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Tuesday, June 18, 2013

Amanda Ryan's C-279 letter to senators

A member of Ottawa trans support group Gender Mosaic has sent an honest and thought-provoking letter to Canada’s senators urging them to support MP Randall Garrison’s trans rights bill, C-279.

Ryan and fellow Gender Mosaic members Sophia Cassivi, Rachelle Gauvin and Janne Charboneau attended the June 10 Senate committee meeting on human rights that saw a majority of witnesses testify in favour of the bill.

Ryan told Xtra afterward that while she is optimistic the bill will pass, she is apprehensive about celebrating too soon.

“I am kind of sitting on a bubble right now, and that bubble seems like it’s very fragile,” she said. “The numbers seem to be there, but until the vote and we actually stand up and cheer, I am going to sit on that bubble and hope it doesn’t burst.”

The bill’s Senate sponsor, Grant Mitchell, says he will try to get the bill to third reading before the end of June.

Read Ryan’s full letter below:

 

Dear Senator _________,

My name is Amanda and I am proudly Trans.

I came out of my closet 12 years ago after being firmly entrenched there for 35 years. The closet is a horrible place to be. Nobody should be sentenced to that kind of confinement simply because some segments of society think there is something wrong with us. Lack of visibility combined with a lack of public education make it all too easy to discriminate against us.

Much has changed in the 12 years since I have been out of my closet. Things are definitely getting better. The Trans community is becoming more visible and can no longer be ignored. We can no longer be pushed aside as a minor annoyance. We have the right to be the persons we truly are.

It has been suggested by some opponents of Bill C-279 that efforts should be concentrated on helping Trans people find medical assistance rather than on their rights. Well, I did seek out counseling and the help of support groups. When I told the counselor that I crossdressed, she simply said, “So?” Counseling and support groups helped me understand who I truly am and how to deal with this reality. I now understand that there is nothing wrong with me. I am normal. My body simply does not fit the gender I feel within me. I like who I am.

Bill C-279 has been called unnecessary and mostly symbolic. Quite the contrary. This bill is necessary. There are Trans people suffering discrimination on a regular basis. Groups that are promoting misleading concepts such as the "Bathroom Bill" and linking our community to pedophilia are the very reason we need discrimination protection. These are clearly discriminatory statements, bordering on being hate statements. We should be afraid of groups who are unwilling to understand us and unwilling to meet with us, yet actively promote these points of view.

And mostly symbolic? Well no ... not mostly. I agree that it has a strong symbolic value in that it would recognize the Trans community as an entity under the law. That would help us a great deal. I want to promote the Trans community to the public as a positive, contributing group of people within society. This bill will help me do that. More importantly, this bill will help Trans people believe in themselves.

Discrimination protection for Trans people needs to be explicit. We need to be able to tell employers that they can’t discriminate against someone simply because they are Trans. There are laws against that. There will be a positive impact even if the law is seldom used in a court or a human rights hearing.

We need this bill now. Not in the next government or subsequent ones. The amendment to add sex to the Criminal Code, though in itself very valid, could significantly delay or kill this bill entirely. This amendment should be a Government Bill that would easily pass the House and the Senate. This is our time. Let's prove to the world that we are on the right side of history.

Please help us take these last final steps through the Senate.

Amanda Ryan

Gender Mosaic Outreach Committee Chair

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Friday, June 14, 2013

This week in 'controversial' advertising

While they are not on par with Benetton’s 2011 ad featuring Barack Obama and Hugo Chavez locking lips, this week saw the release of two advertisements that are generating mild controversy.

First up: the bigoted, misleadingly named subsidiary of hate-group the American Family Association, One Million Moms, is taking aim at the makers of every Canadian's favourite white-trash macaroni because of a print ad that ran in People featuring a semi-nude man on a picnic.

“Last week’s issue of People Magazine had the most disgusting ad on the inside front cover that we have ever seen Kraft produce,” Monica Cole, director of One Million Moms writes. “A full 2-page ad features a n*ked man lying on a picnic blanket with only a small portion of the blanket barely covering his g*nitals. It is easy to see what the ad is really selling. A person has to look closely to see the item the company is marketing because the salad dressing bottle is so small next to the male model, picnic basket. Kraft has gone too far and will push away loyal, conservative customers with this new ad campaign. Christians will not be able to buy Kraft dressings or any of their products until they clean up their advertising. The consumers they are attempting to attract – women and mothers – are the very ones they are driving away. One Million Moms cannot get over the gall of this company. It is unnecessary for Kraft to use s*x to sell salad dressing! (An asterisk is used to ensure our emails get through to those who have signed up to receive our alerts. Otherwise, referencing specific words would cause our emails to be blocked by some Internet filters.)”

