Confusion of conclusions
EDITORIAL / How Raymond Taavel and Chris Skinner died of homophobia
Matt Mills / National / Wednesday, April 18, 2012
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On Oct 18, 2009, a gay man, Christopher Skinner, was beaten to the ground by a group of men who then returned to their black SUV, engaged the transmission and crushed him to death under both sets of its wheels. The attack happened near the corner of Adelaide St E and Victoria St in downtown Toronto, just blocks from the gay village.
 
Christopher Skinner was murdered in Toronto in October of 2009.
Raymond Taavel was murdered April 17 in Halifax.

A vigil on Toronto’s Church St in the following days drew easily more than a thousand people. The crowd marched to Queen’s Park in solidarity and to demand that politicians and police find the thugs who murdered Skinner and do something to ensure that Toronto’s streets are safe for gay people.
 
Despite several eyewitnesses, a large reward and several CCTV video recordings, Skinner’s killers have, incidentally, not been identified or apprehended.
 
Now, in the early morning hours of April 17, Halifax gay activist and former Wayves editor Raymond Taavel was brutally murdered on a Halifax street. It happened just steps from the city’s popular gay watering hole just moments after Taavel left the bar. Witnesses say that the assailant was inside the bar prior to the attack but that he was refused service by the staff. Witnesses say further that a man spewing homophobic epithets attacked Taavel and his friend. The man beat Taavel to the ground before smashing his head into the street, killing him.
 
As the story of Taavel’s murder unfolded yesterday, I began to see parallels between it and Skinner’s murder; parallels that loomed in increasing intensity in my thoughts. Both Skinner and Taavel were well-known and liked in their respective gay communities. Both had reputations as men who, while loving and gentle, simply would not suffer homophobic bullshit. In both cases, those who knew the dead men told me exactly the same thing: “He would not take any crap from anyone.”
 
In both cases, it’s likely the assailants knew their victims were gay. Both men were a little bit fey. They showed. One was attacked outside a gay bar, another just blocks from the largest concentration of gay households in the country.
 
And in both cases the immediate reaction from gay communities was an outrage that too quickly diffused, redirected by reports of seemingly extenuating circumstances. In Skinner’s case the story was  – unsubstantiated by the press to this day – that Skinner bumped the SUV carrying the men who killed him, thereby attracting their attention, precipitating his own death; in Taavel’s case, that he tried to break up a fight and that the assailant might have been AWOL from a psychiatric hospital. Both Skinner and Taavel, the inference goes, may simply have chosen the wrong battles against the wrong men at the wrong times and in so doing, made choices themselves that led to their own deaths. 
 
And both police services at the centres of the investigations into these crimes issued similar statements:
 
“There has been speculation online and in the community that this was a hate crime,” Halifax Regional Police spokesman Brian Palmeter told CBC News yesterday. “While we cannot provide specific information about the case, as it is still under investigation, police have spoken to a number of witnesses and are considering all possibilities with respect to the motive.”
 
And in both cases too many people, gay and otherwise, shrugged their shoulders as details emerged in the cases as they suggested that what happened were merely horrible tragedies; that niether murder might reasonably be called a hate crime. We should, they argue, in the interests of accuracy, avoid suggesting that either of these men died because of their sexualities.

Let’s face it: these gay men were both struck down senselessly while attempting to defend themselves against homophobia. And both were gay men killed hatefully on the doorsteps of their own communities. Those points alone ought to be enough to inspire rage.


