This story has finally been picked up by a local news site in London. The London Free Press hasn't seen fit to cover the story. http://www.londontopic.ca/article.php?artid=15956
Martin, London Ontraio
09/14/09 9:37 PM EST
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I am so sorry
I am so sorry to read that this happened! I hope you heal fast and can find courage to walk down the street feeling safe again someday. This is a terrible hate crime...a senseless act of stupidity. You are in my thoughts.
S Franks, Hamilton Ontario
09/14/09 9:45 PM EST
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disgusting
This is an embarrassment for Canada. Not the Canada I love. However it doesn't surprise me with the people that have recently moved to Edmonton has come down. Sadly this isn't a refection of my life. I feel safe.
Anita Greencard, Edmonton AB
09/15/09 12:44 AM EST
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It can happen to anyone!
I am really sorry that this happened to such a fine guy, but meeting anyone online has its' risks. First of all, I never meet guys online, unless I have met them in person during the day and at a place with lots of people. The man that has done this should be charged with assault and maybe attempted murder. But we all know that because he was gay that this case will be brushed under the carpet as they say. I have been down that road many times before. The first time was when I was 18 and I paid for it by being rapped by an online predator I met and hooked up with that night. I will never forget that long night. Thank goodness we have friends and family that care for us when we are in trouble or sad. Keep safe out their people and peace be with you all!!
David MacIntyre, London Ontario
09/15/09 12:44 AM EST
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I'm Sorry
All the love I have is coming your way, Brandon... I guess we'll have some things to chat about when I get home! xo
Sarah, London ON
09/15/09 1:04 AM EST
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Horrible
It is horrible that this happened, I feel whoever did this should be charged for Aggravated Assault, along with additional charges of attempted murder, uttering threats, and reckless driving (other traffick crimes) to give a hefty sentence. However, I have never thought they should make "gaybashing" a crime. Sure factor the hate as a reason into the sentencing. Otherwise we are giving special rights to a certain group, and if the same thing happened to someone who wasn't gay they would probably be asking for less because that person was not gay, and a new law for "gaybashing" would mean it is even more wrong to hurt a gay person, but more acceptable to hurt someone who is not gay. A crime is a crime, and they should all be equal under the law.
Sheldon, Vancouver BC
09/15/09 4:05 AM EST
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Gah
When will people ever grow up. "Punished"? Yeah, right. Asshole. Needs to be put in jail. No one needs to be punished for anything, except that guy. Stay strong Mr. Wright... whoever you are. Sorry you had to endure that crap.
Jason Clement, Thunder Bay Ontario
09/15/09 2:04 PM EST
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I call bullshit.
This story is FULL of holes. No one deserves to get beaten for being gay, lesbian, straight, black, white or just about anything else. But EVERYDAY, lots of people get punched for making STUPID choices. Read the two (very different) versions of Brandon's tale. Neither should elicit any sympathy. Depending on which story is to be believed.. 1) What kind of model agent goes to meet a new client at a variety store in a sketchy part of town? Christ, this isn't even about being gay- I've modelled for heaven's sake and I would NEVER agree to a meeting at a variety store. 2) Who gets in a strangers car? If the story he told Xtra is true (and I doubt it is), then why would you go get in a vehicle with a complete stranger after you've basically just rejected them? If the story he told the Free Press is true (and I doubt it is), then WHY WOULD YOU GET IN A CAR WITH A COMPLETE STRANGER?? You're not 5. Your puppy isn't lost. He doesn't have candy. Get fucking serious. 3) We're putting ALOT of faith into a one-sided version of events. Again, beating someone is not the answer, but since the stories seem full of holes, I'm not going to swallow the whole "die faggot" diatribe in the car either. For my money, this is likely a random hookup gone wrong. Now, a scared kid who made some stupid decisions, is trying to bluff his way into being the innocent victim because he's embarrased about his decisions. There are stupid gay people, just as there are stupid straight people. But when stupid gay people fuck up their lives, they shouldn't be wrapping themselves in the pride flag and expecting the "community" to rush to their side. Get serious.
Matt M., London ON
09/15/09 2:09 PM EST
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disgusted!
A hate crime is a hate crime and it's wrong! I am disgusted to hear what happened to Brandon! Living in London I always felt pretty safe until one night walking home from the bar with my partner. We were harassed by a group of men. They began throwing things at us and making derogatory 'gay bashing' remarks. We went to the police up the street from where we were walking and there reponse was that they couldn't do anything until we were physically assulted, even though they were making threatening comments to my girlfriend and I. It is disgusting that acts like this are taking place and that the police will not do anything about it. Just because we're gay doesn't mean that these acts should be ignored. We're suppose to have equal rights! We don't go around threatening people because they are straight what gives them the right to do this to us.