If the 5,000 or so repressed individuals who make up this group boycott Kraft, I doubt it will affect the company’s profits. Perhaps they could make homemade salad dressing. May I suggest a flavourful cyanide vinaigrette?

Moving on: a harmless commercial for Cheerios, which I would have called “progressive” in the 1990s, drew ire in the form of YouTube comments because it depicts an interracial couple.

The YouTube detractors were so harsh, referencing Nazis and racial genocide, that commenting was disabled.

"Consumers have responded positively to our new Cheerios ad. At Cheerios, we know there are many kinds of families and we celebrate them all," Camille Gibson, VP of marketing at Cheerios, told Gawker.

The commercial, titled "Just Checking," proved two things to me that I already knew and have no problem with: people of different ethnicities get married and have children; and no matter what racial combination the two parents are, some of their kids will be stupid.

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Tuesday, June 11, 2013

No Pants Dance Party

Ottawa’s pants-optional party is making its return this weekend, but organizer Miss Helvetica Bold says the burlesque performances aren’t the main attraction.

“It's probably the only burlesque show in town where the performance is not the main draw for the evening,” she says. “It's the interaction and the freedom to celebrate all of our different bodies with a large group of people who just want to love themselves and be in a respectful environment. The burlesque and drag performances are just to add a little extra spice, and, after seeing the show, many patrons take off a layer and check it in the pants check at the door.”

Performers at this year’s event include Bold, Gypsy Laroux, Rhapsody Blue, Sahara Starr and Sweetpea, of Rockalily Burlesque.

In addition to the scantily clad performers, the sixth annual No Pants Dance Party features a bake sale, with goodies by Auntie Loo’s Treats. Proceeds from the bake sale and pants check will benefit PTS.

No Pants Dance Party

Sat, June 15, 9pm

Babylon Nightclub, 317 Bank St

$10 

 

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Saturday, June 8, 2013

Five songs for Best Friends Day

In several European countries, Valentine’s Day is dubbed “Friendship Day” to alleviate the pain of singledom. But we’re not as sensitive here in North America, and June 8 is its own unofficial holiday, known as Best Friends Day.

Whether you fondly remember your younger days of revelry with close friends (Japandroids), have a love/hate liaison with your comrades (Wavves) or are envious of a sidekick's love connection (Now, Now), here are five songs that dissect and celebrate the complexities of platonic relationships.

“You’re My Best Friend,” Queen

“School Friends,” Now, Now

“Younger Us,” Japandroids 

“Friends 'Til the End,” Millencolin

“Green Eyes,” Wavves Bookmark and Share


Friday, June 7, 2013

The Ottawa Wolves go Overboard

This weekend don’t be surprised if you see a boatload of bears cruising down the Ottawa River.

Local queer rugby team the Ottawa Wolves host the Overboard boat cruise Saturday, June 8 and past Wolves president Johnny Festarini says ticket sales will go toward general operating expenses as well as allow the team to compete in Australia’s Bingham Cup in 2014.

The Ottawa rugby season just kicked off, and both the men’s and women’s teams played their first matches last week. But the male Wolves got an early start this year, Festarini says.

“The men attended a tournament in May, hosted by the Chicago Dragons, where we competed against seven other teams from across the US. We made it to the third-place final, but ultimately lost to the Charlotte Royals,” he says.

The Wolves will host the Beaver Bowl this summer, and the tournament will coincide with Capital Pride, a coincidence that is particularly exciting, Festarini says.

Montreal DJ Stephan Grondin will act as Overboard’s resident beat master.

Overboard

Sat, June 8, 6:30pm

Jacques Cartier Park Wharf

To purchase tickets, visit the Wolves’ official site or Wilde’s at 367 Bank St.

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Tuesday, June 4, 2013

An interview with poet Blaine Marchand

Gay writer Blaine Marchand, a former president of the League of Canadian Poets, will read from his collection The Craving of Knives June 5 at the Ottawa Art Gallery. A former diplomat who lived in Pakistan for many years, Marchand shares his insight into an often misunderstood country with Xtra. Marchand is currently working on two additional collections inspired by his travels in Pakistan and the Kitchissippi ward of Ottawa.

Xtra: You lived in Pakistan for two years. Was there any aspect of the culture of Pakistan that surprised you?