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Thank You.
Thank you for saying what i am sure many of us have been thinking. We have as a community let both these "brother's" down by not continuing to put pressure on the government and Police to more aggressively pursue these crimes. I can guarantee if it was a policeman murdered there would be nothing spared in finding the killer. There (Police) like the politicians..great at deflecting responsibility and throwing out conjecture's. We owe it to our selves and to those murdered to continue the fight for justice.
G.Ferguson, Barrie On
04/18/12 2:56 PM EST
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In the interests of accuracy...
....Raymond did try to stop an attack on his friend, and the assailant was indeed a violent paranoid schizophrenic, AWOL from the Forensic Unit. To state these facts doesn't mean there wasn't homophobia involved--Andre Denny went into Menz Bar, and yelled homophobic slurs during the attack according to witnesses--but the homophobia is in a mix with mental illness and substance abuse. The big question is what the hell was someone, whose own lawyer says is so dangerous they should never have been let out, doing roaming Halifax on an unescorted pass in the first place.
Lisa, Halifax NS
04/18/12 3:36 PM EST
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I agree these are hate crimes...
In the case of Taavel, my opinion is that this was a hate crime, pure and simple. Whether someone is mentally unstable at the time of the attack should not make it less so. Also, if he doesn't get charged for it, the idiot that granted him the hour unsupervised pass should in his stead as he is as much to blame if not more.
Jacques, Vanier Ontario
04/18/12 3:55 PM EST
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Trivializing Raymond's Death
I knew Raymond, because I'm from Halifax (where all of the gays kind of know each other). I respectfully point out that the author of this article is trying to draw a conclusion without basic facts to back it up. Something that he even recognizes at the end of the article. Although it is convenient for everyone to call this a hate crime, it is not that simple. There is simply no evidence yet that this was motivated by hatred of gays. Sure he said "faggot", but that doesn't determine the matter. If that were the case, can you imagine how many assaults would be labelled hate crimes?? Raymond's death was likely a result of his killer's disturbed mental state, and Raymond's attempt to break up a fight involving this man. Jumping to conclusions about these things causes hysteria and trivilizes hate crimes in general. Hate crimes are an especially heinous type of crime in which the motivation for harming someone is their minority status. Since motivation is the key consideration, we can't go calling every attack on a gay person a hate crime. Gay people get attacked for a lot of the same reasons straight people get attacked. In Raymond's case, the unsupervised release of a mentally ill violent man is real reason for anyone to "rage", and until there is more evidence given to the public about what happened, the gay community should back off trying to leverage this as "gay hate" issue.
Mark, Vancouver BC
04/18/12 6:44 PM EST
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Fondly Remember Raymond.
I will miss Raymond. I met him during our work together, when involved at the regional, provincial, and national levels of Youth Parliaments (1979-84). He was a very caring tender person. I have a very nice inscription in a bible he gave me in 1984, and many photos and memories of him. I pray that the many lives, he touched in spirit and action, remember his caring and thoughtful demenour. God bless him and welcome him.
John Shaw, Toronto ON
04/18/12 7:07 PM EST
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Ed's note
Hi Mark. You write, "Sure he said 'faggot,' but that doesn't determine the matter. If that were the case, can you imagine how many assaults would be labelled hate crimes?" It doesn't strike me as unreasonable to suggest that assaults during which the assailant calls the victim faggot are hateful and homophobic. The penultimate argument of this piece is that too many are too hesitant to call these sorts of attacks hateful or homophobic. As for your suggestion that the assailant's mental state is to blame, by all means let's ask the hard questions of the health authorities who relased the accused. But regardless, the attacker obviously came to the conclusion - he learned somewhere, somehow - that faggot is the word to use while killing a gay man in front of a gay bar. I wonder also about your suggestion that the gay community ought not to leverage this as a gay issue. Though I don't profess to be the voice of the gay community, I do feel the need to ask: leverage it to what end? Taavel's murder is not an opportunity to be exploited, and I frankly resent the implication. Hysteria? These events call for clear-eyed and determined activism against the murders of gay people. Gay people ought to feel entitled to demand justice in cases like this for their own sakes and the sakes of their friends and lovers. They ought not to hesitate, mired in doubt about about what is hateful or not?