Nicole, London Ontario
09/15/09 3:00 PM EST
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Some London History
Julian Fantino - Police Chief 1991-1998 Dianne Haskett - Mayor 1994-2000 These two brought London a witch hunt (Project Guardian) and decisive politics (a discrimination ruling from the Human Rights Board against the city and Haskett). Oh and lets not forget Pat O'Brien (MP- 1993-2006). Sadly the only way the London Police would move on the crime above is if the victim was a poor defenseless blond haired women, and the attacker was an immigrant preferably either Muslim, or African. And for those not in the know. The London Free Press is a Sun Media paper. Nothing else should need to be said on bias, and journalistic integrity!
Fred M, London Ontario
09/15/09 3:16 PM EST
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suddenly on msn?
So, this guy is a 'modelling agent', somebody suddenly pops up on msn and a 'meeting' is arranged close to midnight at a variety store? The above story is even inconsistent. Non the less, I suggest no more late night "interviews" at variety stores.
Mike, Ottawa On
09/15/09 3:33 PM EST
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RU kidding?
Genius. Blame a group of people who no longer live in the city, nor have anything to do with it. And suggest a newspaper is lying, instead of some kid who was trying to get laid in a convenience store parking lot. It's stories like this, and responses like the one above that illustrate why the gay "community" is so pathetic here...
Derek, LONDON ON
09/15/09 3:36 PM EST
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Hook up gone bad
The whole story seems a little sketchy... Sounds more like a hookup gone bad and every fag is jumping on the "hate crime" band wagon. Likely has nothing to do with being a fag, has more to do with a hook up with a stranger that 'suddenly showed up on msn' then meeting that person close to mid-night at a variety store... and apparently 'rejecting' the person because he 'didn't have the looks' (mirror please)... and then getting into his truck in the middle of the night... hmmm MATT M (or whoever has it right), something is wrong in Denmark. This has nothing to do with anytiing else other then a 'hook up' gone bad. Sexuality has nothing to do with it unless the fag was acting like a freak. Sounds like the major injuries where sustained when he was jumping outta a moving vehicle instead of calling 911 or waiting for a red light or traffic to bulk up. Cops are never far away in that area of town. Regardless, the guy who commented about the msn conversation is right, doesn't sound like the victim is offering his computer or the contents of the msn conversation to the police so it can be easily traced. No more late night "interviews" at variety store parking lots!!! lol This ain't no hate crime. One of the two expected to get laid and it didn't happen. PS: First time I've seen this Xtra site. First thing I see after Brandon's mug is two leather fags bum fucking in animation on the left and an add for a "cruise line" on the right. Kinda makes me feel like going out an beating a fag myself. Nasty man. Just nasty.
Brian W, London On
09/15/09 3:53 PM EST
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Brandon's LONG tale!
i agree with matt m of london! (i call bullshit) ive known brandon for well almost 8 yrs since i met my ex partner thru him! he was trouble then and still is now! however, I hate gay bashers and wish they would get life in jail or if we had it the death sentence! now i read the story in the LFP and in on here and yes there seems to be a BIG problem! not only is there two different storys here but it seems that brandon is telling it different ways to different people to make himself totally innocent! im a fair person but there is always 2 sides to every story not three! so BRANDON HOW BOUT TELLING THE TRUTH and HELP your case not harm it even further! It is still a crime to lie to the police even if you ARE the victom! i hope im not being to rude or inconsideriate here but if the police do happen to find the person who did the bashing,or even if they dont! brandons 2 sided story has too many holes to prosicute properly! still im sorry that brandon got bashed! and i do hope he does have a full recovery!
J.Duval, london ontario
09/15/09 4:21 PM EST
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@ Brian W...
Brian W. of London wrote: " Kinda makes me feel like going out an beating a fag myself. Nasty man. Just nasty." While I might agree with much of the rest of your comment, the line above leaves me saying "Fuck you very much too, asshole."
Nathanial, Slocan Valley BC
09/15/09 4:22 PM EST
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Clarification
to Mike in Ottawa..the paper incorrectly has stated 11:30pm when in fact as the police release stated it was 11:30am to Derek..the point of the history lesson was to show the Homophobic attitudes that have existed in both services and government within this city...
Fred M, London ON
09/15/09 4:35 PM EST
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@ Brian W...