Blaine Marchand: I had visited and travelled in Pakistan and in Afghanistan for six years prior to living there so was quite familiar with things in that region of the world. Pakistani and Afghan culture are quite vibrant, particularly [in the] folklore and literary [sense]. Poetry, in particular, has a prized place in the hearts of people of that region. One thing I do feel is that Pakistan is portrayed negatively in the media, sometimes deserved, but a one-sided view. What one does not hear about is the generosity and kindness of the people, which is contrary to how many people here perceive the country and its people. This is one of the reasons that I proposed to Vallum, a journal of international poetics based in Montreal, to do a special issue devoted to Pakistani poetry in English. I am very proud of that issue and returned to Pakistan in March to launch it there.

Is there a gay scene in Pakistan? How does their culture treat gays and lesbians?

To be honest, as I was there as a diplomat, I did not become involved in the gay scene. But I know it is there, from private parties to cruising to people "sharing” accommodation, despite the illegality of same-sex acts and relationships. The strident anti-gay position comes from a mixture of ongoing colonial laws and Islamic beliefs. Marriage and family are strong forces in Pakistan. Homosexuality is a threat to that. There is an incredible pressure from parents for their sons and daughters, who they do not know are gay, to marry. Interestingly, in 2009, the Pakistan Supreme Court officially protected the civil rights of transgender people, called hijras, who long ago had roles as court eunuchs and who today dance at weddings. They are often seen in markets or on streets, sometimes begging but often just going about their daily routine. However, they, no doubt, continue to suffer discrimination and harassment. There was a popular TV show while I was there on which the host dressed as a woman and interviewed many high-placed people. But he wore a sari, not the shalwar kameez women in Pakistan wear, and he claimed he was straight. Who knows?

I do have some Pakistani friends who are gay, but they live quietly, fear for their lives and [fear of] being blackmailed. Some are not sexually active. That said, I did meet two young artists from Lahore who were lovers and had a show in Islamabad called, appropriately enough, Blue Boy. Lahore is a vibrant, artistic and in many ways a liberal city. But these artists told me they felt much freer to have their show in Islamabad because the presence of foreigners in the capital city makes it more tolerant and open to gays.

Pakistan was one of five Islamic countries that stonewalled approval of a UN resolution that sought to protect all persons no matter their sexual orientation. The US embassy held a LGBT event in 2011, to support gay rights. There was an outcry and demonstrations about it.

You are working on a collection of poems inspired by the Kitchissippi area of Ottawa, which encompasses Westboro and Mechanicsville. What is it about this area of Ottawa that inspires you?

I grew up in this area of Ottawa, formerly called Ottawa West. With the exception of a 10-year exile in the Glebe, it is the area of the city I always have lived in. Like many areas of Ottawa, it is in transition, unfortunately, not always for the best. As I think back on my younger years and the landmarks for myself and my friends, many of these no longer exist. I find myself trying to recapture that era in prose poems. I was originally afraid they would merely be nostalgic, but the poems take turns that I do not expect. It is not only about the buildings or businesses that don't exist, but about the people, the characters, who lived here at one time.

Ottawa was recently voted the most boring city in the country. As a writer who draws inspiration from the city, do you disagree?

I disagree. For decades, Ottawa has always been portrayed as boring, just as Toronto continues to be the city most Canadians love to hate. Boring is another code word for hate. But there is a difference between the political scene, which I must admit I find endlessly fascinating -- currently the Senate problems reek of what the Greeks called hubris -- and the city itself. I think the art scene is very vibrant. The gay scene has, over the decades, become more and more a part of the fabric of everyday life. We may not have as many galleries or as many theatres, but we do have good ones that put on great shows. Ottawa is a beautiful city. As someone who bicyles everywhere, it is perfect city for being on two wheels. The landscape here is an integral part of it. I really respond to that. And the access to the countryside is great. You know in many ways, Ottawa and Islamabad are similiar cities -- here we have the Gatineau Hills, there the Margalla; there is the politics and then there is the city itself -- although it is often said that Islamabad is not like any other Pakistani city -- orderly and tidy.

Where would you say you drew inspiration from for your collection The Craving of Knives?

The Craving of Knives was a collection I suppressed for a long time. Most of the poems were written when I was coming out in my mid-30s. It is a dark book about aspects of my life as a gay man, although not all of the poems are drawn from my life. Some are imaginative retellings of incidents in friends' lives and their struggles with sex and relationships. Initially, I thought it was just a series of occasional poems but then realized there was more to it. Once I realized this, I decided to allow the manuscript to be published. I did not write poems for many years after publishing my first gay collection, Bodily Presence. In those years, I was travelling in Afghanistan and meeting Afghan refugees, who continually talked about poetry and quoted it. I began to realize that if they, with their struggles, could use their voices poetically, then why couldn't I? I was censoring myself. Publishing The Craving of Knives was liberation; I was no longer a refugee and returned to poetry, a literary form I have written since Grade 7, inspired by my teacher who recited poetry in class. She was the first person who said to me, “You could be a writer.”