Matt Mills, Toronto Ont
04/18/12 7:32 PM EST
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Homophobia Inc.
When your primary motivation is increased page views - and recently Xtra has offered readers no reason to believe it exists for any other reason (that and a soapbox for Popert) - it's in your best interests to turn tragedy into eyeballs on ads. And as Xtra.ca hasn't seen as many readers as it did since the last gay man was murdered under horrible circumstances, any reason to tie the two together has got to be good for the Pink Triangle Press bottom line. We can only hope that out of this awful attack Xtra is able to find some solace by increasing its ad rates.
Turn hate into $$$, Halifax NS
04/18/12 8:49 PM EST
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Eds note
Turn, the first thing I learned about gay news when I started this career is that there's no money it. You are wrong about my motivations and the motivations of others at PTP. You are wrong about the traffic volume and patterns on Xtra.ca. You are wrong and kind of a coward to hide behind a veil of anonymity as you make such nonsensical charges, and you are wrong to attempt to twist a dialogue about a brutally murdered gay man into something else, something small and petty. Go do something constructive with yourself. Make something.
Matt Mills, Toronto Ont
04/18/12 9:15 PM EST
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Ed
Great and thought out response to both Mark & Turn. It's easy to pass judgement on others...apparently were all still learning fresh lessons and have a ways to go in that regard.
G.Ferguson, Barrie On
04/18/12 9:26 PM EST
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Weak criminal justice laws
The responsibility for the murder of Raymond Taavel appears to rest primarily on: (1) the officials of the Halifax psychiatric hospital who released the alleged killer, Andre Denny, on one-hour pass (according to news reports, the alleged killer is mentally ill and was sent to the hospital as a result of previous violent crimes for which he escaped prison as a result of being declared not criminally responsible for his actions); and (2) weak criminal justice laws that give lax treatment to mentally ill people who commit violent crimes (e.g., allowing them out on day passes).
Jeff, Toronto Ontario
04/18/12 9:30 PM EST
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Hate Crimes are PC
I understand your concern if many in your GLBT community do not. It is a concern I have with new zealand criminal justice. We have a conservative govt that was elected by a majority of new zealanders who were tired of what they considered Politically Correct Rhetoric. The basis of the social and economic policies of this current regime's predecessor govt - new zealand Labour Party, was formed and inspired on respect and honour of diverse communities that formed the nation. That diversity included glbt and thrust Hate Crimes ammendments into our Crimes Act. But at a cost. Because many believed such ammendments were nothing more than grandstanding PC. With the loss of the elections based on this criticism by the majority of new zealanders, I see that what you are saying is likely to happen here as well, where police and courts will view Hate Crimes as nothing more than PC Rhetoric not worth pursuing.
nathan, Wellington Wellington
04/19/12 12:15 AM EST
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yeah, matt
you're the judge and jury on that, eh? what's more sad and tragic is that you're still clawing onto your job and accusing people of things you cannot prove. Did you ever think you got picked on as a kid because you were some weasly twerp who was destined to write crap like this? You know what's funny... you're probably laughing after reading this, thinking (hey, I got a reaction) and that's because you're a weasly twerp who grew up to write shit like this.
Chad, London Ontario
04/19/12 5:37 AM EST
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Ed's note