Quote: "PS: First time I've seen this Xtra site. First thing I see after Brandon's mug is two leather fags bum fucking in animation on the left and an add for a "cruise line" on the right. Kinda makes me feel like going out an beating a fag myself. Nasty man. Just nasty." Thank Gawd I'm not alone... and yeah, something about this whole "gay bashing" that originated from a late night hookup at a convenience store sounds wrong. One (or both) were looking for more then an 1130pm "modelling" interview at the variety store parking lot. This wasn't no hate crime, it was a one2one hookup and something went wrong. Lesson to be learned from this late night meeting with a stranger that 'suddenly' shows up on your msn? Give your computer to the police, the history and originator can easily be traced. No phone number or e-mail of the 'assailant'? There's ALOT not being told here.
Mike Z, London on
09/15/09 4:40 PM EST
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Let's not eat our own
What a community we've become! One of our own gets beaten to a pulp and our immediate reaction is to scrutinize his story and call him a liar. This kid is just 22, and whatever situation he was in that got him looking like that, it was bad. The same stories were told by the homophobes about Matthew Sheperd after he died, that it was just a hookup gone bad and therefore he deserved it. I just want to point out that it looks like the London Free Press reporter interviewed the guy in front of his mom. How comfortable would you be telling a reporter, in front of your mom, that you got into a gaybasher's car because you thought it was a hookup? This story is getting major media attention and not everyone wants to announce to the whole world that they were cruising for gay sex. Give the kid a break and have some sympathy.
P, Toronto Ontario
09/15/09 5:23 PM EST
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Suspect Indentified
London media outlet (Londontopic.ca) is reporting on pending charges and application for arrest warrant http://www.londontopic.ca/article.php?artid=15956
Fred M, London Ontario
09/15/09 5:30 PM EST
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@ Mike z...
As Fred M. points out, the incident happened at 11:30 AM, not PM -- the paper screwed up. That said, the rest of the story DOES seem... fishy. And as for agreeing with Brian W. about "going out an beating a fag myself", all I can say is the same as I told him -- Fuck you very much!
Nathanial, Slocan Valley BC
09/15/09 5:42 PM EST
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Also...
...even if he WERE cruising, so the fuck what? Since when does looking for sex mean it's okay to beat the shit out of you for being gay? Fuck that noise, a hate crime is a hate crime and it doesn't matter whether he was looking for a model or a trick.
Ace, Montreal QC
09/15/09 8:57 PM EST
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is this the same ALex myros??
is the white guy in this article the gay basher in this case.. ???? http://www.lfpress.ca/perl-bin/publish.cgi?x=articles&p=273520&s=societe
Daniel, Leamington Ontario
09/15/09 10:06 PM EST
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"Ace" from Montreal gets it right
The biliousness of these comments is repulsive. No one deserves to be queerbashed, and any of these allegations about the circumstances or about the victim's character are not only vile but completely irrelevent. The sex-negativity of half the people commenting here is really sad. And as the overt homophobia of the commenters who don't like the sexual aspects of the Xtra site, who the hell do you people think you are? Personally I don't like all the ads for xtra's sex services on the news site, it's not because I am a prude but because it makes me genuinely uncomfortable forwarding links on this site to other people. But for people to say that the sex content of the site motivates them to want to "bash fags" -- you repulse me.
Joseph, Toronto ON
09/15/09 10:30 PM EST
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disgusted by some comments
You can see why so many people who get gay bashed don't report it by the reactions of some in this comment section. So what if he got in the car with the guy for whatever reason, maybe he thought he'd get lucky or maybe he just didn't want to call a cab or take transit it doesn't matter, he still got viciously gay bashed and that's what matters here. Not every dangerous person appears dangerous, some can be very charming right up to the moment they start hitting you, some gay bashers make a point of trying to lure a gay guy to a more discreet area to beat the shit of them, that happened to me except I was able to get away in time when the guy went from charming guy interested in me to raving homophobe. Whatever the case it doesn't change what happened to Brandon and besides how is it that some commentators here think they know better what happened to Brandon than he does himself, it wasn't his fault the newspaper got his story wrong yet some are taking it as proof he deserved the beating, WTF??? and true I don't really like the little butt fucking animation on every page either but if it keeps homophobes like Brian W. away then I'm all for it. Brandon was viciously assaulted and had his life threatened only to be attacked yet again in some of the comments above, how disgusting. Even if Brandon was hoping to have sex with the guy so what, it was still a gay bashing, its not like its uncommon for homophobes to lure potential victims from safe areas to where they can be alone for the planned assault. Brandon is lucky to still be alive and he most certainly doesn't deserve the abuse he's received in some of these comments. Hang in there Brandon, focus on on your recovery and ignore the losers who make such disgusting comments about what they know nothing about.