AB Series presents Blaine Marchand, Adam Dickinson and Meredith Quartermain

Wed, June 5, 7:30pm

Ottawa Art Gallery, Arts Court

Free (a hat will be passed around) 

 
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Saturday, June 1, 2013

Commencement speeches by queer celebrities

Classes have ended for the majority of Canadian university and college students, but high school pupils will have to sweat it out for a few more weeks.

If you’re a queer try-hard who will be delivering your graduating class’s commencement speech, you can find inspiration from one of the many gay and lesbian celebrities who have talked up tomorrow’s movers and shakers.

From Jane Lynch’s humble and hilarious 2012 Smith College speech to Anderson Cooper’s 2010 Tulane delivery, personal stories usually play best with no-longer-undergrad audiences.

Rachel Maddow, Smith College, 2010

Jane Lynch, Smith College, 2012 Anderson Cooper, Tulane, 2010

Ellen DeGeneres, Tulane, 2009  Bookmark and Share


Tuesday, May 28, 2013

Old electronics can benefit YSB

Mooney’s Bay Computer (MBC) will host an e-waste collection event June 1 that will also act as a fundraiser for Youth Services Bureau (YSB).

The event is part of the broader Ontario Electronic Stewardship (OES) electronic waste recycling program. As of 2010, 44 types of electronic items, from cellphones to computers, are accepted at more than 600 approved collection sites across the province.

In addition to recycling old electronics, the program retrieves precious base metals. OES cites the medals awarded at the Vancouver Olympics, which contained recycled base metals, as an example of repurposing these discarded elements.

According to OES, 82 percent of households have at least one electronic item that does not work or is not being used. The goal of the program is to keep these out-of-order electronics that contain hazardous materials out of landfills.

“The charities that the event benefits are really important to everyone here,” MBC media contact Rachel Alexis says.

“YSB’s walk-in mental-health clinic is a great resource for teenagers. It’s totally unrealistic to assume that your kids will speak to you about all of their issues, and the repercussions of not speaking can be tragic,” Alexis says. “A walk-in mental-health clinic, and the services that stem from those visits, are vital to some kids. We’re raising as much as we can in order to ensure that the YSB is able to continue to offer this kind of help.”

Previous MBC e-waste fundraisers benefited Do It for Daron’s (DIFD) youth mental-health services and the Children’s Aid Society.

If you are unable to attend but have unwanted electronics, visit the OES website to find the closest OES-approved collection site.

Mooney's Bay Computer e-waste fundraiser

Sat, June 1

733 Ridgewood Ave 

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Saturday, May 25, 2013

Logo's Felt

Lamar and Donald are two men in a 10-year relationship. Their partnership is “happy and good,” but Lamar is concerned that the spark may be dying because Donald is not hitting the gym enough.

“I’ve told him, from the beginning, that I’m very turned on by a body that is physically fit,” Lamar says.

“For the record, I’m not 300 pounds,” Donald snaps back.

This couple is putting their personal problems on television for everyone to see -- well, to hear. Lamar and Donald are one of the many couples who have agreed to have their therapy sessions recorded and reenacted with puppets in exchange for free advice on Logo’s new series Felt.

The brainchild of producers Maris Berzins, Diana Nguyen and Micah Fitzerman-Blue, Felt also features a dyke couple in their 30s who are suffering from “lesbian bed death” and Christians in their 20s who think they jumped into matrimony too soon.

“Puppets have a charm to them; they’re cute, they make things fun,” consulting producer Kirk Thatcher, who is an alum of another hilarious puppet show, Crank Yankerstold The New York Times. “Part of it is the physicality. They don’t have legs. A puppet with a dildo is funny, because it’s flopping around.”

 

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Wednesday, May 22, 2013

Tone Cluster's Words

Queer choir Tone Cluster aims to address the realities of bullying with its upcoming concert, which will feature students from two Ottawa high schools.

Tone Cluster previously dedicated a song to Jamie Hubley, who committed suicide in 2011 after being bullied for his sexual orientation, and the choir’s musical director, Kurt Ala-Kantti, says an entire concert focused on bullying is a natural progression for the collective.

Titled Words, the concert will feature selections from Lady Gaga and Oscar Peterson.

The choir performed at Nepean High School earlier this month, and although Ala-Kantti was told the students were “a tough crowd,” the performance, which included students and choir members discussing their experiences with bullying, was well received, he says.

Students from Nepean High School and St Peter’s Catholic High School will join Tone Cluster on stage for Words.

“There will be 125 in the choir,” Ala-Kantti says. “It should be a great, big sound.”

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