Chad, the judge and jury on what? We've wrestled with a lot of points here. I actually grew up in London. I wasn't picked on as a kid, though I did get in a fight or two. I was fine, perhaps only because I was bigger, stronger and faster than most people my age. I didn't enjoy growing up in London much because I felt I needed to hide my sexuality - it was outright physically dangerous to be out in that city at that time - but I got along well and was fortunate to be able to flee the city in the summers, spending them canoeing, hiking and camping, mostly around Georgian Bay and later across the country. Today I'm actually quite secure in my job thanks very much. I could make much more money elsewhere. I could, in virtually any other job, avoid petty pot-shots from anonymous online trolls with large chips on their shoulders who know nothing about me. But I choose to work in gay press because it is a chance to effect positive change for gay people. My motivation can best be described as a desire for social justice, a desire to build a better world. Frankly, as time goes by, the most increasingly difficult part of my job is finding capable editors and contributors who either haven't been totally sucked-in by the end-of-gay our-movement's-all-done propaganda or who haven't decided they don't want to contribute to gay press anymore because they don't want to face the personal jabs and vitriol meted out online by the assimilationist crowd. Once again, this ought to be a dialogue about a murdered gay man, and you've attempted to twist it into something else. Go do something with yourself. Make something.
Matt Mills, Toronto Ont
04/19/12 6:44 AM EST
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Ed's note
I've been uncomfortable for some time with the term "hate crime." Despite what others have written in the comments here, you'll notice that it appears only twice in my piece above; once in a direct quote from a policeman, once to paraphrase the arguments put forward by others. I don't actually call for police or prosecutors to treat Taavel's murder as a hate crime. I don't use the term directly to describe what happened to him. "Hatefully" is as close as I get. It's because the term has been so loaded, its meaning so muddled and diffused over the years, that it seems now virtually useless as a tool for activism, dialogue or argument. Break it down: Taavel was attacked steps from a gay bar by a man he didn't know who called him a faggot while grinding his head into the pavement until he was dead. That is a hate crime by any measure. "Hate crime" fits perfectly. But it's almost as if the term has been co-opted. And it's deeply worrisome to me that the dialogue on this matter immediately shifts from "a gay man was randomly murdered so let's do everything we can to ensure it doesn't happen again," to "Now, now, let's all stay calm and be careful not to call this a hate crime when we don't know if it is or not." Give your head a shake. Perhaps we need to take this term back..... You know what else is damn conspicuous? The overall tenor and quality of the comments on this piece as it appears on facebook is completely different from that which appears on this story page. WTF?
Matt Mills, Toronto Ont
04/19/12 7:04 AM EST
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re: yeah, matt
YOU ARE MISSING THE POINT. You just said you had a good life in London, ON and "I wasn't picked on as a kid, though I did get in a fight or two." RIIIIIIGHT. a) you WERE bullied as a kid, and b) you left because you didn't have the guts to be a gay man in London. Oh, and c) you're the one who can't find another job in real press because d) you write blatant lies in columns like this because "haven't been totally sucked-in by the end-of-gay our-movement's-all-done propaganda" Oh, and let's not forget e) this comment is not just about a gay man who was attacked and killed. It's work like yours that only serves to spread dissent and confusion. f) where are the real job offers? you obviously can't be happy writing delusional propaganda like this from an office in Toronto about things that happened in Nova Scotia????
Chad, London Ontario
04/19/12 9:12 AM EST
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Even editorials have to be accurate
Your conclusion is not based on evidence you have at hand. You weren't at the scene of either crime, nor did you state you interviewed witnesses or police who might have inside information. It's a supposition. Even editorials have to be factually accurate, I shouldn't have to remind you.
Joe Clark, Toronto ON
04/19/12 9:14 AM EST
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Re: Even editorials have to be accurate
Hey Joe, check out some of Matt's previous work. In this so-called hate crime, Matt wrote: Brandon Wright, who on Sep 8 leaped bleeding from a moving truck to escape a man who wanted to punish him for being gay: http://www.xtra.ca/public/National/Gay_man_savagely_attacked_in_London_UPDATED_Oct_1-7482.aspx That quote was removed because like Matt (who has direct access to monitor this site is covering his tracks. Read the real story, which was released after the court case: http://www.lfpress.com/news/london/2011/04/26/18070166.html
James, London ON
04/19/12 9:27 AM EST
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“It's so Gay”