Rich, Toronto Ontario
09/15/09 11:16 PM EST
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Sex isn't a crime, hate crimes are.
Let me agree with Ace and Joseph. It's not relevent whether or not the victim was cruising for sex. That's something many straight men would brag about if they were scoring sex with a woman! Oh did I say many, I meant most. Blaming the victim here, is just a homophobic diversion from the issue.
Clint Babula, Thunder Bay Ontario
09/15/09 11:37 PM EST
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Hook up gone bad
Gawd, virtually everyone that commented on this is likely a queer, otherwise wouldn't be on this nasty queer rage site.... MANY just don't agree with the "lifestyle" most gays chose. That doesn't make them homophobic (which isn't accurate because nobody "fears" a homosexual but many DISDAIN their lifestyle). One fag punching out another fag isn't a hate crime. Lesson here? Stop trying to pick up and meet strangers off the net. Stop being nasty. Control your impulses. Shit happens.
Daren R, Sarnia on
09/16/09 1:26 AM EST
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its wrong matter what!
You know reading some of the comments tonight was pretty disturbing seeing how some of us think. Ok a lay from a net meeting yes crazy to meet someone over the net but it happened morning or night we dont know how the conversation started and its none of anyone's business it started and also we dont know for sure what the subject was we can speculate but only brandon and the basher knows. I f infact it was for a quickie or nooner or whatever there was a trust that was there modelling or otherwise and it was broken....Now just a thought seeing some here thinksits ok to beat gays because they thought it was a potential.lets talk straight....a woman meets a guy on line they set time and date to meet she dresses to te nines not knowing what could happen they meet they dont connect she refuses to continue the visit but he doesnt care she is raped and put in the hospital did she ask for it? A child shows love and trust the child is beaten molested or both did the child deserve it? a girl walking downtown toronto she gets shot and killed did she deserve it for being in the wrong place wrong time? A spouse tries everything to make the partner happy but another fist in the face and head in the wall deserved? a gay man or lesbian or bisexual or transgendered meets someone and wants to hook up sexually or not just face to face meeting gets the living shit beated out of them deserved? If you said yes to any of these I hope you never have anyone hurt you and then have someone to react with a piece of inhuman shit as I read here from the few of you if Brandon is lieing in any form we know he was beaten matter who you are no one no one deserves to be hit or put in fear threatened or anything to do with any form of violence. think before you react your words can be worse then bruises.
ALLAN WHITE, LONDON ON
09/16/09 5:28 AM EST
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Oh Jeez...
I don't understand people who come onto gay-focused sites such as this and choose to take the time out and say sh*t about our lifestyle. Seriously! And if it was a woman OR a straight man who had made the mistake of going into a potential clients car and was raped, beaten or killed, it would have gotten more attention from the press and police and none of the unsolicited comments posted on here. And I love comments about what "homophobia" really is...
Allan C, Toronto Ontario
09/16/09 10:01 AM EST
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Doesn't Suprise Me
Brandon, you probably brought it upon yourself, knowing you and your mouth - I wouldn't call this a hate crime on a gay guy, I would call this someone teaching him a lesson, and probably a well deserved one at that.
Amanda, London Ont
09/16/09 11:08 AM EST
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London's community divisions exposed
NO ONE DESERVES A VIOLENT ATTACK. NO ONE. It doesn't matter if they are popular or unpopular, well-loved or annoying. I cannot believe the comments this story is getting. Some of these petty London people are making me ill to my stomach. Look at the photo. If you say anyone deserves that, there is something wrong with you. No one does, no matter what any person involved said or did. Period.
OMG Londoners!, Toronto ON
09/16/09 11:31 AM EST
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YOU PEOPLE ARE DISGUSTING.