Chad from London is just a mean cynical asshole who sounds as deranged as the psychotic murderer in Halifax. A man was murdered and Chad has no compassion for him. A Gay man was murdered while being called a Faggot. That sounds quite hateful to me. Whether the murderer has psychiatric disorders or not, he killed a man while uttering vile insults. The psychiatric disorders may intensify his hate --but not create it from nothing. And let's not forget that “Faggot!!” yelled with blood curdling rage, or quiet suppressed rage, is the standard insult used by straight men against each other or any man who they dislike. The Faggot insult is the worst insult. “It's so Gay” is a similar passive aggressive insult. Gay insults are are everywhere in society. It is not surprising that a deranged man would pick up on this and project all his pent up rage on a Gay man --Faggot-- whom he sees not as a human being, but only as a focus for society's insults.
Joe, Tor ON
04/19/12 9:47 AM EST
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Don't you love the ever present
"extenuating circumstances."? The gay community, especially the 18-40 crowd makes me sick. They have completely turned their back on Gay Men as whole. And the "queers(?)" totally accept shiite because they believe they have equal rights, so not only are they a pathetic lot they are also apparently fucking stupid! They are a disgrace. NO great artists, no great writers, no great politicians, no great designers, just a bunch of queers(tm) walking around like zombies on ssri's, buying trinkets, texting and organizing facebook shiite. And ever willing accepting "extenuating circumstances".
Chris, Toronto ON
04/19/12 9:48 AM EST
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Ed's note
James, you're delusional. If I used this site to censor news items or petty comments, yours wouldn't be here. Wright behaved badly and didn't reveal the whole story to us in our initial investigation. Myros chose not to speak with our reporters. If he had, his story would have been included in our coverage. And the Free Press piece is an account of what transpired in court, not an analysis piece on hate crimes against gay men. This this is just another tale in which a gay man got roughed up and was summarily dismissed from the dialogue, found guilty in the court of public opinion of earning his beating, as soon as a football player argued that the man's sexuality was not the reason for the brutal physical attack he perpetuated. Once again, do you think it would be appropriate on this story, on this page, to talk about the dead gay man, Raymond Taavel, in Halifax?
Matt Mills, Toronto Ont
04/19/12 9:52 AM EST
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re: editor's note
the issue is about how you're trying to muddle truth which you've done in the past. And you're muddling the truth now. You say "Though I don't profess to be the voice of the gay community". Editorial are supposed to be voice of the paper, not the person writing it. Did you know that? No you didn't. Isn't Xtra supposed to be the voice of the gay community? Not with actions like yours. I can see why there aren't too many people looking for Matt to join them in the real world of journalism. At best, your piece is nothing but a bad blog entry. You say "This this is just another tale in which a gay man got roughed up and was summarily dismissed from the dialogue" btw: Brendan Wright talked in court. The truth came out that he connived a big, dumb stupid and desperate HETEROSEXUAL former jock desperate for money into receiving a blowjob. He took advantage of someone who was slow and desperate for money. http://crimesagainstmodels.blogspot.ca/2011/08/alex-myros-scammed-in-porn-modeling.html
Chad, London ON
04/19/12 11:26 AM EST
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Ed's note
Chad, um columns express the voices of their authors, they don't magically write themselves, nor are they written by newspapers. I'm not sure how you concluded Xtra should be the voice of the gay community. The publication has never been nor ever wanted to be all things to all people. You seem to be suggesting that Xtra ought to publish material that you agree with. As for your nonsense about what I'm trying to do and have tried to do in the past, I've written above here about my motivations and only I have access to my own thoughts. You certainly don't. As for your truth-muddling crap, it's a bit underhanded of you to accuse any journalist or editor of non-specific truth muddling. And once again, this is a dialogue about a dead man in Halifax, yet you seem to want to twist it into something else. Shame on you. Why don't you do something constructive instead of tearing blindly at someone else's work?
Matt Mills, Toronto Ont
04/19/12 12:31 PM EST
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re: Matt's not a journalist
matt, YOU ARE MISSING THE POINT. the only thing you seem to be able to do is twist SHIT and you're doing a good job with that. Why? Because you're an oversensitive weasel and you think the world only happens through your interpretation: a centralized Toronto office with a manager who cannot write news. And why are you writing news anyway? Perhaps you're too bad to work with that writers and staff run away from you. Editorials are discussed by the team and then written. Columns are the opinions of writers. Looks like you missed journalism 101. And I'm not accusing a journalist because YOU'RE NOT A REAL JOURNALIST. who knows how this man died. we'll never know the truth with your crap. btw: you WERE bullied as a kid and you lied about it in your earlier comment.
Boris, London ON
04/19/12 1:03 PM EST
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Ed's note
???? That's all just wrong. You sir, are a knucklehead.
Matt Mills, Toronto Ont
04/19/12 1:11 PM EST
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difference between an editorial and a column
Everybody: Matt Mills, editorial director of Pink Triangle Press, doesn't know the difference between an editorial and a column. Look at these links, folks: http://www.nytimes.com/ref/membercenter/faq/timesselectqa14.html Editorials are written by individual New York Times editorial board members in consultation with their colleagues and editors and reflect the opinions of the diverse, 16-member Times editorial board. The editorial page editor answers directly to The Times’s publisher. (from New York Times's website) or just type in Google: difference between a column and an editorial You're the knucklehead, Matt.
Chad, London Ontario
04/19/12 1:18 PM EST
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Ed's note
??? What does the New York Times have to do with Xtra? What does any of this have to do with Raymond Taavel? You must have some personal gripe against me and/or Xtra Chad, er Boris, er whomever. I hope you find peace with it at some point. You should put it down, try something else, move on with your life. It's just all a bit weird.
Matt Mills, Toronto Ont
04/19/12 1:23 PM EST
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I like good journalism. You're definitely not it
Matt, what does your biased and inflammatory article/opinion piece have to do with writing editorials? Nothing. It has nothing to do with editorial writing. News management is news management. It's standard. You can look at local Canadian papers and get the same concept. btw: I have nothing against Xtra. Maybe it's because you're so socially inept that you make enemies everywhere you go. But I have nothing against you. Going down on Ken enough will always keep you employed here. I'm guess he doesn't know the difference between an editorial and a column, either?
Whomever. . ., London ON
04/19/12 1:33 PM EST
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Ed's note
???You are missing some of your marbles.
Matt Mills, Toronto Ont
04/19/12 1:43 PM EST
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Hate Crimes are PC
Ed. The reason why Hate Crimes was ever mooted was because criminal law allowed accused to use extenuating circumstances to justify their actions and lower the extent of their punishment. Thus the homo defence allowed homophobic violence to be used because the accused was confronted by a gay approach. He was therefore entitled to physically defend his sexual preference. In other words, it was ok to beat or kill a homo - extenuating circumstances. With Hate Crime legislation, in the cases of violence against homos, the law excluded the homo defence, if it was proved that the violence was proved to be inspired by homophobic intent. The Hate Crimes law is based on respect of difference and its protection. However many in our communities do not understand this. They don't see that not prosecuting cases in court for Hate Crimes will result to a lesser punishment and in some cases the homo defence.
Nathan, Wellington New Zealand
04/19/12 5:08 PM EST
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Ed's note
Nathan, quite right. Well put.
Matt Mills, Toronto Ont
04/19/12 5:21 PM EST
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Drowning
Editorial writers are drowning when they need a surplus of words to justify themselves. A strongly written editorial should stand on its own. They shouldn't need to justify themselves to the meandering "trolls."
Randy, Ottawa Ontario
04/19/12 6:43 PM EST
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Re: Matt Mills is Drowning
While I'm not a meandering troll but I know the difference between an editorial and a column. Pink Triangle Press' editorial director doesn't. And I just proved it. Read above. . .
Chad, London Ontario
04/19/12 7:04 PM EST
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Quiet please, respect those dear dead men!
One remembers the crash and burn career trajectory of Gareth Kirkby, "editorialist", who also needed to "explain" himself ad nauseum and now scrapes gum off the paper boxes. Though actually Matt is probably the brightest star who has graced the Xtra Inc. cash cow. The problems at Xtra are at a level higher. Now everybody quiet please, respect those dear dead men!
Monica, Vancouver BC
04/19/12 7:28 PM EST
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