FIRST OF ALL TO THE PEOPLE SAYING HE DESEVERED THIS ATTACK SHAME ON YOU. I BRANDON WELL. HAS HE MADE MISTAKES IN THE PAST YES. HAVENT WE ALL? FOR THE PEOPLE SAYING YOU KNOW HIM OBVIOUSLY NOT. I HAVE BEEN IN HIS LIFE FOR A LONG TIME. AND I KNOW FOR A FACT HE ISNT LYING. THERE ARE THINGS HE OBVIOUSLY CANT SAY BECUASE HE NEEDS TO KEEP THINGS PRIVATE AS THE POLICE SAID TO HIM. HE IS HELPFULL KIND AND GIVING. AND HAS MADE MISTAKES BUT HAS MADE HIM SELF A BETTER PERSON. SOME OF YOU IDIOTS ARE STUCK IN THE PAST SAYING THINGS BECAUSE OF A PERSONAL GRUDGE. AND THIS IS A HORRIABLE THING TO HAPPEN TO ANYONE AND FOR ANYONE TO SAY IT WAS DESERVED. THEN I GUESS EVERYONE SHOULD END UP LIKE THIS. WE HAVE ALL MADE MISTAKES AND DONE WRONG. SO HEY WHY NOT GET BEATING FOR IT AND MAYBE DIE. INSTEAD WE SHOULD SHOW OUR SUPPPORT AND WAIT TO SEE WHAT THE COURTS SAY THIS IS NOT OUR PLACE. BUT I KNOW BRANDON AND HE IS NOTHING LIKE YOU PEOPLE SAY. AND IM DISGUSTED WITH THE PEOPLE SAYING A LATE NIGHT HOOK UP SO ANYONE WHO MEETS SOMEONE AT A BAR OR ONLINE DESERVES TO GET BASHED? AS FOR THE MEETING. IT WAS A PUBLIC PLACE. THATS WHERE ID WANT TO MEET SOMEONE FOR THE FIRST TIME IF IT WAS A RANDOM ADD. AND I WASNT SURE. BUT HEY I GUESS YOU GUYS ARE TO PERFECT AND TO BUSY JUDGING OTHERS. GO TO HELL AND I HOPE THIS HAPPENS TO NO ONE ELSE. FOR ANY REASON. THERE IS NO WARRENT OR EXCUSE FOR AN ATTACK. I GUESS EVERYONE WHO GETS MURDERED DESERVES IT. CUZ OF THE MISTAKES THEY MADE IN THE PAST. I NONE OF YOU LOOK FOR HELP AND SUPPORT IF SOMTHING HAPPENED TO YOU. BECAUSE GOD KNOWS HOW KIND YOU ARE. I GUESS YOU DESERVED IT. AS FOR HONESTY. THE WITTNESSES WHO SEEN IT AND OVERHEARD IS PROOF ENOUGH. POLICE DONT ARREST PEOPLE WITH OUT EVIDENCE WHICH THEY OBVIOUSLY HAVE. THIS ATTACK IS NOT EXCUSABLE FOR ANY REASON. THANKS.
Worried Londoner, London ontario
09/16/09 7:49 PM EST
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HE ISNT LYING
All I need to say is i used to be friends with alex. and he was homophobic. he wouldnt go somewhere to hook up and he used to call people faggots all the time. even on his facebook he puts anti gay remarks. as for brandon im sorry for what happened. and knowing that people are questioning you sucks but i used to know alex and this seems bang on to me. im sorry for the hate and sorry for the comments made i thought this would be supportive instead it seems like an all around bitch fest and you are trying to make it sound like this guy got what he deserved. no one does. and im sorry for all the pain.. all the best. P.S if brandon is lying why did he come forward to the world to ask for help? doesnt make sense to me. and press fabricate things doesnt mean its the person telling it. as i read he asked the london free press to edit some text because its not what he said. not to mention you dont to tell every detail to the press because you just gave your case to the public and anyone who wants to help alex would have. or is.
Kayla, Thunderbay ontario
09/16/09 8:05 PM EST
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Sad in London
People should be skeptical of media reports--they are often inaccurate. But we can be sure of one thing, this young man was beaten to a pulp. No one deserves that. No one. Not for any reason. Once again I am deeply saddened by the lack of heart and soul displayed by some of my fellow human beings, both gay and straight. No wonder the world is the way it is. Shame on you people. Joseph Couture London, Ontario
Joseph Couture, London Ontario
09/16/09 8:28 PM EST
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Where's the love??
as humans, we have to realize that ANY kind of violence is wrong. no matter whether it is against gays, straights, women, children, the elderly, the disabled or for any other matter. Brandon is a victim, there is no doubt about that. Everybody makes mistakes, and Brandon is no different. the fact is, life punishes us for those mistakes. other humans don't need to. I'm really upset that homophobia still exists. Love is still love. no matter how you look at it. I encourage everyone to not hate the person that committed this horrendous crime, but to love Brandon. If a 1/4 of the energy spent on hating in this world was devoted to loving the other party, the world would be a much better place. so LOVE LOVE AND MORE LOVE! Blessed be. Trina
Trina. L, London ON
09/16/09 8:30 PM EST
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this is very sad news.
this guy is gonna pay for what he did Bandon your amazing man your a truly wonderful person. and this guy will pay for what he did. he will be punished and I wish the police would beat him.
LDN Fan, Ontario Canada
09/16/09 8:41 PM EST
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UNBELEIVABLE
WOW I sm shocked and disgusted that you ppl on here can sit and judge someone for something like this so much for the support of human kind, I am Brandons mother and I will tell you the free press quoted the time wrong it was 11:30 am and all details can not be disclosed to the public at this time until this guy has been caught, Gay pick up gone wrong , To "Amanda" no one deserve any of this so your opinion has no bases here ... No kind of attack on anyone is warranted , you can all assume what you want about my son but he was doing nothing wrong .. and I guess when the full story is released you will all eat crow ... Just find it amazing that in this day and age the Gay cmmunity wants support from straight people and here you are bashing your own kind ... Harvey Milk died for his beliefs so I guess it is ok what happened to him for standing up for a community and the rights of all the Gay community ...My next point you can sit and ask your self this .. if Alex Myros did nothing wrong then why is he hiding .. what is your answer to that .. so before you go assuming my son and what you THINK you know ... think again .. and may none of this kind of hatred land upon your doors ... Thank you to the people who are supporting us in every way .. and to those who choose to cast judgement have a nice day ..
Deborah, London Ontario
09/16/09 9:01 PM EST
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Be wary of an often changing version of events...
This is not a "hate" crime. Physically assaulting someone is a crime, and no one deserves that. However, there is no "innocent victim" in this case. Wait until the facts play out in court. The stories printed here, and the one in the Free Press are littered with holes. No one was beaten simply because they were gay. Those who have run to scream "hate crime" and have accepted one persons version of this story will regret their naivety.
Darren, London Ont
09/17/09 12:01 AM EST
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Get Serious.
Lady, your son is no Harvey Milk.
RUKIDDING???, Ontario Ontario
09/17/09 12:09 AM EST
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Hmmm
Not to let good journalism get in the way of telling a one-sided story, but to be accurate Alexander Myros is not a FORMER football hero. He saved people's lives, therefore he would still be considered a hero. Just wanted to make that point- sorry if it gets in the way of this completely one-sided, hole-filled, version of events.
Mike Daniels, Toronto Ontario
09/17/09 12:43 AM EST
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Wow
the comments on this site are disgusting the guy who beat him up, regardless of what happened will go to jail. It's not okay to injure someone. to you people saying he "deserved it" are effin kidding me? I'm sure there are people out there thinking you "deserve" it too. And I'm sure you wouldn't like it you should also stop relying on news reports. The police have the facts and obviously have enough facts to issue an arrest warrant. and to the comment above me, obviously he's definitely not a "hero" he may have done something good in the past but he has some serious issues,
Andrew, London Ontario
09/17/09 1:45 AM EST
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Deborah
I share your view and I am sorry for what happened to your son. There is absolutely no excuse for the kind of violence perpetrated on him. The appalling hate and stupidity in some of these comments is equally vile. I wish you strength and I want you to know that the views these creatures express are not shared by people with an IQ above room temperature.
Peter Bochove, Toronto Ontario
09/17/09 12:07 PM EST
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Alex Myros warrant - hockey player from Thunder Ba
Alex Myros is a hockey player who went to high school in Thunder Bay - TBay local media busy saying the attack on Jake Raynard wasn't a hate crime but it seems the hate migrates from the Lakehead to other cities.
Lynne Sharman, Thunder Bay Ontario
09/17/09 12:22 PM EST
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Nonsense
Well as I said hate crimes now go in and gave special laws, so hurting a gay person is worse than hurting someone who is not gay. This makes law unequal, and defeats the purpose of justice when all need to be held equal under justice. This person should face consequences for what he did, which would be assault and potentially other crimes. As for hate crime, well then it is saying it is okay to hurt people who are not gay because you won't go for jail as long as if you hurt someone who is gay. It is completely ludicrous. I have never been for special interest laws, and shall oppose them for equal laws. Now some brilliant person brought up Harvey Milk. Many like to say he died for being gay, for his views, he was assassinated. I call bs on that one. He was murdered by a disgruntled employee who lost his job and went into City Hall killing the Mayor, then has he was going back to his former office he saw Harvey Milk and shot him, and no doubt if he saw others he would have shot them too. I don't call that assassination, I call that murder. JFK was assassinated, Benazir Bhutto was assassinated, those are what assassinations are. Moscone and Milk were murdered by a disgruntled man who lost his job, not some assassin bent on killing him for whatever reason. I get so fed up with people trying to make things seem rosier than they are.
Sheldon, Vancouver BC
09/17/09 12:36 PM EST
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sadand hurtful
this young man does not deserve what he got at all. he has not done anything wrong. he is a human being who does not deserve this at all. Brandon your a very sweet young person who has not done anything wrong! to all the people who think Brandons to blame Stop blaming him. he has done nothing but be himself and hes a very nice young man. .no one ever deseves this. Bandon your a very nice young man and I Support you100%.
London, Ontario Canada
09/17/09 3:06 PM EST
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Brandon
Ok listen hear this is too all these ppl saying he is lying and the holes yes there are holes but reporters do that they always change a story around they cant be trusted, second even if brandon did things wrong in his life and if it was a hook up gone wrong dose not mean he desevered to get the s*it kick out of him. no one does!i live around brandon and he is the nicest guy he helps ppl out and if he had too he would take his shrit of his back to help u out. this alex guy should be put in jail for life .. and on the other note brandon i hope u get better soon and you are in my prayers .
Crystal Milne, London Ontario
09/17/09 4:32 PM EST
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the Police are doing what they can
the police are doing what they can. they'll find this guy. we'll catch him. Brandon thoughts and prayers go out to you!
London, Ontario Canada
09/17/09 4:47 PM EST
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ALEX MYROS
Okay so if alex is innocent and didnt attack Brandon why is he telling people he did including his friends. i heard the other side which came from alex and you would need to be retarded to believe it. he is making excuses my point is this kid didnt do this to himself whatever the reason is alex needs to face up in court. and why is he running? like you people are so quick to judge but as for the holes i agree but you dont give everything away to the media. the things he said fit. just worded differantly by the press. but as a former friend who knows alex this story fits the bill. he may have done somthing good. but this kid dosent deserve this. for any reason.
Kayla, Thunderbay Ontario
09/17/09 9:23 PM EST
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Freaks
So what if it's a hookup gone bad? So what if the victim made up a story? There may well be large holes in Brandon's story, but it doesn't mean he deserved to be beaten up. Brian W and Matt M and your ilk: thanks for authorizing more violence. Yep, "he really pisses me off so he deserves to be beaten up." Tell that to Matthew Shepard's family you sick fuckwits. And why are you reading a gay website, btw?
fred J, london Ontario
09/18/09 7:18 AM EST
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This is NOT A HATE CRIME
This is such bull shit, I know the person at the other end of this story. I DON'T agree with what his actions were, and I DON'T condone them but THIS IS NOT A HATE CRIME, it is a crime but not against gays or a life style choice. It was against the actions the the "victim" took and the part he played in all of this too. Had he not been gay and still did what he did the out come wouldhave been the same.
VIP, TORONTO on
09/18/09 12:01 PM EST
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SCAM!!
this guy does not say "you do not have the look". Ive heard that he scams people by promicing fake modeling contracts and thousands of dollers in return. all you have to do is give him "this much money", and then he steals it! DO NOT BELIEVE EVERYTHING YOU HEAR... his stories clearly do not add up. and this much lieing and defamation of character can get someone in trouble when the truth comes out !!
megan, London ontario
09/18/09 7:46 PM EST
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im so sure
ok first of all stories are stories and its all hear say. if this person scammed all these people they would have reported him. and from my understanding he is crediable. also this does not mean the attack was ok. if someone "lied" or "scammed" someone that doesnt mean its ok to beat the shit out of them and making the jump from a moving vehical to save his life. so all of you defending this person its wrong. 2 wrongs dont make a right. alex obviously did wrong and he knows that and he ran away. as for brandon he didnt deserve this no one does. and whatever the reasons maybe its not our place to cast stones. as far as im concerned he was assulted and there is proof and alex will face charges because of it.
Londoner., London Ontario
09/18/09 8:20 PM EST
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curious
Every website that is explaining what happened. The story is always changing. When does a model agent meet someone in a store parking lot? thats kind of sketchy. And why would someone get in a truck with someone who dont even know? also sketchy. I actually went to school with Alex Myros our school was a close knit community , he was always involved in sports teams. And very well liked. Im sorry to say it but this sounds completely out of character for alex. And everyone is so quick to judgement when he hasnt stated his side of the story. Cause remember people thers two sides to EVERY story. Im not saying what happened was right, because it wasnt right it was wrong. But look at the story line here. And compare the other stories on the web. Somethings just dont add up.
kayla, edmonton alberta
09/22/09 1:48 AM EST
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support Brandon
Brandon your awesome . this is good that the Police have got this guy.
Zarah, Ontario Canada
09/25/09 3:37 PM EST
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so one sided
A few people have already stated this, but Brandon's story is so full of holes. What self-respecting model agent would meet a stranger at a variety store? Give me a freaking break! You're a supposed to be a professional, you don't have meetings at a variety store. Now I've heard Alex's side of the story and it's way more believable. Brandon is twisting the truth because he's gay and probably a big gay rights activist. I have nothing against gays, but using it this way to wrongfully accuse someone of a hate-crime is just low. I bet if Brandon wasn't gay this story would have never been put in the papers or on the evening news.
Sarah, London Ontaio
09/25/09 7:08 PM EST
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stop the abuse.
this needs to stop. why must people feel the need to go and hurt some one else. this is really not right. people shouldn't go around hurting other people. its cruel its hurtful.
Kelsey, Ontario Canada
09/27/09 6:04 PM EST
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IDIOTS
You guys are nuts. ive heard his side of the story 2. but it doesnt give reasons for violence. i beilive brandon. and alex's story is farfetched. and if he was innocent why did he run.
Kayla, Thunderbay Ontario
09/30/09 2:13 PM EST
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truth or lies
No matter what. the lies will be revieled and with alex now caught. His side of the story will show some truth in brandons lies. And your right. If this wasnt about a gay guy getten beaten up it would of just been an assualt unknown. seems like brandon is using gay as an excuse.
cory, calgary alberta
10/01/09 1:38 AM EST
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GAY PRIDE
This is the reason we, as a community need to rethink Gay Pride. I feel so sorry for this attack, we are all so vulnerable yet no one with the resolve to take it to the next level. This will forever change this mans life and those who know, love and have contact with him. To inspire true equality, to find nobility in suffering, we must stick together because in the end are we not ALL FAMILY. In the eyes of the LAW....I've learned perception is everything so be sure to check all the facts first then take the high road. Noone should have to be beaten up and taught any lesson, in fact those that are the beaters are the ones in true need of a lesson. Papa
Mr.H, cal ab
10/04/09 12:06 AM EST
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Shame
I am sorry that a young man had to be beaten to get a dialogue open on gay bashing. We celebrate gay pride in our cities, to me, all it is a reason to party. I do not see any seminars or educational events happening to make the life of a gay person better or safer.I believe we have the right to be proud and I am, but we also need to help others in the community, not attack them when they are down, for whatever reason. In our society today anyone of us could be a victim. Having the support of out fellow gays would be very important in our healing. Negativy will make the hurt much stronger and last much longer. It does not matter if we believe his story of not, the fact is that he was hurt. Have courage to offer your support not your contempt and accussations. Once I made a mistake in my life, does this mean I do not deserve support. Once I did something wrong to someone else, does this also mean I do not deserve support. I am ashamed to say I was born in Thunderbay and now live in London. To be gay in both these cities means coming out is a risk you have to weigh carefully.Not only is your safety at risk so could be your job. We went to our only bar a couple of years ago and were standing outside having a smoke. In ten minutes we were verbally attacked three times by passing cars. I did not ever see the police around the gay bar they were busy making sure all the university and college students were safe. I am truely ashamed to say I live in London. To all the people who have been hurt because they are gay, I send you my love and support and wish you happiness.
Laurie, London Ontario
10/04/09 11:54 AM EST
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WTF?
I hope this gay basher rots in fucking hell and this gay guy must have done something wrong, PEOPLE WAKE UP, nobody wants to be GAY, we dont fucking chose it, we discover it when we find out we dont like girls. Holy shit, i thought gay acceptance is climbing. only assholes like this make it worse.
mixme, london ontario
10/14/09 9:40 PM EST
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An assault is an assault
An assault is an assault. No one has the right to deliberately beat up anyone else for any reason. At most you can defend yourself forcefully against an assault but only just as much as is necessary to protect yourself from harm. The accused here was not being threatened or attacked by the victim so he cannot claim self-defense. The main reason the police prefer to deal with this as an assault rather than as a hate crime is because it is harder to prove a hate crime than it is to prove a simple assault. Perhaps the victim was being a bit careless in going into what is for him a dangerous part of town but no one can say that he deserved to get beaten up for being a bit careless or foolish. Hopefully the legal system will prosecute and convict the accused assailant here but for gay people engaging in gender-variant behavior in public it is best to avoid trouble by staying in safe areas. That is just the reality of things here. You can legislate legal rights but you cannot really legislate private attitudes. Hopefully the legal system will at least punish those who are openly violent to gay people but the rest of us should basically play it safe and try to avoid violent people whenever possible.
Yours Truly, Toronto Ontario
10/15/09 8:24 PM EST
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